Uma ulwa njalo futhi uphikisana nomlingani wakho futhi kukhona ukuntuleka kokuxhumana okusobala, Kungenzeka kakhulu ukuthi ubhekene nesimo esibucayi. Ukuze umbhangqwana othile ukwazi ukuziphilisa ngaphandle kwenkinga futhi uqhubeke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukuhileleka kwezinhlangothi kanye nokukhulumisana okuhle kubalulekile. Ukwethembana nokuvikeleka yinto ezovumela umbhangqwana ukuthi ukhule ngendlela enempilo.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokhuluma ngakho lezo zici ezingabangela ukwehla okuthile ebuhlotsheni nokuthi yini okufanele yenziwe kulesi simo.
Ukubandakanyeka okuncane nokungabi nozwelo
Ukuze umbhangqwana ungangeni enkingeni eyesabekayo, kubalulekile ukuthi izinhlangothi zikhombisa ukubandakanyeka okuphelele kubhondi edaliwe. Umbhangqwana uwudaba lwabantu ababili futhi ngenxa yalokho kufanele ubonise ukubandakanyeka okuqinile uma kuziwa ekubhekaneni nezinkinga ezahlukene ezivelayo. Ngendlela efanayo, abathintekayo kufanele bazwelane nombhangqwana ngangokunokwenzeka, ngoba ngaphandle kwalokho ubuhlobo bungase buqale ukuba buthaka futhi bubangele ukwehla okukhulu kubo.
Ukungabi nesithakazelo
Ubuhlobo abusebenzi uma omunye wabashadikazi ebonisa isithakazelo kulokho okwenzeke komunye umuntu. Lokhu kuntuleka kwesithakazelo kungabonisa ukuthi awukhululekile phambi komlingani wakho futhi ukuze ubudlelwano buyaphela. Kuyinto ecindezelayo futhi ehlanganisa ukungabi namandla okuthile, ukuhlola ukuthi umbhangqwana ubonisa kanjani ukungabi nandaba okuphawulekayo kukho konke. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, lokhu kuntuleka kwesithakazelo kugcina kubangele inkinga esabekayo yombhangqwana.
Ukuxhumana okubi
Ukugcina ukukhulumisana okuhle nombhangqwana kungenye yezinsika eziyisisekelo neziyisisekelo ukuze ubuhlobo buhambe kahle. Ngenxa yokuxhumana okumanzi phakathi kwamaqembu, kungenzeka ukuxazulula izinkinga ezahlukene ezingase ziphakame. Ulimi olusetshenziswa uma kuxoxwa kufanele lwenziwe ngaphandle kwamagama anomsindo omkhulu kanye ekhombisa inhlonipho kumlingani. Akukuhle ukugcina ukuxhumana ngokumemeza nokubukela phansi omunye umuntu ngoba lokhu kugcina kubukela phansi ubudlelwano uqobo.
Ningenzi imisebenzi ehlanganyelwe
Ebudlelwaneni bombhangqwana, amaqembu kufanele abe nesikhathi sodwa, ngaphandle kokukhohlwa ukuthi isikhathi esisetshenziselwa ukwenza imisebenzi ehlangene sibalulekile. Ukuchitha isikhathi sekhwalithi ndawonye Kuyinto eholela ngendlela enhle ekusaseni elihle lombhangqwana. Ukwenza imisebenzi ehlanganyelwe yinto eletha ukuvikeleka kanye nenhlalakahle ebudlelwaneni.
Ukungabi nethemba
Kanye nokuxhumana Ukwethembana kungenye yezinto eziyisisekelo noma ezibalulekile ebudlelwaneni. Akukho okungakhiwa uma kunokungathembani okuthile nhlangothi zombili. Ukungathembeki okunjalo kubangela ukungabaza okungathi sína okubangela ubudlelwano buntengantenge ngendlela eyingozi.
izinkinga ezingeni lezocansi
Ukuba nezinkinga ezingathi sína zobulili kungase kubonise ukuthi umbhangqwana usenkingeni. Kungaba nezinto eziningi ezidala ukuthi impilo yocansi ithinteke: kusukela ekukhathaleni kuya ekuguleni noma ekusweleni isikhathi. Ucansi luyinto ebaluleke kakhulu kunoma yibuphi ubudlelwano, yingakho kubalulekile ukuthi ungabunaki.
Kafushane, lezi ngezinye zezinto ezingase zibonise ukuthi ubudlelwano obuthile buyawohloka. Inkinga yombhangqwana ingenzeka kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lobudlelwano, okubalulekile ukukumisa ukulivimba lingaphuki unomphela. Okubalulekile ukuthola imbangela bese usuka lapho, uyilungise. Ezimweni eziningi, ukwelashwa kwabashadile kuwukhiye ekuxazululeni inkinga nokwenza ubudlelwano buqhubeke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kunoma yikuphi, kubalulekile ukuthi izinhlangothi zibambe iqhaza ngokugcwele kule nkinga futhi ziqhamuke nezixazululo ezingcono kakhulu.