Ngesikhathi uqala ubudlelwano nowawushade naye, kungenzeka wawungakaze ucabange ukuthi ngemuva kokumshiya, wayezokukhathaza aze afike ekuhlukumezeni. Uma kwenzeka kuwe, kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi unokungazethembi futhi nganoma yisiphi isikhathi akufanele ubeke engcupheni ubuqotho bakho. Uma ucabanga ukuthi usengozini, yazisa abantu obathandayo neziphathimandla zendawo ukuze bakusize ngokushesha okukhulu.
Okulandelayo, sizokutshela ngamanye amaphrofayli avame kakhulu we-stalker wangaphambili ukuze ubheke futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuze wazi ukuthi ungaziphatha kanjani esimweni ngasinye.
Abangazi lutho
Owayengumdala wakho angaba "nzima" aze afike ezingeni lapho bekucindezela khona, kepha abalona uhlobo oluyingozi, ngoba abakwazi nakukuqaphela lokho. Ngala madoda, kufanele uwuchaze. Batshele ukuthi ufuna ukuba wedwa, batshele ukuthi ubabona kuphela njengabangane, uqhubeka nempilo yakho futhi ungabonga uma beyeka ukukuthumelela imiyalezo futhi bekuthumela ama-roses.
Uma engakwenzi, mtshele ukuthi uzovala inombolo yakhe bese umsusa ezinkundleni zokuxhumana uma engayeki. Uma namanje engayeki, abanamqondo kodwa i-stalker yangempela futhi kufanele uthathe izinyathelo zokuphepha.
Abanomona
Uma utshela abangani bakho ukuthi "isoka lami lakudala liyangihlukumeza" futhi ngasikhathi sinye ubatshela ukuthi wayekade enomona kakhulu futhi / noma elawula, lapho-ke kungaba nesizathu sokukhathazeka uma engayeki ukukuthumela imiyalezo noma ukuvela okungaziswanga. Mtshele ngokuqinile ukuthi ayeke. Kwenze kucace ukuthi ufuna ngikushiye wedwa nokuthi naye futhi akekho omunye umuntu ozokwazi ukushintsha umqondo wakhe ngakho.
Uma engayeki, mtshele ukuthi uzothatha izinyathelo zomthetho. Futhi, uma uzizwa ukuthi iyasabisa, thatha izinyathelo zokuzivikela ngokushesha.
Kufanele ukhathazeke nini?
Sivame ukubhekisa kulokho njengokulandela lapho othile ehlale esivakashela ezinkundleni zokuxhumana futhi asithumelela imiyalezo ngokweqile. Noma kunjalo, kukhona umugqa lapho usuka khona eba nentshiseko ngokweqile ngokukubuyisa futhi akusukele ngokungathi sína.
Uma uthola imibono eminingi engemihle kubo ngendlela yemiyalezo, ama-imeyili, izingcingo, ukuphawula ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, njll., Noma yiluphi uhlobo losongo (oluvela kubo abafuna ukuzibulala uma ungabuyi. Uma bekusongela ngezinto ezinjalo kuzokulimaza uma uphuma nabanye), ke sekuyisikhathi sokufuna usizo. Shayela inombolo yosizo noma uthinte amaphoyisa.
Esinye isimo okufanele usicabangele lapho ucela usizo ukuthi ngabe ukuthumelela umlayezo ngokunganqamuki, akubhalele kuyo yonke imithombo yezokuxhumana yakho, noma avele empilweni yangempela ukukuhlukumeza, noma ngabe lokho akushoyo nakwenzayo kukuhle . Lokho kwehluke kakhulu kumuntu okuthumela imiyalezo kaningi ngosuku futhi asithande isimo sakho se-Facebook.
Musa ukusula ubufakazi
Ngenkathi ungahle uthande ukususa amazwana e-Facebook athunyelwe yi-stalker yakho, thatha isithombe kuqala (thatha isithombe-skrini ukuze ubone usuku nesikhathi, umongo wokuthunyelwe, njll.). Kubalulekile ukulandela umkhondo wezinto uma udinga ukuthatha izinyathelo zomthetho.
Uma izinto ziba zimbi kakhulu kwi-inthanethi
Uma owakwakho ekuhlukumeza ku-inthanethi, cabanga ngokushintsha i-imeyili yakho, i-Facebook ne-Twitter. Ngaphambi kokwenza kanjalo, ungazama ukuyivimba futhi ushintshe izilungiselelo zakho zokuphepha ukuze uqiniseke ukuthi akekho omunye ngaphandle kwabangani bakho ongabona okuthunyelwe kwakho. Futhi qiniseka ukuthi uvuselela amaphasiwedi akho futhi uwenze aphephe kakhulu, uma kwenzeka uzama ukugenca okuthile.
Uma isimo siba sibi kakhulu, kuzofanela uye kwabomthetho ukuze uzivikele ngokushesha okukhulu.