Ukuhambisana kuyisici esibalulekile kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lobudlelwano obungahlala isikhathi eside. Abantu abaningi ngephutha bahlobanisa iqiniso lokuxabana noma ukulwa nombhangqwana nomqondo wokungahambisani. Umbhangqwana ungafanelana futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo ube nezingxabano ngezikhathi ezithile ngenxa yezinkinga zansuku zonke.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sikunikeza uchungechunge lokhiye abangakusiza wazi uma kukhona ukuhambisana nozakwenu.
Kukhona inhlonipho ebudlelwaneni
Isici sokuqala esingabonisa ukuthi kukhona ukuhambisana nabashadile ubukhona benhlonipho. Ukuntuleka kwenhlonipho ebudlelwaneni kuholela ohlotsheni lokuhlukumeza ngokomzwelo okungafanele kubekezelelwe. Njengoba kunikezwe lokhu, kukhona ukungahambisani okusobala phakathi kobudlelwano kanye nobuthi obuthile obungaholela ekubhujisweni kwesibopho. Ngeshwa, leli inani elingekho ebudlelwaneni obuningi banamuhla.
Chitha isikhathi esihle nomlingani wakho
Ukuba nophathina akusho ukuthi kufanele uchithe amahora angu-24 ngosuku nomuntu omthandayo. Iqembu ngalinye kufanele libe nesikhathi somuntu ngamunye ukuze likwazi ukwenza elikufunayo noma elikufunayo. Ngaphandle kwalesi sikhathi esishiwo kujwayelekile ukujabulela ndawonye nelinye iqembu. Ukuchitha isikhathi esihle nomlingani wakho kuwuphawu oluqinisekile lokuthi kungase kube khona ukuhambisana okuthile.
Uthando lungaphezu kokukhangwa ngokomzimba
Kungenzeka ukuthi ekuqaleni noma ekuqaleni kobudlelwane, isici somzimba sinendima ebaluleke kakhulu. Kodwa-ke, futhi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, uma lokhu kuqhubeka nokunqoba ezinye izici ezinjengobuntu noma izici ezithile zemizwa, Kungaholela ezinkingeni ezithile ebudlelwaneni. Uthando lungaphezu kokukhangwa ngokomzimba, njengoba kunjalo ngokwamukelwa kwezimiso ezithile njengenhlonipho, ukwethenjwa noma uthando. Umbhangqwana ohambisanayo yilowo lapho uthando nothando lungaphezu kokukhangwa ngokomzimba okukhulunywe ngakho ngenhla.
Ukuba khona kokuxhumana okuhle
Ngaphambi kokufika kwezinkinga ezithile, awukwazi ukubheka ngenye indlela noma wehlise izingalo zakho. Umbhangqwana uwudaba lwabantu ababili yingakho izinkinga kumele zibhekane ngqo nezixazululo ezithile ngokuxoxisana. Ukuxhumana okuhle phakathi kwezinhlangothi kungenye yezinto ezingakhombisa ukuthi kukhona ukuhambisana ebudlelwaneni.
Kafushane, okhiye ababonwe ngenhla abaqinisekisi ukuthi ubudlelwano obuthile bungasebenza kahle futhi buhlale ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Lezi yizici ezibalulekile ukuze umbhangqwana usebenze kanjalo futhi uthathwe njengonempilo.. Ukuze kube nokuhambisana kuyo, amanani athile kufanele anikezwe futhi kufanele asebenze ngokubambisana lapho kukhona izinkinga ezithile. Abathintekayo kumele benze okuthile ukuze bathole inhlalakahle ethile ebudlelwaneni. Uma kungenjalo, kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ukungahambisani kuyinto yangempela engaqeda isibopho esakhiwe.