Bambalwa abantu abaza kuhlala ngoku abangazange beve ngo-Marie Kondo. Inkqubo ye- Ingcali yombutho waseJapan Uguqule imarike yoncwadi ngeMagic yeOrder, incwadi apho achaze khona ukuba acwangcise njani izithuba kube kanye ngendlela yakhe elula yeKonMari.
Yeyiphi indlela yeKonmari? Yintoni imfihlo yempumelelo yakho? Yile mibuzo ilula esiyiphendulayo namhlanje ukuze ukwazi ukuyiphumeza kwezi zithuba zekhaya lakho apho ucinga ukuba ufuna uncedo ngakumbi. Ndimele ndivume ukuba ndiyisebenzise ngokwam le ndlela kwaye kwiminyaka eli-10 kamva, ndinokuqinisekisa ukuba ukulandela ifilosofi yakhe ezo ndawo bendijolise kuzo zilungelelaniswe ngokugqibeleleyo.
Andifane ndizivumele ndikhokelwe ziifashoni. Kodwa indlela yeKonmari yeza ngexesha apho kwakufuneka ndibucwangcise ubomi bam, ngokubanzi. Ke ndiyisebenzise ngokungqongqo le ndlela kwaye namhlanje ndiyaqhubeka nokuyisebenzisa kwezo ndawo zazidla ngokuxakaniseka ngaphambili, ezinje ngeewodrobhu, iipati kunye neendawo zokusebenza. Andizukuyikhanyela into yokuba ekuqaleni kunokuba sisiphithiphithi- akukho namnye kuthi othanda ukuguqula indlu ujonge phantsi-kodwa kuyafuneka ukuba isebenze. Ngaba uyafuna ukuyisebenzisa nasemakhayeni akho? Ngamafutshane amanyathelo amele ukulandela:
Zibophelele
Indlela yeKonmari ifuna utshintsho olunzulu ukuba ngaphandle kokuzibophelela kuya kuba nzima ukufezekisa. Phambi kokuqala kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha izinto, ube nakho ukubona ngolu hlobo utshintsho ofuna ukulwenza kwaye ukholelwe ukuba ungaziphumeza. Sisigqibo sobuqu, ke kuya kufuneka usoloko ukhumbula ukuba usapho lonke lunokuzibophelela kuwe okanye alunakuzibophelela kuwe.
Yisebenzise ngokweendidi
Olunye lweempawu ezizodwa zendlela yeKonmari yile isetyenziswe ngamacandelo: iimpahla, iincwadi, amaphepha, ikomono (izinto ezahlukeneyo, zonke izinto ezingangeni kwezinye iindidi) kunye nezinto ezinomdla. Ngale ndlela kuphela apho kunokwenzeka ukuba ufumane umbono wento esinayo kunye nokuba sininzi kangakanani na sale okanye leya.
Umzekelo endicinga ukuba uya kuba luncedo ukuqonda lo mbono. Xa ulungelelanisa iimpahla zakho, kufuneka uqokelele zonke iimpahla zakho kwindawo efanayo ebonakalayo nokuba uzigcine phi: igumbi lokulala, igumbi eliphezulu, iholo ... Kusenokubonakala kunzima ekuqaleni, kodwa uya kuba nolwazi ngakumbi emva kokuba unayo, into oyithandayo okanye into oyifunayo.
Sebenzisa le ndlela ngokwamahlelo, ukwahlulahlula ukuba kukho imfuneko. Qala ngezona zinto zilula kwaye uzame ukuqala nokugqiba ngosuku olunye. Ukuba uqala ngempahla kwaye unevolumu enkulu yengubo, jongana noluhlu lwemihla ngemihla: iimpahla zangaphandle, iimpahla ezisezantsi, iimpahla zangaphezulu, izincedisi ... Ukuzama ukugubungela ngaphezulu kunokuba unokucinga ukuba kuhlala kunesiphumo esiphindaphindayo.
Khetha kwaye uyeke
Nje ukuba uqokelele zonke izinto zodidi olufanayo kwindawo enye, lixesha lokuba uthathe into ngento ezandleni zakho kwaye uthathe isigqibo sokuba uza kuhlala okanye uye. UMarie Kondo usimema ukuba singasindisi akukho nto ikhabethe yethu ingasonwabisiyo.
Masithathe inqaku lempahla njengomzekelo. Ukuba awuyinxibanga kunyaka ophelileyo, ngekhe uyithande okanye ayenzi ukuba uzive wonwabile. Kutheni uyigcina ke? Yithi ndlela-ntle kwisiqwenga ngasinye ngombulelo ngenkonzo yabo oyinikiweyo kwaye unikele ngayo kwabanye ukuze bonwabele.
Fumana indawo yakho kunye noku-odola
Nje ukuba ukhetho lwenziwe, fumana indawo ethile yento nganye. Cinga kakuhle kwaye ufumane eyona ndawo isebenzayo okanye intofontofo, ngaloo ndlela kuya kuba lula ukuba indlu yakho ihlale icocekile. Umbono kukuba wakuba ukhethe kwaye ufumane into nganye kwindawo yayo, kuya kufuneka ugcine ucwangco.
Musa ukuphambana nokuthenga ukwahlula okanye iibhokisi ukulungiselela ezi zinto, awuzidingi. Uku-odola kokuqala nakwixesha elizayo ukuba ucinga kufanelekile, yongeza ezinye okanye uya kuphazamiseka ziimilo kwaye ungajongi kwimvelaphi. Beka eyona nto uyisebenzisa kakhulu phambi kweekhabhathi ngobunzulu obuninzi, kwaye funda ukusonga iimpahla ngokuthe nkqo. Ayizukugcina indawo kuphela, kodwa uya kuyiphepha loo nto xa uthatha ingubo eseleyo iya kuphazamiseka.
Gcina ucwangco
Nje ukuba uququzelele zonke iindidi bambelela kwisiqhelo. Xa kukho into entsha efika ekhaya, yenzele indawo apho ikhoyo kwaye uyilahle into ethathe indawo yayo. Iya kukunceda ugcine ulungelelwano ngokubuyisela izinto kwindawo yazo mzuzu wakufumanisa ukuba azikho apho kufanele ukuba zibe khona. Kuya kukuthatha imizuzu emibini ukuyenza.
Indlela yeKonmari iyasinceda silungelelanise amakhaya ethu. Yindlela ekufuneka isetyenziswe ngqongqo oluthile kodwa emva koko, yakuba imiselwe, kufuneka siyenze ibe bhetyebhetye. Iimeko zethu ziyatshintsha, izinto ezisingqongileyo nathi kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kuyimfuneko ukwenza utshintsho.