Vuselela uthando ebudlelwaneni bakho nalezi zeluleko

izithandani ezijabulisayo

Uma uthandana, isikhathi sibonakala sihamba eceleni komuntu ofanele. Akukho ongakuthandi ngobuntu bakhe noma ukubukeka kwakhe, futhi uma kukhona okubonakala kungakulingani, umane nje ungakunaki, ngokuphelele ... akekho umuntu ophelele! Kodwa-ke, ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, isigaba se-honeymoon sibonakala sihamba kancane futhi sibonakala sifaka amandla amancane ebudlelwaneni.

Noma ngabe kungenxa yamashejuli amatasa noma ukuthatha impilo yansuku zonke, uqala ukulahlekelwa enye yaleyo nhlansi ebikugcina uphapheme ngaso sonke isikhathi ekuseni. Izimvemvane esiswini zibukeka ziyinto yesikhathi esidlule. Empeleni, ucingo olulula oluvela kulowo muntu lubonakala lungumsebenzi ongajabulisi ...

Uma uzithola ukulesi simo futhi ufisa ukukulungisa ukuze uhlale nalo muntu, kubalulekile ukuthi uthole izeluleko ezithile ezibalulekile zokuthi ungayibuyisa kanjani inhlansi. Ngaphandle kwalokho, ungazithola usumbhedeni wakho kungekho muntu ohamba nawe ... Ngalezi zeluleko, konke kuzobuyela esimweni obekuso phambilini.

Yiba nezinsuku zothando

Akukona nje kuphela ukuthi kubalulekile, udinga ukuqhubeka nokuthandana noma ngabe senithandane iminyaka; futhi kubaluleke nakakhulu uma ushadile futhi unezingane. Kodwa-ke, kunesizathu sokuthi ufunda lokhu, okusho ukuthi mhlawumbe usuyekile ukuya ezinsukwini zangempela isikhathi eside. Ungakhathazeki… kwenzeka kwabangcono kakhulu kithi.

Manje, noma kunjalo, sekuyisikhathi sokuthola ukuthi ungayivuselela kanjani inhlansi ngokuqala usuku lwakho lokuqala ezinyangeni. Qhubeka, ungakwenza! Khumbula ukuyenza ibe yothando futhi ikhetheke. Kungaba usuku lokuqala lwabaningi abeza ...

ngokujabula nothando

Gxila ezintweni ezincane

Kuyiqiniso abakushoyo: Izinto ezincane zibalwa. Kwesinye isikhathi kukwedlula zonke izenzo ezinkulu. Ngamazwi alula, ukomisa izandla zomlingani wakho ngemuva kokuba bezigezile kungasho umhlaba. Ukubanikeza isiphuzo ngenkathi unaso kungasho umehluko phakathi kokumamatheka okukhulu ebusweni bomlingani wakho noma ukubukeka kokuphoxeka nokucasuka. Lokho kusho, njalo unake imininingwane emincane. Uzomangala ngomehluko ongenziwa yinto encane ebudlelwaneni bakho.

Shiya inothi lothando ngezikhathi ezithile

Lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele ubhale izincwadi ezichaza uthando lwakho ngomlingani wakho, noma kunjalo, inothi elilula elimfisela usuku oluhle lingasho umhlaba. Ukhiye wokubhala inothi lothando ukudala amagama wedwa. Kodwa-ke, uma kunzima ukubhala amanothi othando ngokusuka enhliziyweni, kulungile kuGoogle ukuthi ibe nokuthile okuthandanayo futhi ikukhuthaze. Khumbula, umcabango obalulekile, futhi uma umqondo osemaphuzu akho othando ukuvuselela inhlansi ebudlelwaneni bakho, ngakho-ke ungavumeli ezinye izikhala ezingenalutho zikuvimbe.

Bheka izinkumbulo zakudala

Uma ubheka emuva kulokho owawukade uyikho njengombhangqwana kungabuyisa izinkumbulo ezinhle; izinkumbulo ezifanele ukuzivuselela kunokuba uziyeke zife. Uma kungenzeka, hlelani ubusuku ndawonye nibheke amavidiyo amadala noma izithombe. Uma unezinhlamvu ezindala ezibhaliwe, zifunde ngokuzwakalayo. Hlola ubudlelwano bakho ngezigaba zokuqala ukuba sothandweni. Kuqinisekisiwe ukubuyisa izinkumbulo ezinhle zokuthi ningahlangana kanjani, kunokuba nihlukane kanjani ...


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.