Ingabe uyinkinga ebudlelwaneni bakho?

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Uma usubonile ukuthi ubudlelwano bakho abusebenzi, kubalulekile ukuthi uthathe igxathu emuva uphinde uzihlole kabusha izizathu. Sizokutshela ezinye izizathu zokuthi kungani, mhlawumbe, uyinkinga ebudlelwaneni bakho. Siyazi ukuthi akulula ngaso sonke isikhathi ukukhomba inkinga ebudlelwaneni. Ekuqaleni konke bekubonakala kukuhle, kepha muva nje bekungekuhle kakhulu futhi awukwazi ukuthola ukuthi kungani ...   Ngokwemvelo, uqala ukubuka indlela umlingani wakho aziphatha ngayo bese uqala ukucabanga ukuthi yibo abanesibopho sobudlelwano ekuphelelweni kwabo yisikhathi.

Kepha mhlawumbe akusiye kuphela umlingani wakho obhekene ... Thatha isinyathelo emuva uzibheke. Kwesinye isikhathi, awuyiboni inkinga ekugqolozele ngqo ebusweni. Futhi leyo nkinga kungaba nguwe. Funda ezinye izimpawu ezingakwenza kucace ukuthi udala izinkinga.

Ukhuluma ngezinto zakudala

Akulungile kini nobabili nozakwenu uma nikhumbula kuphela izinto ezenzeka esikhathini esedlule. Kuyaqondakala ukuthi usabuzwa ubuhlungu lapho kwenzeka izinto ezimbi esikhathini esedlule, kepha ngeke uxazulule noma yini okwamanje ngezimpikiswano ezifanayo kaninginingi. Uma ulwa kaninginingi ngento efanayo, ukhombisa okuningi ngobudlelwano bakho. Khuluma kancane ngokwenzekile nangaphezulu ngemizwa onayo ngomlingani wakho.

Umlingani wakho angakhathala wena uhlala ufuna ukunqoba zonke izimpikiswano ... ngoba ebudlelwaneni akumele kube nalolu hlobo lokuncintisana, kepha into ejwayelekile ukuzama ukuxazulula noma iyiphi inkinga ekhona. Kwesinye isikhathi kufanele wamukele lapho uqinisile futhi kwesinye isikhathi uma wenze iphutha.

Ufuna yonke into iphelele

Ukuphelela akukho. Okubi ngokulindela "ukuphelela" ebudlelwaneni ukuthi uzihlelela ukuphoxeka. Awuphelele futhi nozakwenu akekho, ngakho-ke ubuhlobo bakho ngeke bube buphelele futhi. Futhi leyo yinto enhle impela. Uma konke ngobudlelwano bakho bekuyile ndlela obekufanele kube ngayo, lapho-ke bekungeke kube khona ndawo yenguquko noma ukukhula.

Kuzoba nezikhathi eziningi lapho niyoxabana khona futhi niphikisane nezinto, kepha akufanele ukuthathe lokho njengophawu lokuthi ubudlelwano buyaphela. Uma kukhona, kukhombisa ukuthi niyakhula ndawonye.  Lapho nje usulahla lo mbono "wobudlelwano obuhle" uzoqala ukwazisa ubudlelwano bakho nokuthi buyini.

umbhangqwana onezinkinga ebudlelwaneni bawo

Awuqhubekanga nobudlelwano obudlule

Kunzima ukugxila ebudlelwaneni bakho bamanje lapho uqhubeka ubuqhathanisa nobudlelwano obudlule. Ngemuva kokwehlukana, kujwayelekile ukuvimba izingxenye ezimbi futhi ukhumbule izinto ezinhle kuphela, ngakho-ke ngokwemvelo Lapho uxabana nomlingani wakho wamanje, ungacabanga ngobudlelwano bangaphambilini obukade uphila nabo.

Abukho ubudlelwano obufanayo, ngakho-ke esikhundleni sokuqhathanisa ubudlelwano bomuntu nobakho obukhona manje, zama ukugxila kokwenzeka manje. Ungabheka emuva kokwedlule kepha awukwazi ukuhlala lapho.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.