Sihlala sizwa ukuthi umbhangqwana ngamunye uhlukile futhi kubo kuphela abantu ababili abathintekayo abazi yonke imininingwane ngekhulu lamaphesenti, kepha impela cishe wonke umuntu wake wabona enye yalezo ngesikhathi esithile. imibhangqwana enobuthi Awuzisizi ngalutho ngokuziphatha kwakho. Kukhona imibhangqwana enobudlelwano ekude nempilo kubo bobabili, futhi lokho kugcina kuphele kabi. Yingakho kufanele ufunde ukuzibona.
Bona abalingani abanobuthi Kungasisiza ukuthi sigweme ukungena ebudlelwaneni balolu hlobo. Kubalulekile ukubona izimpawu ngaphambi kokuba ubuhlobo bungabambeki futhi kusenza sihlupheke kuphela. Ubudlelwano obuhle yinto enempilo, lapho bobabili besekelana khona futhi bathola uthando nenhlonipho, into okungafanele neze siyikhohlwe.
Umbhangqwana omunce
Siqala ngomunye wemibhangqwana enobuthi ongaba nayo imiphumela eminingi empilweni yethu yomphakathi. Ngokuvamile, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi ezinyangeni zokuqala simuncwa ngumlingani wethu, ngoba ukuthandana nothile kuyinhlobo yokuziqhenya nokumncoma lowo muntu, kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sithambekele ekubuyiseleni indawo yethu, amasiko ethu kanye nabantu bekulokhu kukhona, kunika isikhathi abangane nomndeni futhi. Kwizithandani ezimunca lokhu akwenzeki, ngoba zidinga sonke isikhathi kuzo, okuthile okuqhelelana nathi.
Izithandani zinquma
Kunemibhangqwana enobuthi lapho omunye wabo uhlala ethatha isinyathelo kuqala. Abanye bazinqumela ngokwabo, ngoba bathanda ukuba ngumphathi wakho konke futhi bahlale beqinisile. Kwesinye isikhathi, ilungu labashadikazi liphoqeleka ukuthi linqume ngaphambi kokuphambuka komunye umuntu, into engaholela ezingxabanweni ngenxa yesidingo sokuthi kungabi njalo onamandla okuphatha abashadayo. Noma kunjalo, umbhangqwana onempilo yilowo osebenza ndawonye futhi unqume ngemibono yabo bobabili.
Izithandani eziphikisanayo
Sihlala sazi umbhangqwana ongakaze uhlukane kodwa ochitha usuku ephikisana into efanayo kaninginingi, noma ukuba nezingxabano ngezinto ezingabalulekile ngempela. Kunemibhangqwana exabanayo ehlala ifuna izinkinga kuyo yonke into, eyazi kuphela ukulungisa izinto ngale ndlela futhi ethanda nokuthola izaba zokuthi izithandani ezinothando yizo eziphikisayo. Eqinisweni, izingxabano ziholela kuphela ekucindezelekeni kwabashadile futhi uma zingasizi ukuxazulula izinkinga azinikeli ngalutho oluhle.
Ukulawula imibhangqwana
Ukulawula imibhangqwana kuphakathi kwemibhangqwana enobuthi kakhulu, ngoba bakhansela omunye umuntu. Empeleni luhlobo lokuhlukumeza uma lokhu kulawulwa kunwetshwa ngokweqile bese omunye umuntu athumela. Kujwayelekile ukuthi umuntu esithandana naye afune ukwazi ukuthi siyaphi, kepha leyo mininingwane kufanele inikezwe uma ifiswa, ngoba ngamunye unempilo yakhe. Omunye umuntu akufanele alawulwe ngaso sonke isikhathi. Labo abalawulayo banokungazethembi okukhulu futhi bavame ukusola abalingani babo ngakho.
Imibhangqwana ethembele
Phakathi kwemibhangqwana enobuthi kukhona abantu bathembele kakhulu komunye umuntu. Abazi ukuthi bangenza kanjani noma yini bodwa futhi abayicabangi futhi badinga omunye umuntu ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi abe nokuphila komphakathi noma anqume okuthile. Akufanele uthembele komunye umuntu, noma ngokomzwelo nangokwezimali, ngoba kukubeka ethubeni lokuzithoba futhi ubukeleke phansi komunye.
Imibhangqwana esebenzisa ukuhlukumeza ngokomzwelo
Kunemibhangqwana engihlala ngazi kuyo sebenzisa ukuhlukumeza okungokomzwelo ukuthola okufunayo. Akukho ukuxoxisana nokuvumelana, kepha kunokukhohlisa okungokomzwelo. Lokhu kuholela ekutheni omunye umuntu avume kodwa azizwe esetshenziswa, okuzoqoqa intukuthelo.