Iba ne Izithandani azihlali zifana nokujabula nalowo muntu. Njengakubo bonke obunye ubudlelwano, kunezikhathi ezehla nezimbi, izikhathi ezimnandi nezikhathi ezimbi, kepha futhi kufanele usebenze kusuka ezinhlangothini zombili ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi konke kusebenza ngokuhamba kwesikhathi futhi ukunqoba izinkinga ndawonye.
Ayikho ifomula eyimfihlo ye- thola injabulo njengombhangqwana, kepha izinto esingazenza ukuze sisebenze usuku nosuku ukuze konke kusebenze. Izithandani ziyashintsha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi nezimo zazo ziyashintsha, ngakho-ke azihlali zigcina zijabule, kepha kunezinto ezithile esingazenza ukuthola injabulo njengabantu abashadile.
Chitha isikhathi nomlingani wakho
Si sichitha isikhathi esiningi nomlingani wethu ngeke sikwazi ukuyazi ngazo zonke izindlela zayo, usuku nosuku, okuyilapho sazi khona umuntu kangcono kakhulu. Kubalulekile ukuchitha isikhathi, kodwa futhi nokuzinika isikhala. Uma sihlala kuncane kakhulu, kunzima ngathi ukuhlangana noma sibe nokuzethemba okwanele futhi kuzobonakala sengathi ayikho inzalo, ngakho-ke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ubuhlobo bungaphola. Kungakho-ke kufanele nisebenzise isikhathi esithile nichitha naloyo muntu, nijabulela ubudlelwano kanye nezikhathi ezithokozisayo ndawonye nenza izinto enizithandayo nobabili.
Thola izindawo ezivamile
Ngeke uhlale uthanda izinto ezifanayo, ngoba umuntu ngamunye unezinto azithandayo, kepha kuyiqiniso ukuthi mhlawumbe ingabe kukhona eningakuthola nobabili nokuthi ningajabulela ndawonye. Kusukela ekuhambeni ngezinyawo ukuya emakhonsathini noma ukuya kuma-movie. Kubalulekile ukuthola imisebenzi nezikhala zokwabelana ngakho-ke sijabulele okuthile esifana ngakho.
Shiya indawo yakho
Enye ingxenye ebalulekile ukuthola ibhalansi elungile phakathi kokuhlanganyela izinto ndawonye nokuchitha isikhathi sodwa. Kuyadingeka lokho nobabili ninesikhala sezinto enizithandayo nabangane, ukuchitha isikhathi esihle nomlingani wakho kepha ungashiyi eceleni ukuthi ungubani nokuthi yini obukade uyithanda, noma ngabe awunaye umlingani. Kuyindlela yokungakhohlwa ubuwena bakho nezinto ozithandayo, into eyenzeka kwizithandani eziningi futhi egcina iba yinto ebalimaza bobabili.
Gxila kwezokuxhumana
Uma kukhona okuthile okufanele kwakheke isisekelo sanoma yimuphi umbhangqwana, ngokungangabazeki ukuxhumana. Embhangqwaneni kufanele kube nokuxhumana no sitshelane izinto futhi sibhekane nezinkinga ezingaba khona phakathi kwalaba ababili. Ukukhuluma ngokwenzekayo nokwethembeka kuyinto ebaluleke ngempela ukuthi sikwazi ukuthembana, into eyisisekelo uma sifuna umbhangqwana uhlale iminyaka futhi usinde ekuhambeni kwesikhathi. Kufanele ngaso sonke isikhathi sizame ukuxhumana nomunye umuntu kulowo mbhangqwana, ukwakha ibhuloho phakathi kwalaba bobabili, ngezikhathi ezinhle nezimbi.
Uthando kepha lukhululekile
Kufanele uhlale umthanda omunye umuntu futhi ujabulele uthando nenkampani yakhe, kepha kufanele sikwenze ngokukhululeka, futhi ukuhlonipha inkululeko yomunye umuntu. Uma sithanda kahle, sizokwazi ukuthi singayithokozela kanjani injabulo yomunye, sibashiye bekhululekile ukwenza izinqumo zabo futhi benze abakuthandayo ngokuba nathi. Uma nje kunokuhloniphana phakathi kwalaba ababili nenkululeko, sizokwazi ukuthi lowo muntu uhlala nathi ngoba kuyisinqumo sabo samahhala hhayi ngezinye izizathu okungenzeka ukuthi asilungile.
Nakekela imininingwane
Kubudlelwano, noma isikhathi sihamba, akumele siyeke ukuba nemininingwane nokunakekela omunye umuntu. Lokhu kufanele kunisebenzele nobabili. Ingabe kubalulekile ngezikhathi ezithile ukukukhumbuza komunye umuntu osengumuntu okhethekile kithina, ngakho-ke kufanele sinakekele yonke imininingwane.