Ungazi kanjani ukuthi umlingani wakho akaphilile ngokomzwelo

izingxabano-izithandani-zikasofa

Kumbhangqwana, imizwa nemizwelo igeleza ngokuqhubekayo futhi ziyizihluthulelo zokuthi isebenze noma ngokuphambene nayo izohluleka. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi amalungu amabili ombhangqwana azi ukuthi angaphelelisana kanjani ngokomzwelo futhi akwazi ukulawula le mizwa ukuze angalimazi othandekayo. Ukungazinzi ngokomzwelo kuvame ukulimaza ubuhlobo futhi kuyisizathu sokuqhekeka kwenani elikhulu labashadile.

Njengoba kunikezwe lokhu, kubalulekile ukwelapha le nkinga ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka, ukuvimbela ubudlelwano ukuthi bufike esiphethweni futhi bubhujiswe. Esihlokweni esilandelayo sikubonisa izimpawu ezi-4 ezicacile zomuntu ongazinzile ngokomzwelo nokuthi lokhu kungabathinta kanjani umbhangqwana.

ngolaka ngawo wonke amahora

Ukungahlaliseki ngokomzwelo kwenza umuntu ahlale ethukuthele futhi abe nokungakhululeki okungazuzisi umbhangqwana. Azikho izikhathi zenjabulo phakathi kwezinhlangothi zombili futhi izixazululo zezinkinga ezingase ziphakame azifunwa. Njengenhlalayenza, yenaukuthukuthela phezu kwakho konke kubangela izingxabano nezingxabano lokho akuyizuzi nhlobo inhlalakahle yombhangqwana.

Kungazelelwe, ukuguquguquka kwemizwa ebukhali

Esinye sezici ezivamile zomuntu onokungaqini kahle ngokomzwelo kungenxa yokuthi uhlushwa ukuguquguquka kwemizwa kungazelelwe. Ngemizuzu embalwa, umuntu onjalo angasuka ekubeni ejabule futhi ejabule aye ekubeni ephansi futhi ecindezelekile. Lokhu, njengokujwayelekile, kulimaza ukuhlalisana nombhangqwana futhi kubangela ubudlelwano bona bubhidlike kancane kancane. Ukuguquguquka kwemizwa kungazelelwe kubangela ukuba kudaleke umoya ongavamile ongabuvuni nhlobo ubuhlobo.

ubuthi-ubudlelwane

Ukubekezelela okuphansi ngezikhathi zokucindezeleka

Ezikhathini ezinzima nezinzima, Bangabantu abavame ukukhungatheka futhi bathukuthele ngaphandle kokunikeza izixazululo. Kukhona i-obfuscation ebalulekile engakuvumeli ukuthola izixazululo ezilungile noma ezanele nhlobo. Ukubekezelelana okuncane kubangela ukuthi ibhola libe likhulu kakhulu futhi lingaqhuma esikhathini esizayo sombhangqwana. Awukwazi ukwehlisa izingalo zakho lapho kuvela izinkinga futhi ungenzi lutho ngakho. Ubudlelwano buyindaba emibili futhi kufanele ube nokuvuthwa okwanele lapho ubhekana nezinkinga ezihlukahlukene ezingase ziphakame.

Izinkinga zokuxhumana

Olunye lwezimpawu ezicacile zabantu abangazinzile ngokomzwelo ukuthi banezinkinga ezithile lapho bexhumana nophathina babo noma nendawo abasondelene nabo. Lokhu kuntuleka kokukhulumisana kuyinto ezoba nomthelela omubi kakhulu ekusaseni elihle lombhangqwana. Umuntu onezinkinga uvame ukuzihlukanisa Angisakhulumi noma yini nomlingani wami, kukhona okunomthelela omubi ebudlelwaneni uqobo.

Okufanele ukwenze nomuntu ongazinzile emoyeni

Njengoba kunikezwe lokhu, kubalulekile ukufuna usizo kuchwepheshe omuhle owazi ukuthi angabhekana kanjani nenkinga yombhangqwana onjalo. Ukwazi ukuphatha imizwa ehlukene kubalulekile futhi kubalulekile uma kuziwa kumbhangqwana osebenza kahle. Ngaphandle kochwepheshe, umsebenzi wombhangqwana ubalulekile uma kuziwa ekuxazululeni le nkinga. Ukuthola ukwesekwa okukhulu okuvela kothandekayo kungenza izinto zibe lula futhi usize umuntu okukhulunywa ngaye ukuthi akwazi ukulawula yonke imizwa nemizwa yakhe futhi abavimbele ekubhubhiseni isibopho esidaliwe.

Ngamafuphi, kunzima ngempela ukuba nobuhlobo nomuntu ongazinzile ngokomzwelo. Ukuze umbhangqwana usebenze, imizwa kufanele igeleze ngaphandle kwenkinga futhi iphelelisane, ukuze ingalimali. 


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  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
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  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
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