Ungabulungisa ubuhlobo bakho esikhundleni sokubuphula?

Izikhathi zokwelashwa kwezithandani

Kubantu abathandana ngempela, uthando akuyona into ovele uyibeke eceleni uma kunezinkinga. Ebudlelwaneni, konke akuhlali kuhle njalo futhi kuyindlela egcwele ama-roses, ukuzibophezela kuyadingeka ukuze ubudlelwano busebenze ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Ukuvakashelwa okungalindelekile, izinsuku zokudla kwakusihlwa, ukuqabula esiphongweni, nokubambana okuqinile emnyango wangaphambili kungezinye zezinto ezimbalwa ezilula ezenza isisu sethu sihaqeke lapho sithandana. Kepha Njengoba isikhathi siqhubeka, ubudlelwano buzoshintsha futhi uzozizwa uxakekile ukuthi lezo zinguquko zikuthinta kanjani.

Ungabhekana nazo zonke lezi zinselele ebudlelwaneni nokuthi ubudlelwane buyaqina, noma ukuthi ukuphuma ekuhlukaneni kulula kakhulu. Ngoba abantu abathanda ngempela ukuqeda ubuhlobo akuyona inketho noma ngabe izinto zihamba kabi.

Izinkinga azinakugwenywa

Kubo bonke ubudlelwano, izinkinga azinakugwemeka. Lapho sihlala isikhathi eside emaphutheni, sigcina sizizwa silahlekile futhi siphukile. Kodwa-ke, yize izinkinga zobudlelwano zingenakugwenywa, zingashintsha indlela ophendula ngayo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, lapho uthando lwakho lukhulu kunezinhlungu zakho, uzoshiya indawo yokukhula ngaphandle kokuyeka. Njengalokho abakushoyo, 'uyakhula ngalokho odlula kukho', kepha kulokhu, kwenze ngokubambisana, ngaphandle kokuvumela umlingani wakho abhekane nale mpi eyedwa.

Izimbangela zokuqhelelana

Kwesinye isikhathi eSimatasa kakhulu ngezinkinga zethu size singanaki ubudlelwano bethu futhi sithathe umlingani wethu njengabantu abancane. Ngenxa yalokhu, asisaziboni izidingo nezidingo zomlingani wethu, ezingabeka engcupheni ubudlelwano bethu. Kepha lapho sizama ukuphuma eceleni, siqala ukucacisa ukuthi yini esivimbela ekuboneni okushodayo. Kwesinye isikhathi, sithola ukuthi ukuyekethisa kungcono kunezingxabano, ukuthula kungcono kunokulunga, futhi ngandlela thile ukugwinya ukuziqhenya kwethu akulona ihlazo. Sithola ukuthi uthando lungaba yisizathu esanele sokuthethelela.

Ungahlukani ngoba kubukeka sengathi wephukile

Kwesinye isikhathi, Awudingi ukulahla into ebukeka ngathi yephukile, ngoba kulula ukuyilungisa kunokubonakala kwayo ekuqaleni. Izinto ezinhle kakhulu, njengobudlelwano obuhle kakhulu, yilezo ezinamazinyo nokuklwebheka, ngoba zidlule ebuhlungwini. Bake bahlukana, kepha baye bazabalaza ngomzabalazo futhi bahlala ... inqobo nje uma kuwuthando olunempilo nolunempilo, ngoba kubalulekile ukukhumbula, ukuthi uma uthando lubuhlungu: akulona uthando.

Uthando alugcini lapho ujabulile futhi konke okunye kusebenza kahle. Ukhetha ukuhlala noma izinto zihluleka. Uthando lukhetha ukulwa ndawonye kunokukhululeka wedwa, futhi uzohlala uthola injabulo ngokwenza njalo.  Kungaba umgwaqo onzima; kepha ekugcineni kosuku, sizothi bekufanele lapho sikhethe ukulungisa, kunokuqeda ubudlelwano ...

Uma kusekhona uthando ebudlelwaneni, lisekhona ithemba lokuxazulula konke.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.