Kungenzeka ukuthi wake wahlupheka ngenxa yothando futhi lokho sekwenze wavala ebhendini futhi ungafuni ukwazi lutho ngokuba nomlingani. Noma mhlawumbe ubuye wathandana futhi awuzange ubuyiselwe njengoba ubufuna ukuba ngaleso sikhathi. Uthando kungenzeka alukaze luphele ngaphakathi kuwe, ngoba imizwa isengaphakathi kuwe. Uma ubucabanga ukuthi uthando alusoze lwabuyela kuwe, funda-ke ukuthi ungaluzwa kanjani lolu hlaka lwothando enhliziyweni yakho futhi.
Thola intshisekelo othandweni olusha
Akudingeki uvale umnyango othandweni ingunaphakade, ungashiya umnyango uvulekile ngoba awusoze wazi ukuthi ungavela nini futhi empilweni yakho. Ungahle ungafuni ukubhekana nemizwa engakhululekile futhi, izingxoxo ezingakulimaza noma izinkumbulo othanda ukuzikhohlwa… kepha uthando lungaphezulu kakhulu kwalokho, lubuye lufunde ukubonga kulokho olusinikeza kona.
Kungenzeka ukuthi awutholanga uthando lwempilo yakho, kepha uma uke waba nokudumala kothando, esikhundleni sokucabanga njengokungekuhle, kuthathe njengokufunda onakho empilweni yakho futhi okuzokusiza ukwazi okufunayo nokungakufuni empilweni.ubudlelwano bothando obulandelayo onabo.
Cishe awufuni ukwazi lutho ngothando lapho uqala ukulibona noma usuyekile ukukholelwa kulo ... Kepha ngeke wazi ukuthi impilo izokulethelani, Ngakho-ke akukho lutho olungcono njengokuvuleleka kokuhlangenwe nakho okusha okungangeza okuningi empilweni yakho.
Funda ukubona ukuthi uthando lubuyile empilweni yakho
Lapho kufika isikhathi lapho uthando selubuyile empilweni yakho, mhlawumbe seluvinjwe ngokomzwelo isikhathi eside, kunzima ngawe ukubona ukuthi, empeleni, luthando. Ngalo mqondo, kubalulekile ukuthi unake ukuze ukuzethemba kwakho kukusize ukukubona. Uthando oluhle alunamona, akukho ukungabi nandaba, akukho ukungezwani ... Unesineke nje, uzwela, kanye nesifiso sobudlelwano ukukhuphuka ngamandla aso aphelele. Kepha ungabona kanjani ukuthi uthando?
- Lapho yonke into ikukhumbuza lowo muntu
- Lapho ufuna ukumbona futhi ube eceleni kwakhe
- Lapho unenkululeko yakho kepha ufuna ukwabelana ngesikhathi sakho nalowo muntu
- Lapho uthokozela impumelelo yomunye
- Lapho ukhuluma izinto ngenhlonipho futhi ngaphandle komunye uzizwe unecala nganoma yini
- Lapho noma ngabe uthukuthele, uyaqhubeka nokunakekelana.
Manje njengoba usuthandane futhi, ungasho ukuthi uzwe lo muzwa omuhle kaningi empilweni yakho. Kepha khumbula ukuthi uthando lufana nesitshalo okumele siniselwe nsuku zonke. Uma ungayiniseli izofa ibunile, uma uyinisela kakhulu izominza.