Itekhnoloji entsha ngakumbi nangakumbi yaziswa kubomi babantwana, ukufumanisa umhlaba ugcwele iipilisi, ii-iPhones, iifowuni eziphathwayo zamva nje, njl. Konke oku kunokuba nenqaku lokufundisa ngenxa yesicelo esithile, nangona kunjalo, ukusetyenziswa okuqhubekayo kunye nokusetyenziswa kwemihla ngemihla kwezi zinto kunokukhokelela Ukuziphatha okuhle okuyingozi ebantwaneni.
Kuqheleke kakhulu namhlanje ukuba abantwana bafune ukuthengwa kweselfowuni kuba nomnye umhlobo unayo. Kodwa, bobabini abazali nabantwana kufuneka baqonde ukuba a Iselfowuni lilungelo kwaye ayilolungelo.
Kukho ezithile abazali abazikhuselayo umntwana wabo kakhulu kwaye, ngenxa yokuba bengababoni bebuhlungu kwaye bedimazekile okanye benomsindo kubo, benza konke ukuthanda komntwana. Nangona kunjalo, zombini ezi ndlela zokuzikhusela kakhulu zabazali emntwaneni, kunye nokusetyenziswa kwezi mfuno zixhaphazayo kunokukhokelela iingxaki zempilo kunye nokuziphatha besebancinci ezingenakulindeleka zisuswe kwixa elizayo.
Bungakanani ubudala ukuba abantwana babe neselfowuni?
Ungquzulwano lokuba nesixhobo sokungabinazo ezi zinto ngabazalwana, kuba ukuba omnye sele enayo, omnye uyasifuna, nokuba sincinci. Iminyaka ekucetyiswa ukuba abantwana baqale ukuba nomnxeba yile ukusukela kwiminyaka eli-11 ubudala kuba sele befikelele kwinqanaba elifanelekileyo lokuthenjwa kunye noxanduva.
Nangona kunjalo le ukuthembana noxanduva Kuya kufuneka inkqubela phambili njengoko bekhula ekusebenziseni. Oku kuthetha ukuba umzali unelungelo lokwazi umntwana wakhe ngokusetyenziswa kwesi sixhobo, kwaye esi sixhobo kufuneka sinoxanduva olucacileyo lokuba sisetyenziswa njani kwaye ayisiyo into yokudlala yokwenza izinto ezingafunekiyo.
Uxanduva lomntwana ngokunxulumene nokusetyenziswa kweselfowuni
- Sukuthumela imiyalezo ethukayo neyoyikisayo kwabanye abantu.
- Yisebenzise kwishedyuli ebekiweyoInto eqhelekileyo kuxa befika ekhaya okanye kuyo nayiphi na imeko engxamisekileyo esikolweni kude kube nge-21-22 ngokuhlwa.
- Yigcine rhoqo zilayishwe ngokuchanekileyo.
- Sukuyisebenzisa etafileni ngelixa besitya kunye nokwabelana nosapho.
- Gcina ukusebenza kwezixhobo kwi iimeko ezifanelekileyo.
- Yiba noxanduva lokufowuna kunye nemiyalezo, oku kuyakuchaphazela invoyisi, kwaye ukuba ibigqithile, beyiza kuhanjiswa kangangexesha elithile.
- Yazisa abazali ukuba fumana imiyalezo ekhubekisayo okanye iminxeba.
Leliphi ifuthe elibi kuye?
Isixhobo esinjengalesi kufuneka saziswe abantwana kancinci kancinci kwaye sichaze ngamazwi acacileyo ukuba ngu tsalela ukhuseleko lwakho apho ungenako ukwenza iminxeba emide kodwa wenze iifowuni ezingxamisekileyo okanye into enjalo.
Indima yabazali ibalulekile ebantwaneni kuba banobuntu bokulandela, ke kuya kufuneka misela umzekelo. Ngamaxesha athile akukho lula ukuba abazali balahle iselfowuni kodwa ukuba esi sixhobo sinikwa kuqala, abantwana baya kuyikopa, ngaloo ndlela kuchaphazela indlela abaziphethe ngayo.
Iziphumo eziphambili ezichaphazela esi sixhobo intlalontle. Ngale ndlela, abasenabo ubudlelwane bobuntu nabantu ababangqongileyo kodwa kungenxa yakhe, ke babenza babe bodwa ngakumbi, babathintele ekwabelaneni ngamathuba abalulekileyo nabahlobo babo.
Enye into engalunganga eziswa kukusetyenziswa kweselfowuni kukulahleka kwefayile ye- ukukwazi ukunxibelelana. Oko kukuthi, ukuthetha ngelixa ufinyeza amagama ukuwanciphisa kuya kuba neziphumo eziyintlekele ekubhaleni kwabo kwaye, ngakumbi kupelo, ke kuya kufuneka uqaphele ukurhoxa kwabo ngexesha.
Zeziphi izinto ekufuneka zilandelwe ukuze babe sele benazo?
Esi sixhobo kufuneka sibe sisixhobo se abazali bahlala benxibelelana nabantwana, ukwazi ukuba baphi, bahlala nabani kwaye bazobuyela nini ekhaya. Oku akuthethi ukuba singena kubucala bakho kodwa sinokufumanisa ukuba uphilile ngamaxesha athile, umzekelo, xa uphuma nabahlobo bakho.
Ukongeza, kufuneka babe amagosa maxa onke kwaye banxibelelane ukuba abazukuba nenye xa bephule. Kwakhona, kufuneka balazi ityala kwaye benze umsebenzi ekhaya ukugcina intlawulo ethile yesi sixhobo. Amakhadi ahlawulelwa kwangaphambili ayacetyiswa ukuze ibe ngabo abangena kwinxalenye yemali kwintlawulo yabo yeveki okanye yenyanga kuloo invoyisi, ke baya kuyilawula ngakumbi.
Elinye inyathelo lokuthathela ingqalelo ukuze babenako ukuyifumana yeyabo indlela yokuziphatha nokuziphatha. Oku akufuneki ukuba kubenakho okanye kungachaneki kubazali okanye kwabanye abantu ngenxa yomnxeba, ke ukurhoxa kwangexesha akukhathazi.
Ukugqiba, a umvuzo olungileyo okanye isohlwayo esihle kukunikezelwa okanye ukususwa kwesi sixhobo. Umzekelo, xa amabakala akhe esikolweni ephantsi kwaye indlela aziphethe ngayo iyoyikeka, okanye ukuba bebemhle unyaka wonke kwaye bemfuna ngeholide yeKrisimesi okanye yeeKumkani ezintathu.