Menze azinikele kuwe kuphela

abangane ababa yizithandani

Uyalithanda isoka lakho? Ingabe uzinikele ngokuphelele kuye? Ingabe konke okufunayo empilweni yakho? Ingabe ukhombisa izinga elifanayo lokuzibophezela njengawe? Abesifazane abaningi bathola ukuthi amasoka abo angasho ukuthi ayabathanda futhi bahlela ikusasa labo ndawonye. Kodwa-ke, banomuzwa wokuthi isoka labo alibonisi ngempela izinga elifanayo lokuzibophezela njengabo. Ngabe ufuna umlingani wakho azibophezele kuwe?

Lokhu kushiya abesifazane abaningi bezizwa bengavikelekile, bezenyeza, bekhathazekile, becindezelekile, bethukuthele, bedumele, noma besesimweni sokungabaza. Ngenhlanhla, lokho akudingekile, kufanele uthembe umlingani wakho ngenxa yendlela enza ngayo nawe, abakutshela khona ngomlomo nangokuthi ngisho nomzimba wabo ukutshela ini.

Kodwa-ke, lokho akwanele kwabesifazane abaningi. Esikhundleni salokho, babona ukuthi badinga ukwenza enye into, futhi futhi badinga ukusebenzela ukwenza isoka labo lizibophezele kubo. Laba besifazane abanaphutha ngokuphelele. Vele, kufanele uwathathe ngokungathi sína amazwi akhe. Kodwa-ke, esikhundleni sokuzibuza ukuthi kanjani umenze azinikele kuwe kuphela, ungenza ngokufanele.

Uma wenza isoka lakho lizinikele kuwe futhi kuwe kuphela, kusho ukuthi kufanele usebenze ukumkhombisa ukuthi uyakufuna lokho. Ungakufezekisa lokhu ngokwenza izinto ezithile ebudlelwaneni bakho ezizokuvumela ukuthi uthole imiphumela oyifunayo. Sikutshela kanjani!

Yiba ngokwakho ukuzibophezela

Uma ufuna isoka lakho lizibophezele kuwe futhi kuwe kuphela, lapho-ke kufanele ube nguwe ngokuphelele. Ungazifihli izingxenye zobuntu bakho noma wena uqobo. Esikhundleni salokho, mkhombise uqobo lwakho, yonke ingxenye, futhi ungabi namahloni noma ukhathazeke. Ukuze ubudlelwano bakho buqine futhi azibophezele kuwe, kumele ube ngu-100% ngokwakho.

izithandani ezisothandweni

Ngokuba wedwa ngokuphelele nesoka lakho, uzobona ukuthi uyamvulela nokuthi wehlisa izindonga zakho futhi uzivikele.. Uma wenza lokhu, uzokubona, akujabulele ukuthi uyamkhathalela futhi umethemba kangaka, naye uzokwenzela okufanayo. Uma senikwenzile nobabili lokhu, nizosondela esinyathelweni sinye ekufuneni kwakho ukwenza isoka lakho lizinikele kuwe kuphela. Ukungasho, lokhu kuzobuthuthukisa ubudlelwane ngezindlela eziningi.

Yiba nentshisekelo

Lapho uzibuza ukuthi ungenza kanjani ukuthi isoka lakho lizibophezele kuwe kuphela, kufanele uzibuze ukuthi yini eliyithandayo nokuthi yini eliyithandayo. Uma ungasabonisi intshisekelo kulokho okuthandayo, kufanele uqale. Lokhu kunzima kwabesifazane abaningi njengoba bethola ukuthi ezinye zezinto isoka elizithandayo ziyisicefe, ziyadida, noma nje azithandi.

Kodwa-ke, lapho wenza isoka lakho lizinikele kuwe kuphela, kufanele ulikhombise ukuthi unentshisekelo kulokho akwenzayo nokuthi uzimisele ukuba yingxenye yezwe lakhe, noma ngabe awumthandi ngempela. Umqondo obalulekile okufanele ugcinwe engqondweni lapha ukuthi lapho wenza lokhu, mkhombise ukuthi ujabulile nokuthi ukwenze ngokusuka enhliziyweni. Ngeke uqambe amanga uthi uyayithanda uma ungayithandi, kepha awukwazi ukukhononda ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi.

Yiba nguwe uqobo futhi wazi ukuthi wenza lokhu nangenxa yomuntu omthandayo. Uma ucabanga ngakho ngaleyo ndlela, kufanele kube ngaphezu kokwanele ukukujabulisa futhi ufune ukuqhubeka nokwenza izinto naye ezimfanele.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.