IKrisimesi lixesha lombhiyozo elithi, nangona kunjalo, kwabaninzi, livelise uxinzelelo kunye nexhala xa kufuneka bajamelane neendibano zentlalontle, uxanduva kunye nolindelo. Ngaba unoxinzelelo malunga nokuthenga iKrisimesi? Ngaba awukwazi ukuzibamba kodwa ucinge ngeendleko? Namhlanje sabelana ngamaqhinga ukuze ukwazi ukuyilawula ngeyona ndlela ilungileyo.
Ukuba awukathengi iKrisimesi okwangoku, lixesha lokuba ujongane nazo. Namhlanje sijonga ezinye iingcebiso ezinokukunceda lawula ngcono ezi zithengo ukuze ufike ngeentsuku eziphambili zeKrisimesi ukhululekile kwaye ungabandezeleki kakhulu xa uchithe uhlalutya iindleko.
Ngaba iindleko uyacinezela? Cwangcisa kwaye uzilindele kwangaphambili
IKrisimesi i ixesha leendleko ezininzi ekubeni izipho esizihambisayo njengentsapho zidityaniswa nabanye abafana neemenyu okanye uhambo lwentsapho kunye nemisebenzi. Kwaye kulula ukuchitha imali eninzi kunokuba sifuna, siqhutywa yinkohliso okanye uxinzelelo lwentlalo. Ukuba unexhala lokuphucula kunye nokuphelisa ukuchitha ngaphezulu kunokuba ubufanele, cwangcisa iindleko zakho!
Emva kokuba uSeptemba edlulile, lindela ukuthenga okuthile. Lungiselela i Iimenyu zeKrisimesi uze wonge ngokuthenga ukutya okunyuka kwamaxabiso njengoko kusondela iKrismesi, okufana nenyama, ukutya kwaselwandle okanye intlanzi. Kananjalo ungalindi de kufike uDisemba ukuze uthenge izipho.
Lubeke phambili olunye uhlobo lwesipho
Uninzi lwenu lulinda de kube ngumhla woku-XNUMX kuDisemba ukuthenga izipho zeKrisimesi kunye ne-Epiphany ukuze nikwazi ukunikela, kunye nesipho, itikiti lesipho oko kukuvumela ukuba uyitshintshe okanye uyibuyisele. Kwi Bezzia Siyakukhuthaza, nangona kunjalo, ukuba ubeke phambili ezinye iintlobo zezipho kwaye uzithenge kwangaphambili ukunqanda izihlwele eziqhelekileyo zexesha lonyaka.
Ukungaxhomekeki kwitikiti lesipho kunye nokubeka phambili ezinye iintlobo zezipho mhlawumbi sesona sigqibo sihle ndisenze malunga neKrisimesi kwiminyaka yakutshanje. Kwaye kukho izinto ezininzi ezilukhetho oluhle njengesipho kwaye unakho ukufumana unyaka wonke: amaqhekeza obugcisa, iziqwenga zokuhombisa, amatikiti okuya ekonsathini okanye imiboniso, amava... Zizizipho zobuqu ezidla ngokufika singazijonganga kuba sikhumbula nje loo mntu xa sizibona.
Zibekele imali
Ukumisela uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali oluphezulu kuphela kwendlela yokungachithi imali engaphezulu kunoko sifuna ukuyichitha. Ngaphezu koko, ungaya phambili kwaye kanye usete fumana imali kwaye uyahlulahlule kwizinto ezahlukeneyo: zombini ukutya, zombini ukuhombisa, kunye nezipho.
Kuphephe ukuchanabeka kakhulu kwiintengiso
Ngeli xesha uya kuqalisa ukufumana ii-imeyile kuzo zonke ezo venkile ukhe wathenga kuzo. Ingcebiso yethu? Cima imirhumo kwezo venkile apho ungathengi rhoqo (izihlandlo eziliqela ngonyaka). Suka koko kutyhileka ngokugqithisileyo Kuya kukuvumela ukuba ujongane nokuthenga iKrisimesi ngokukhululeka ngaphandle koxinzelelo oluthi olu hlobo lwentengiso lubeke nabani na.
Asiyiyo yonke into ebalulekileyo
Xa siziva sixinezelekile kunzima kuthi ukubeka phambili kwaye ubone ngokucacileyo oko kubaluleke ngokwenene kunye noko kungabalulekanga. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuba singaneli nje ukwenza uludwe lwezinto esizifunayo okanye esifuna ukuzithengela ngeKrismesi kodwa sibeke phambili ezinye.
Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuthenga ilaphu letafile elitsha xa usamkela usapho lwakho ngeKrisimesi, kodwa ngaba ibaluleke ngokwenene? Okubaluleke ngakumbi kunokuthenga eli laphu letafile liya kumisela imenyu kunye nokwenza ukuthengwa okufanelekileyo ukuze ukwazi ukuyilungisa, akunjalo?
Abanye iihighlighters ezinemibala Banokukunceda ukuba ulubeke phambili olo luhlu. Kuba uya kube usenza uluhlu ixesha elithile ngaphambi kweKrisimesi, uya kuba nokucaca okufunekayo ukuze uziseke.
Okulindelweyo
NgeKrisimesi sifuna ukuziva sivuya, sifumane izipho ngokufanelekileyo kwaye siqinisekise ukuba wonke umntu uyayithanda imenyu. Kwakhona kunzima ukuba sithi hayi kwizicwangciso esizinikwayo kunye nokubeka imida kubomi bethu bentlalo. Ekugqibeleni sinqwenela ukuhlangabezana nokulindela ukuba uluntu lubonakala lunyanzelisa kuthi, abo sibathandayo kunye nabo sizidalileyo. Yaye oko akunakwenzeka.
Funda ukumisela imida, ukugatya izicwangciso ongazifuniyo ngoncumo, ukuba ungazithwali umthwalo ongaphezu kweembopheleleko okanye umsebenzi ongaphezu kokuba unokuwuthatha ngaphandle kokuqhekeza ibhanki okanye ukulahlekelwa yimpilo yakho. Kunzima kodwa ufunda yonke into!
Siyazi ukuba banjalo iingcebiso ezisisiseko ukujongana nokuthenga iKrisimesi, nangona kunjalo sikholelwa ukuba nokuba siyabazi, kulungile ukuzifunda ukuze sikhumbule into esinokuyenza kwaye yeyiphi indlela engcono yokuyenza.