Esi sisongezelelo sesine nesokugqibela kwizimo zengqondo ezingama-30 ekufuneka sizithathele ingqalelo ebomini kwaye ube nguwe. ubudlelwane obuzalisekisayo.
Mamela ilizwi lakho langaphakathi
Isizathu sakho kunye nentliziyo yakho uyazi ukuba yintoni echanekileyo.Ungaphenjelelwa zizimvo ezingalunganga.Nditshilo njani ukuba iyanceda, xoxa ngezimvo nabantu abasondeleyo kuwe: yitsho into oyithethayo ngaphandle kokungahloniphi.Xa kufuneka wenze Isigqibo esibalulekileyo mhlawumbi osifunayo ixesha lokuqinisekaVumela kodwa khumbula ukunyaniseka kuwe.
Lumkela uxinzelelo lwakho kwaye uthathe ixesha lokuphumla
Kukho amaxesha apho uxinzelelo lusithintela ukuba siqhubele phambili: thatha ixesha lakho uphumle, uphefumle, uvale amehlo kwaye uzame ukufumana imali eseleyo. Kunzima kodwa akunakwenzeka oko akukho sizathu sokuba ungazamiYenze kuba kuyakufuneka ukuba uqhubele phambili ngokucacileyo kunye nenjongo.Ukuxakeka kwakho, kungcono ukuba ikhefu lengqondo libe lelakho, oku kuyakwandisa imveliso yakho kwaye nengqondo yakho iyakubulela.
Qala ukuziva ubuhle bemizuzu emincinci
Endaweni yokulinda izinto ezinkulu ebomini ukuba zonwabe, qala ukonwabela amaxesha amancinci obomi ekubonelela ngawo: ukuphuma kwelanga ngelixa utya isidlo sakusasa, tyiya ematyeni emlanjeni, ujinga epakini, uhamba unganxibanga zihlangu ... Xa uqaphela ezi zipho zincinci umgangatho wobomi uya kuba phezulu.
Yamkela izinto nokuba azikho "perfect"
Ukugqibelela yitshimera kunye nesikhubekiso kwabo bafuna ukuphucula.Ngokungafezeki kuhlala kukho oku.Funda ukubona izinto ezintle kwaye zenziwe kakuhle.Amasebe omthi owaphukileyo angangabi "ngogqibeleleyo" kodwa asifundisa indawo yawo ukuba abe mahle nangakumbi. intekenteke. ukuthandwa Kuyo yonke into oyibonayo, yamkela.
Lixesha lokuba ugxile kwiinjongo zakho kwaye uzilandele yonke imihla
Khumbula ukuba indlela engama-50km iqala ngenyathelo elinye. Khumbula uBeppo Sweeper ovela kwinoveli kaMomo:
Ubomi, ngokutsho kweBeppo Sweeper
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Yabona, Momo? Ngamanye amaxesha unaso phambi kwakho isitalato esibonakala sisothusa kangangokuba ungaze ugqibezele ukutshayela. Emva koko uqala ukukhawuleza, ngokukhawuleza nangokukhawuleza. Ngalo lonke ixesha ujonga phezulu, ubona ukuba isitalato side nje kwaye uzama nangakumbi, uqala ukoyika, ekugqibeleni uphelelwe ngumoya. Kwaye isitalato siseza ngaphambili. Ayizukwenziwa le nto. Awunakuze ucinge ngesitalato sonke ngaxeshanye, uyaqonda? Kuya kufuneka ucinge ngenqanaba elilandelayo, ugqozi olulandelayo, ukutshayela okulandelayo. Ke kumnandi: kubalulekile, kuba emva koko umsebenzi wasekhaya wenziwe kakuhle. Kwaye kufanele ukuba njalo. Ngokukhawuleza, umntu uyaqonda ukuba, inyathelo ngenyathelo, isitrato sonke sitshisiwe. Awuqondi ukuba kwenzeke njani, kwaye awuphumi mphefumlo. (…)Momo nguMichael Ende
Chaza indlela oziva ngayo
Nguwe kuphela umntu okwaziyo ukulawula iimvakalelo zakho nokukhetha ubomi bakho ngokufanelekileyo.Uya kuba nobunzima, uphumelele kwaye usilele.Ungazifihli emva kwemaski.Bhiyozela impumelelo yakho, ukucaphuka kukusilela kusengqiqweni kodwa musa ukwenza idrama yoku okanye wenze ukhetho lokoyiswa kangangoko kunokwenzeka Sukuma uqhubeke ulwa
Ukukhuthaza ubuhlobo bakho obubaluleke kakhulu
Kuphela ngokuxelela abathandekayo bakho ukuba kubaluleke kangakanani kuwe kuya kuzisa uvuyo ezintliziyweni zabo kwaye uya kwabelana ngeemvakalelo zakho zokwenyani.Thatha uvuyo phantsi kwengalo yakho, ukhuthaze abahlobo bakho ngenkuthalo.Ayidingi ikhulu labahlobo kuphela abo bantu ngokwenene bayakuthanda ukuba unjani Ukuba kukho ingxaki, thetha ngokuthe ngqo kwaye ungavumeli ukudideka, ukuzingca okanye ukuthandabuza kuhlume kuwe.
Gxila kwizinto onokuzilawula
Asinakho ukutshintsha zonke izinto kodwa zikho ezinye ezinakho Gxila kokuphantsi kolawulo lwakho kwaye ube ngumlawuli obakhokelayo.Tyala amandla akho kwezo zinto unako. Guqula, tshintsha kwaye ubenze babe nethemba lakho.
Ingqondo kufuneka ikholelwe ukuba iyakwazi ukwenza into ngaphambi kokuyenza
Indlela yokoyisa iingcinga ezingathandekiyo kunye neemvakalelo ezonakalisayo kukuphuhlisa iimvakalelo ezichaseneyo ezinamandla kwaye zomelele ngakumbi.Mamela ingxoxo yakho yangaphakathi kwaye ubeke endaweni yeengcinga zakho ezimbi.Awunakho ukulawula okwenzekayo kuwe kumlenze wokuqala kodwa ungalawula isimo sakho sengqondo ngakubo.Gxila kumandla akho kubuchule bokuyila, ukuya kwimpumelelo nakwinto elungileyo.
Yiva ukuba usisityebi kwaye unethamsanqa ngoku
Kumaxesha anzima kufuneka gcina izinto ngendlela efanelekileyo: Phezolo ulele ebhedini, ungoyiki ukuba umntu angangena ekhayeni lakho exhobile, awunguye imbacu, ukuba umntwana wakho uyagula ungaya kwesona sibhedlele sikufutshane, awuyi kulamba, unamanzi okusela, unokufikelela kwi-Intanethi ...
Yiba simahla, gxila kwiingcinga zakho ezintle kuyo yonke into ekujikelezileyo, ziveze.Yonwaba, zithande kwaye ukhumbule ukuba ungayenza:
Izimo zengqondo ezingama-30 zokuthathelwa ingqalelo ebomini kwaye ube nguwe (I)
Izimo zengqondo ezingama-30 zokuthathelwa ingqalelo ebomini kwaye ube nguwe (II)
Isimo sengqondo se-30 ekufuneka usithathele ingqalelo ebomini kwaye ube nguwe (III)
Izimo zengqondo ezingama-30 ekufuneka uzithathele ingqalelo ebomini kwaye ube nguwe (IV)
Ukukhupha iMomo kukhutshwe kuphele de Ukubhiyozela ubomi
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