Xa sigqiba unyaka, kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukujonga ngasemva kwaye sibone ukuba ingakanani inkqubela esele siyenzile kwaye siqwalasele ezo "zingqubekayo" zinokwenzeka apho siye sakhubeka khona ngaxa lithile. Ukuba sele uyibonile i-2017 yakho kwaye ufuna qala u-2018 kunyawo lwasekunene, ngendlela engcono nangamandla ngakumbi ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukwindawo elungileyo nebonakalisiweyo.
Namhlanje siza kukunika Bezzia Izitshixo ezi-5 zokuqala unyaka kunyawo lwasekunene, kwicandelo lethu elikhethekileyo leengqondo. Ngenxa yokuba sonke sinamahla ndinyuka, kuba sonke sinezigaba apho sidimazeka ngakumbi, kuba ngamanye amaxesha uluntu lunyanzelisa ukusenza sikhubeke sibuye siphindaphinde, ... Nokuba siyintoni na isizathu sokuba ngamanye amaxesha uzifumane uphantsi, apha siyakhuthaza uphakame kwaye ungqishe uye phambili. Kungenxa yokuba sinobomi obunye kuphela, kwaye ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, kukuba sibuphile.
Izixhobo zokuphumelela ngo-2018
- Thatha isitokhwe se2017 yakho. Bathi ngokomgaqo jikelele, njengoko ixesha lihamba, sihlala sikhumbula amaxesha amnandi ngakumbi kunalawo mabi. U-2017 akakhange ahambe, ke kuya kuba sengqiqweni ukuba usakukhumbula okona kubi ngaphambi kokuhle okwenzekileyo kuwe. Cinga unyaka wonke, malunga neziganeko ezibalulekileyo ezikuphawulileyo, malunga nabantu abatsha odibene nabo (ejimini, emsebenzini, eyunivesithi, kwindawo ohlala kuyo, njlnjl.), Kwinkqubela obukuyo Ukwenza umsebenzi wakho, komnye umsebenzi owashiyileyo ukuze uqale ukufunda into oyifunayo, kolo thando lukumakishe kwaye usaqhubeka ngalo, njl. Cinga ngayo yonke into, elungileyo nembi, ... Ngale ndlela, uya kuyazi into oza kuyitshintsha ngo-2018 kwezo zinto zisemandleni akho onokuthi uziphucule.
- Zithini iinjongo okanye iinjongo oza kuzibekela zona? Nje ukuba uthathe isitokhwe sonyaka ka-2017, lixesha lokuba wenze uluhlu lwezo zindululo zidumileyo okanye iinjongo zonyaka ka-2018. Ngale ndlela siyakuqinisekisa ukuba siyathobelana nabo okanye ubuncinci sinabo kwimigudu engaphezulu okanye encinci
- Gcina isimo sengqondo esihle yonke imihla. Njengoko unyaka udlula, uyakugqitha njengakwizigaba zangaphambili, indlela yesiqhelo iya kufika, iintsuku ezimbi, iingxaki, ubunzima ... Kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Oko kuyaphila, ayisiyiyo yonke into enokonwaba kunye nolonwabo. Nangona kunjalo, iziphumo zezi ngxaki kunye nobunzima ziya kwahluka kakhulu kuxhomekeke kwisimo sakho ngakubo. Ukuba uzimisele, unamandla, unengqondo evulekileyo kwaye unethemba, kuya kuba lula kungekuphela ukujongana nabo kodwa nokuboyisa kwaye uqhubele kwenye into. Sisigqibo sakho ukuba ufuna ukuthatha njani izinto ezenzeka kuwe ... Awukhethi ukuba kwenzeka ntoni kuwe (ixesha elininzi), into onokuyikhetha sisimo sengqondo ojongana nayo yonke into eyenzekayo kuwe.
- Vumela ezo ntsuku zokungasebenzi. Sukuzibeka ityala ngenxa yokuba ngenye imini ungaziva unqwenela ukwenza nantoni na okanye ngenxa yokuba utyhafile ngeprojekthi ebonakala ngathi ayiqali kwaye iya phambili. Vumela ezi ntsuku "zokungabi namdla wokutya" ... Ziyimfuneko. Ewe kunjalo: sukusebenzisa! Usuku olunye lulungile, zimbini mhlawumbi nazo, kodwa azisekho.
- Yabelana ngento ofuna ukuqala ngayo, iinjongo kunye neenjongo zakho. Ukuba ujikelezwe ngabantu abakukhuthaza ukuba uziphucule, kungakuhle ukuba ungabelana nabo ngezi zigqibo zintsha kunye neenjongo ozibekele phambili kulo nyaka mtsha. Ukuthetha le mibono mitsha kunye namaphupha nosapho kunye nabahlobo bakho kukwenza ufune ngakumbi ukuzisebenzisa kwaye uzifezekise. Ngoba? Kuba baya kukubuza amaxesha ngamaxesha, kwaye baya "kukunyanzela" ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile ukubatyhalela phambili ... Uxinzelelo oluncinci luhlala lulungile ukuba sifuna ukufezekisa into.
Siyathemba kwaye sinethemba lokuba lo nyaka mtsha, u-2018, uqale ngenyawo lasekunene kwaye, ngaphezulu kwako konke, kuyaqhubeka ngoluhlobo. Inkuthazo enkulu kubo bonke yokujongana nayo yonke into ezayo.