Nokuba bayasishiya okanye ukuba kufuneka sishiye iqabane, ebomini bethu kwenzeka utshintsho olukhulu. Ngandlela-thile sishiya ngasemva inxenye yethu, inqanaba lobomi kunye nemikhwa emininzi kunye namaxesha angasayi kuphinda aphindwe. Kunzima kuwo wonke umntu, kodwa kukho ezinye izinto ezinokusinceda sigqibe ngalo mzuzu.
La Ukuqhawula isibini Ngumzuzu ochaphazela bobabini, kwaye nangona isibini ngasinye kunye nolwalamano ngalunye luhluke ngokupheleleyo, phantse sonke size kuthatha amanyathelo afanayo kwaye sineemvakalelo ezifanayo kwinkqubo yokoyisa. Qaphela ezinye zezinto ezinokukunceda uqhubeke.
Gcina ukhumbula ukuba liqonga
Ukwahlukana yilahleko kwaye ngenxa yoko kufuneka Inkqubo ebuhlungu, yokuphumla kunye nokuphuculwa. Eli linqanaba lobomi esiya kuloyisa, ke ukuba ucinga ukuba iintlungu ziya kuhlala zikhona ngonaphakade okanye zibonakala ngathi azinakuphela okanye azinyamezeleki, khumbula ukuba wawusele ukho phambi kwabo bantu kwaye wawonwabile, ke uya konwaba kwakhona, kufuneka nje uzinike ixesha. Njengawo nawaphi na amava abuhlungu, kuyakubakho isikhumba kwaye uya kuba namaxesha amabi, kuya kufuneka ukhale ukuba yile nto uyifunayo, kodwa emva kokuzinika ixesha kufuneka uqale nokuzikhuthaza ukuba uqhubeke. Usizi yimvakalelo esinceda ukuba soyise iinkqubo ezibuhlungu, kodwa ukuba iba luxinzelelo esingoyisiyo, yimvakalelo engasasebenziyo ukukhokelela kwisifo, kwaye ke ngenxa yoko akufuneki siwele kuxinzelelo oluqhubekayo.
Zigcine uxakekile
Oku kubalulekile xa kusiziwa ukoyisa ezi nkqubo. Kwi amaxesha okungasebenzi Sivame ukucinga ngokukhazimulayo, ukujikeleza ngeenxa zonke iinkcukacha ezincinci zangaphambili, into engasincedisi ngoku okanye kwixesha elizayo. Le ngcinga yenza mnyama imo yethu kwaye ke akufuneki ukuba sibeke phambili. Ukuba sigcina iingqondo zethu zixakekile siza kubona ukuba ezi ngcinga zimbi azisilawuli kwaye sihlala sinethemba kangakanani yonke imihla.
Yama kubahlobo nakusapho
Ekuqhawuleni isibini kubalulekile yazi indlela yokuzingqonga kwabo bantu basondeleyo banokuba yinkxaso kuthi. Usapho kunye nabahlobo bokwenyani babalulekile xa kufikwa ekubeni kunye naloo mntu uphulukene nelahleko. Banokugcina inkampani ukuze uphephe iimvakalelo zokuziva ulilolo ngamanye amaxesha ezisibetha kwezi meko.
Gxila kwezinye iinkalo zobomi bakho
Ebomini esi sibini yenye yeempawu zethu, kodwa ayisiyiyo yonke. Kukho abo bajolise kwesi sibini sinika yonke into ephambili ukuba baqonde ukuba bazityeshele ezinye iinkalo zobomi babo eziye zabonakala zibaluleke kakhulu. Isenokuba kukubuyela kwi dibana nabahlobo, ekufundeni into esiyithandayo, ekugxileni ngakumbi ekuphuculeni umsebenzi wethu okanye ekuchitheni ixesha elininzi nosapho. Zininzi izinto ebomini ezisizisela ulonwabo, hayi iqabane nje.
Qalisa into entsha
Xa kukho ikhefu, siphulukana nokukhohlisa kwaye sitshone kwimeko yokudakumba, ngaphandle kokufuna ukwenza izinto. Sele sitsho ukuba kubalulekile ukuba sihlale sisebenza, kodwa kananjalo, licebo elihle ukuqala into entsha, into enokuthi ibonakale kuthi. uvuyo olutsha lokukhohlisa oko kwabonakala kulahlekile. Kwaye asithethi kuthi sijolise kwelinye iqabane elinokubakho, kuba kunyanzelekile ukuba woyise ubudlelwane bangaphambili ukuze uqale obutsha nomnye umntu ngendlela esempilweni, kodwa wenze izinto esinokuzithanda. Gxila ekucwangciseni uhambo ebesifuna ukulwenza, ukwenza izinto ebesizibekele bucala, ukuqala ikhosi yokupheka, ukwenza umdlalo omtsha kunye nokunye okuninzi okulindele ukuba sigcwalise ubomi bethu ngezinto ezintsha nezinomdla.
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