Mumunda wehukama hwevakaroorana, chokwadi chekuti mumwe wemapato ane narcissistic zvine ngozi zvechokwadi mumativi ose. Munhu ane narcissistic anogona kuita seanoyevedza chaizvo pakutanga kwehukama, asi zvese ndezvemeso sezvo vachishandisa kunyengedza uye kunyengera mupfungwa kuti zvinhu zviitwe.
Munyaya inotevera tichazotaura newe yenjodzi dzekuva nehukama nemunhu ane narcissistic uye zvokuita nezvazvo.
Narcissism mune vaviri
Narcissism inoratidzirwa pakati pezvimwe zvinhu nekunyanya kuzviremekedza, uye nokuda kwokushayiwa tsitsi kuri pachena. Kana hunhu uhu huchiwedzerwa kuhukama, mhedzisiro yacho inogona kuuraya, kunyanya mune zvepfungwa kana zvepfungwa.
Pakutanga, munhu ane narcissistic angaratidzika seanoyevedza mune zvese. Nekudaro, sezvo hukama hunofambira mberi, izvo zvinowanzoitika zvenarcissism zvinova pachena. sekuda kwekukurumidzira kutariswa kubva kumudiwa. Anotanga kuzvidza mumwe wake uye kuisa zvido zvake pakutanga. Zvose izvi zvinopedzisira zvakanganisa kuzviremekedza kweumwe munhu uye zvichiisa pangozi ukama.
Ndedzipi njodzi dzekuva newaunofambidzana naye narcissistic?
- Munhu ane narcissistic anozvishandisa nguva dzose kushungurudzwa mupfungwa kune mudiwa. Nguva dzose inoshandisa mhosva, kuzvidza, kana kunyadzisa kuchengetedza mumwe munhu. Nekufamba kwenguva, bato rakaiswa rinotanga kusava nechokwadi nekuzviremekedza kwake uye kukosha, achipinda zvizere munyika ye narcissist.
- Zvakajairika kuti munhu ane narcissistic aparadzanise mumwe wake kubva munharaunda yepedyo, senge shamwari nemhuri. Zvese izvi zvine chinangwa chimwe chete uye kupera uye hapana chimwe kunze kugadzira kutsamira kwakasimba mupfungwa.
- Narcissist inyanzvi kana zvasvika pakubata chokwadi. Rinokwanisa kukanganisa zvinhu zvose nechinangwa chekuti vaviri vacho vadzorerwe zvachose. Izvi zvinoita kuti munhu anenge abatwa ashaye chivimbo maari.
- Kusava netsitsi Icho chimiro chakajeka chevanhu vane narcissistic. Izvo hazvibatanidzi manzwiro nevaviri, zvichikonzera kunzwa kwakasimba kwekusurukirwa mubato renyaya.
Magadzirisirwo edambudziko rekuve nemudiwa we narcissistic
Danho rekutanga kugadzirisa dambudziko rakadaro ndiko kuziva kuti mudiwa ane narcissistic. Pane nhevedzano yehunhu huri nyore uye huri nyore kuziva, sekutadza kuita dzimwe sarudzo mukati mevaviri kana kushaikwa kukuru kwezvose zviri zviviri chivimbo uye kuzviremekedza.
Nhanho inotevera ingave yekutsvaga rubatsiro rwepfungwa kunze kwehukama. Shamwari, mhuri kana nyanzvi munyaya yacho Iwo akakosha kana zvasvika pakukwanisa kubata dambudziko renarcissism. Izvo zvakakosha kumisa nhevedzano yemiganhu mukati mehukama uye kuve nechokwadi chako wega mufaro uye kugara zvakanaka nguva dzese.
Muchiitiko chekuti zvinhu zvinotonyanya kuipa uye hutano hwepfungwa hunokanganisa, zvakakosha kupedza hukama hwambotaurwa nekukasika. Hazvisi nyore kana kupusa kumisa mudiwa we narcissistic sezvo kunyengedza uye kushungurudza kwemoyo kuripo nenzira inoenderera uye inogara iripo. Zvisinei, idanho rinofanira kutorwa kuti ukwanise kuwanazve kuzvitonga uye mufaro zvakare.
Muchidimbu, hapana mubvunzo kuti kuve nemudiwa we narcissistic kunogona kukanganisa zvakanyanya hutano hwepfungwa. Kuziva kuti iwe wakazara muukama hwenarcissistic kwakakosha kana zvasvika pakudzivisa kuwira munetiweki yekunyengedza uye nhema. Chinhu chakakosha ndechekuisa pamberi kugara zvakanaka uye mufaro wako pachako uye kukwanisa kuvaka hukama hune hutano hwakakwana.