Kujwayelekile impela ukuthi noma imuphi umbhangqwana ubhekane nezikhathi ezimnandi nezinye ezimbi. Kwezinye izimo, izinkinga ezivelayo zenza ubuhlobo buqine kakhulu. Kwesinye isikhathi, izimpi nezimpikiswano zenza ukuthi abashadayo bahlupheke kakhulu futhi kungabusizi ngalutho ubudlelwano.
Endatshaneni elandelayo sikukhombisa ezinye zezinto ezingakhombisa, ukuthi umbhangqwana othile uhlupheka kakhulu.
Ukuntuleka kwenkinga
Isignali ecace bha ekhombisa ukuthi izinto azihambi kahle ebudlelwaneni iqiniso lokuthi ubunzima obabukhona ekuqaleni bulahlekile ngokuphelele. Kunokuntuleka okukhulu kokuxhumana futhi akunabudlelwano phakathi kwalaba bantu ababili. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kujwayelekile ukuthi ubudlelwano bube nokuwohloka okukhulu.
Ukungalingani ezingeni lokuthinteka
Embhangqwaneni onempilo kunokubandakanyeka okuphelele engxenyeni yomibili futhi ukuboniswa kothando nokuthandana kuyahambisana. Akunakuba nengxenye eyodwa enikeza konke kanti enye ihlala ingacabangi ngokuphelele, inganikeli ngalutho ebudlelwaneni. Leli qiniso liyisibonakaliso esicace bha sokuthi lo mbhangqwana uhlupheka kakhulu.
Izinkinga embhedeni
Ucansi luyingxenye ebalulekile yanoma yibuphi ubuhlobo futhi uma lungasebenzi, kuyacaca ukuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Ubudlelwano obuzinzile buvela kakhulu ngoba bobabili abantu banempilo egcwele futhi yanelise njengabantu abashadile. Uma ucansi lungasebenzi futhi oyedwa noma bobabili baba nezinkinga nge-libido, kuyacaca ukuthi lo mbhangqwana uhlupheka futhi udabuke. Kwanele ukusho ukuthi kwamaningi ala macala, kuneziqephu zokungathembeki ezigcina zephule izithandani.
Beka isixazululo bese ufuna usizo
Izimpawu zokuthi umbhangqwana awenzi kahle nhlobo futhi unenkinga yokuguga ziyacaca. Inkinga yingoba eyodwa noma zombili izinhlangothi azifuni ukubona okungokoqobo futhi bakhetha ukubheka kwenye indawo. Lapho ubuhlobo buqala, wonke umuntu unethemba elikhulu lokuthi lizohlala impilo yonke.
Kepha lokhu akwenzeki njalo ngeshwa imibhangqwana eminingi igcina ngokuhlukana. Uma kwenzeka kunezinkomba ezithile zokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ebudlelwaneni, kubalulekile ukuhlala eduze komunye umuntu ukuze wazi ukuthi kwenzekani futhi okufanele ukwenze ukulungisa izinto. Esinye sezixazululo ezeluleka kakhulu ukuya kuchwepheshe ukuze asize ukuxazulula izinkinga ezingaba khona. Ukwelashwa kwezithandani kuvame ukusebenza ngamaphesenti aphakeme kakhulu uma kukhulunywa ngokuqeda izinkinga ezingaba khona emibhangqwaneni ehlukene.
Njengoba ubonile, Kunezici eziningana ezingakhombisa ukuthi izinto azihambi kahle kwizithandani. Kujwayelekile ukuthi ukuhamba kwesikhathi kubangele ukuguga okuthile ebudlelwaneni. Ngokunikezwe lokhu, kubalulekile ukuthi ufune ukuxazulula ukugqokwa okukhulunyiwe nokubheja ngokuqhubeka kobudlelwano.