Uzodivosa futhi kufanele ube khona futhi ubonise ukuthi ungowesifazane oqinile futhi onokwanela. Ukubhekana nesehlukaniso kungaba yinkohliso, ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngemali. Uma ngabe ubudlelwano obuncike ezimalini nomlingani wakho, izinto zingaba nzima uma izinto zehlukene. Ukubhekana nesehlukaniso kunzima ngokwanele, kepha uma ufuna ukunqoba ukuthembela ngokubambisana empilweni yakho yezezimali, kungaba nzima kakhulu.
Ukubhekana nesehlukaniso noma ukwahlukana akukaze kube lula, kepha ukusuka emshadweni lapho uncike kumlingani wakho kunzima. Mhlawumbe umlingani wakho wahlanganisa zonke izikweletu futhi wahlela ezezimali. Mhlawumbe uyeke umsebenzi wakho wokuhlala ekhaya nezingane. Kunoma ikuphi, ukubhekana nenqubo yesehlukaniso lapho ungazethembi kungaba buhlungu kakhulu.
Owesifazane, imali nesehlukaniso
Kwabesifazane abasanda kuthola isehlukaniso, kufanele uhlale phansi wenze ukubuyekezwa kwesabelomali kanye nokuhlolwa kwempahla. Lesi akusona isikhathi sokukuziba. Kungaba ngcono kakhulu ukuthola umhleli wezimali ozokusiza nokuthi ngubani ongaqhamuka necebo lesimo sakho sezimali esisha.
Ukwehlukana ngokwehlukana komshado kungashiya abesifazane abaningi bezizwa belahlekile, bedidekile, futhi benesifiso sokufunda ukungena nokuphuma kwezezimali zomuntu siqu. Imali ekhokhwayo yezomthetho, izikweletu ezingakhokhelwa, nezindleko zokuqala ukudivosa kumele zikhokhwe.
Ungaba ngowesifazane ozimele
Ukuhlukanisa kuyabiza futhi kuyakhathaza, kepha ukuba ngowesifazane ozimele kungenzeka. Ngokushesha lapho wephula umjikelezo wakho wokuncika ngokubambisana, kuzoba lula ukuqhubeka ngemuva kwekhefu. Kunezinto ezithile okufanele uzigcine engqondweni ukuze uqhubekele phambili nokuthi konke kuhamba kahle kusuka manje, nge-ex yakho esikhathini esedlule.
Ukuqonda izimali zakho kufanele. Yazi ukuthi unamalini, yini onayo nokuthi ungayiphatha kanjani imali yakho kangcono. Khuluma nochwepheshe wezezimali ukuze bakweluleke ukuze ungenzi izinyathelo ezingezinhle.
Hlela umhlalaphansi wakho
Uma ubufuna ukuguga nomlingani wakho, isehlukaniso singalimaza umbono wakho wokuthatha umhlalaphansi. Mhlawumbe uncike kwiphakethe lomhlalaphansi lomlingani wakho ukuze uqede iminyaka yakho yegolide. Kungenzeka ukuthi awukaze ube nesikhwama somhlalaphansi sakho. Kunoma ikuphi, ukuhlela umhlalaphansi manje sekuseqophelweni eliphezulu uma ufuna ukuhlala unelisekile lapho usugugile. Sebenza nomeluleki wezezimali ukunquma isabelomali sakho, imali oyongile, uzodinga malini ukuthatha umhlalaphansi nokuthi uneminyaka emingaki ongayeka ukusebenza.
Ukuphepha komsebenzi
Uzodinga ukuqala ukusebenza uma ungazange ukwenze ngaphambilini. Abesifazane abazimele bayazi ukuthi ukuphepha emsebenzini kuyikho konke, ngakho-ke ukuqinisekisa umsebenzi oqhubekayo kubalulekile. Omama abahlukanisile bangafuna ukuthola imisebenzi ebavumela ukuthi basebenze ekhaya (ikakhulukazi ukwenza lula ukunakekelwa kwezingane), futhi abesifazane abasebenza imisebenzi ekhokha kancane bangafuna ukuhlola ezinye izindlela uma kungenzeka. Uma kudingeka, funda amakhono amasha okuvula iminyango emisha, noma ungazakhela owakho umsebenzi!