Ubukrelekrele bunokuhlelwa ngeendlela ezininzi kwaye enye yazo bubukrelekrele bemvakalelo. Oku kudibanisa iseti iphela yezakhono zengqondo esivumela ukuba siqonde abanye, oko kukuthi, kusivumela ukuba siyiqonde kwaye sibonakalise iimvakalelo ngendlela ehambelanayo nefanelekileyo. Inkqubo ye- yazi indlela yokulawula ulwazi ukukhokela indlela yethu yokucinga kunye nokuziphatha kwethu.
Akukho nto ngaphandle kokuba ube nakho ukuqonda iimvakalelo zakho kunye nezabanye, ukwazi indlela yokujongana neemeko zobomi eziboniswa kuthi yonke imihla, lawula iminqweno yethu, lawula ezihlekisayo, ukubanamava uvelwano kwabanye kunye nokulawula ngokufanelekileyo intlalontle eqhelekileyo neyabanye abantu.
Kuyatshiwo ukuba ngabasetyhini abanolona luvo luphucukileyo lweemvakalelo kunamadoda. UChristine de Lacoste-Utamsing, ugqirha webhayoloji owaziwayo kwiYunivesithi yaseColumbia, wabonisa ngo-1983 ukuba imithambo-luvo ebuchotsheni edibanisa ii-hemispheres ezimbini ze-cerebral zinkulu kwabasetyhini kunamadoda. Oku kuthetha ukuba Ukutshintshiselana ngolwazi kunzulu phakathi kwamacala amabini obuchopho kwaye ke, kukho amandla amakhulu okusombulula zonke iingxaki ezivela mihla le.
Ingqondo yabasetyhini vs ingqondo yamadoda
Inani leeurologists ziqinisekisa ukuba kukho umahluko xa kuthelekiswa ubufazi kunye nobuchopho bendoda. Babonisa ukuba ingqondo yomfazi ine-asymmetry encinci ebonisa amandla asezantsi okwahlula indlela yokuziphatha kweemvakalelo kwindlela yokuziphatha enengqondo, oku kungenxa yokuba I-hemisphere yasekunene inomthamo omkhulu ngokunxulumene nesobunxele.
Ngaphandle kokuyibeka njengoncedo, okanye mhlawumbi ukuba, ingqondo yamabhinqa inento yokuba kwimeko yamadoda ayiziswanga ngokulula okanye ingaphuhliswanga, umzekelo, banombono obanzi ngakumbi wehlabathi, ukuguquguquka kokuziqhelanisa kuyo nayiphi na imeko, ubuntununtunu okanye intuition.
Iihormones emzimbeni wethu zidlala indima ebalulekileyo, iihormone zizikhuthazi zeendawo ezithile zobuchopho, zichonga umdla wethu kwaye ke izigqibo zethu. Ke ngoko, kuxhomekeke kwindlela oziphatha ngayo, abafazi bathanda ukwenza njalo sombulula iingxaki, ulinge kwaye ugcine iimvakalelo ngokwahlukileyo kwaye wazi indlela yokuchonga nokuqhubekeka kolwimi
Ukuba lo mahluko ubakho ngenxa yokwahluka kobume kunye nehomoni phakathi kwamadoda nabasetyhini. Umzekelo, kuyaboniswa ukuba abasetyhini baneetalente ezithile, izakhono kunye neendlela zokukhula. Abasetyhini banobukrelekrele obungcono bemvakalelo kunamadoda kuba imvubu inkulu kancinci kwaye oku kulawula ukurekhoda idatha yeemvakalelo. Ukwengeza, Abasetyhini basebenza ngakumbi kwaye banomdla wokuzibeka ezicathulweni zomntu ophambi kwaboOko kukuthi, njengomthetho ngokubanzi banovelwano ngakumbi. Ngokwabafundi bokuzivelela komntu, oku kungenxa yokuba xa abasetyhini bekhathalela iintsana, bafunde ukufunda imvakalelo yomntwana wabo, ongenakukwazi ukuthetha njengosana, into ebalulekileyo ukuze baphile.
Iimpawu zobukrelekrele bemvakalelo
- Yiba nolwazi. Ukwazi ukuba wazi njani ezakho iimvakalelo, iimvakalelo okanye imeko yengqondo.
- Ukulingana ngokweemvakalelo nangokwengqondo. Lawula imo embi ukuphepha iziphumo eziyingozi, oko kukuthi, ubaleke ekuziphatheni okungathandekiyo. Ukwazi indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo ukuze zingabangeli iingxaki, umzekelo, ukuba unomsindo, lawula loo msindo ukuze ungadali iingxaki ezinkulu.
- Lawula iimpembelelo. Ukukwazi ukuhlehlisa ukoneliseka komnqweno wokukhangela injongo.
- Isizathu. Rhoqo khuthaza iimvakalelo ezintle, ukuzithemba, umdla kunye nethemba. Bayazikhuthaza ngendlela engaphakathi, Oko kukuthi, ukufezekisa injongo kwaye bazenzele ngokwabo.
- Hlalisana. Abantu abanezakhono ezintle ekuhlaleni, bayakwazi ukwamkela isitayile sokunxibelelana nabanye.
- Abakhathazeki msinya. Abancami ngokulula okanye bacaphukiswe kukungazifezekisi iinjongo zabo.
- Misela umvuzo. Ukwazi indlela yokwenza umzamo ngaphandle kokuba iziphumo zifika emva kwexesha okanye zihlala zingaqinisekanga.
Imfundo yeemvakalelo
Iinjongo ezilandelelweyo, kukuba umntu ngumntu onentlalontle ngakumbi nangokweemvakalelo, ngaphandle koloyiko lokubonisa iimvakalelo kunye neemvakalelo zabo. Ukufezekisa oku, kufuneka kubekho imfundo yeemvakalelo ukufezekisa uthotho lweenjongo ezifanelekileyo ebomini:
- Ngaba ukuqonda iimvakalelo zakho kunye nezinye, kokubini kokwakho nokwabanye
- Chonga uze unike igama ngokuchanekileyo zithini ezo mvakalelo
- Lawula iimvakalelo ngokufanelekileyo
- Yongeza i Unxunguphalo, ukuzeyisa ngakumbi
- Yakha iimvakalelo ezintle
- Bonisa kwaye unayo Isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo ebomini
- Zikhuthaze ngaphandle kokujonga
- Yiya ngenyathelo elinye uye uvimbe iimvakalelo ezingalunganga
Ubukrelekrele bemvakalelo bubaluleke kakhulu, ukuzama ukuphucula ezi zinto zilungileyo kuya kukunceda ukuba umelane ngaphandle kwengxaki kuyo nayiphi na imeko, yiba nembono entle ngehlabathi, yiba nethemba Ngaphandle kwento enokwenzeka kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla, iya kukuqeqesha njengomntu ongcono, uya kuyazi indlela yokwenza kwimeko nganye kwaye uphumelele.