IHoudini syndrome iqukethe uhlobo lokuphazamiseka kwengqondo lapho umuntu ezizwa eboshelwe emsebenzini noma ebudlelwaneni futhi anqume ukweqa. Yize kungabantu abazibophezela ngokushesha ebudlelwaneni obuthile, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi bayagcwala bagcine ngokunyamalala ngaphandle kokuqhubeka.
Lesi sifo senza ubudlelwano babo bungaze buzinze noma buhlale isikhathi eside, okudala ukulimala okukhulu kuye nobabili umlingani olahliwe. Ngemuva kwalokho sizokhuluma nawe ngendlela eningiliziwe ngalesi sifo nezinto ezingadala ukuphazamiseka okunje ngokomzwelo nangokwengqondo.
IHoudini syndrome njengesibonakaliso somphakathi wanamuhla
Lolu hlobo lwesiyaluyalu luyinkomba nje yomphakathi esihlala kuwo. Kuba nzima ukuthola ubudlelwano obuhlala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Izixhumanisi zibuthakathaka kakhulu futhi ekuzinikeleni okuncane, konke kwephukile. Umphakathi wanamuhla ususelwe ebuntwini babantu kungakhathalekile ukuthi abanye bacabangani. Bambalwa kakhulu abantu abafuna izibopho nezibopho kwabanye abantu, okusho ukuthi ubudlelwano nezithandani zihlala isikhashana futhi ziyahlanjululwa lapho kufika inkinga encane.
Izigaba ze-Houdini syndrome
Ngaphakathi kwe-Houdini syndrome, kungahlukaniswa izigaba noma izigaba eziningana:
- Esigabeni sokuqala umuntu usangana ngokuthandana nomlingani futhi cabanga ukuthi lobu budlelwano buzohlala impilo yonke. Yonke into ilungile futhi iphelele futhi azikho neze izinkinga ezibeka ubudlelwano engcupheni.
- Esigabeni sesibili ukungabaza kuqala ukuvela. Umuntu ucabanga ukuthi ubudlelwano abuqinile nhlobo nokuthi bungaphela.
- Isigaba sesithathu siqukethe indiza yomuntu. Ngaphambi kokuvela kokuzibophezela, uyazisika futhi abaleke ngaphandle kokunikeza omunye uhlobo lwencazelo.
Izimbangela ze-Houdini syndrome
Kunezici noma izimbangela ezintathu ezingaholela kumuntu ophethwe yilolu hlobo lokuphazamiseka:
- Kunabantu abanokuntuleka okukhulu kokuvuthwa futhi abazi ukuthi bangabuphatha kanjani ubudlelwano nabanye abantu.
- Isimilo somuntu ngamunye simenza angamazisi omunye umuntu. Kukhona ukuntuleka okusobala kwamagugu okuzibonakalisa lapho unomlingani othile.
- Ubukhona obubaluleke ngokwengeziwe bokuxhumana nabantu kanye ne-inthanethi, kubangela abantu abaningi abanquma ukungaboshwa ebudlelwaneni bese uyohlolwa neminye imibhangqwana.
Ngamafuphi, IHoudini syndrome iya ngokuya ibonakale emphakathini wanamuhla. Luhlobo lokuziphatha noma lokuziphatha okufanele kugwenywe. Kubalulekile ukuzibandakanya ngokuphelele ebudlelwaneni nakho konke okubandakanya. Awukwazi ngaphansi kwanoma yiziphi izimo ukuthi uvumele ukudlala ngemizwa yomunye umuntu. Ukuzibophezela nomthwalo wemfanelo oza nokuba nomlingani kufanele kubhekwane nakho ngaso sonke isikhathi. Ngale ndlela, kungenzeka ukuqinisa izibopho nomunye umuntu futhi unakekele ubudlelwane ngangokunokwenzeka ukuze ubenze buqine ngangokunokwenzeka.