Chinozivikanwa se empty nest syndrome hachisi chimwe chinhu kunze kwemarwadzo epfungwa ayo vabereki vazhinji vanonzwa pavanotarisana nenyaya yekuti vana vavo, Vanosarudza kusiya musha wemhuri wobva watiza zvako.
Muchinyorwa chinotevera tichataura newe zvakadzama nezve iyi syndrome, zviratidzo zvayo uye chezvinofanira kuitwa nevabereki kuti vakunde kurwadziwa kwakadaro.
Kuonekana nekuonekana kwevana
Muchikamu chekutanga, vabereki vanotarisana nechokwadi. Vana vakura uye Yasvika nguva yekuti vatevere nzira yavo. Tichifunga izvi, zvakajairika kuti unzwe musanganiswa wemanzwiro akasiyana: kumwe kudada nekuvaona vakazvimiririra, asiwo kushushikana zvishoma nenyaya yekuti imba yemhuri ichachinja uye haichazove yakafanana. Kuziva kubvuma manzwiro aya inhanho yekutanga yekunzwisisa isina chinhu nest syndrome.
Imba isina munhu
Hazvisi nyore kuona kuti imba yevana inoramba isina chinhu zvachose. Tichifunga izvi, hapana chikonzero chekunyunyuta, saka zvakanaka kuishandura. mukona yega, muraibhurari inotonhorera kana kuti kunyange mufundo yomunhu oga. Iyi shanduko yemuviri inogona kubatsira kufananidzira shanduko uye kuwana nzira nyowani dzekuzadzisa hupenyu padanho remunhu.
Hukama hutsva nevana
Sezvo vana vachiongorora hunhu hwavo, chakakosha kuremekedza sarudzo dzavo. Kunyangwe musiri mumba memhuri, hukama hahufanire kupera sezvo hunongochinja. Saka zvakakosha kusimbisa kukurukurirana pachena uye kukurudzira kuremekedzana kuitira kuvaka hukama hwakasimba. Naizvozvo, usazeza kupemberera zvavakawana zvese uye kugadzira chisungo chinogara kunze kwemadziro emba.
Kuwana zvinangwa zvitsva uye horizons
Empty Nest Syndrome inogonawo kushanda kuti uzvionere patsva. Kwemakore akawanda, chinangwa cheupenyu chave chiri chimwe chinhu kunze kwekurera uye kudzidzisa vana nenzira yakanakisisa inobvira. Zvino sezvo vana vasiya imba yemhuri, Yave nguva yekudzokera kumitambo yekare, ongorora zvitsva zvaunofarira uye tanga madhirigi ausingakwanise kuita kare. Hupenyu huchiri rwendo runonakidza zvechokwadi, uye nhanho iyi inogona kuve kutanga kwechiitiko chitsva chinoshamisa.
Ziva kubvuma zvisarudzo zvevana
Kungoti vana vako vanobva pamba hazvirevi kuti ucharasikirwa navo zvachose. Kubvuma nokudisa kuti vana vako vakura uye kuti nzira yavo yakasiyana neyawaifungidzira kunogona kuva denho chaiyoiyo kuvabereki vakawanda. Kuziva kuchinjira kuchokwadi chitsva ichi kunoda kuchinjika uye kushivirira iwe pachako. Ndiko kusaka zvakanaka kuti unoziva kufungisisa nekufunga Zvakanaka kukwanisa kupemberera mazuva ekuzvarwa nevana vako muchikamu chitsva chehupenyu hwavo.
Rarama zviripo
Kana zvasvika pakukunda isina chinhu nest syndrome Zvakakosha kutarisa pane ikozvino uye ikozvino uye kuwana imwe rufaro munguva dzemazuva ose. Nakidzwa nekufona usingatarisirwe, kushanyirwa nekukasira uye nenguva dzakanaka pakuungana kwemhuri. Hupenyu hunochinja nguva dzose uye kumbundira pano uye ikozvino huchakubvumidza iwe kuvaka ndangariro dzakakosha dzinozadza moyo wako.
Muchidimbu, hapana mubvunzo kuti isina chinhu nest syndrome ichave chaiyo yekunetseka mupfungwa kuvabereki vazhinji, asi zvakare mukana wekukura nekuwana mitsva yehupenyu. Sezvaunogadzirisa kuhupenyu hutsva huno, zvakakosha kuyeuka kuti hunhu hwehubaba huchiri mhenyu, kushanduka pamwe chete nevana vako. Usazeza kupemberera kubudirira kwevana vako uye kuvaka dendere rizere nerudo, kunyangwe vana vakasarudza kusiya imba yemhuri.