Ukuxhumana phakathi kombhangqwana kufanele kube uketshezi futhi kube umkhuba ukuze isibopho singabi buthaka noma siwohloke. Izihloko okuzoxoxwa ngazo zivame ukuba ziningi, okunye okungaphatheki kahle kube yileso esithinta ukunqunywa kwesikhala phakathi kwabashadile.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokhuluma nawe ngendlela enemininingwane eyengeziwe wezikhala ebudlelwaneni bombhangqwana kanye nokubaluleka abanako uma kuziwa ekuqiniseni isibopho esidaliwe.
Izikhala phakathi kwabashadile
Indaba yokunqunywa kwezikhala ebudlelwaneni imvamisa idala ukungezwani nezinkinga eziningi phakathi kwayo. Kukhona abashadile abachitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye bakhohlwe ngendawo eyodwa. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, kuneminye imibhangqwana ekhetha isikhathi somuntu ngamunye, inganaki izikhathi ezihlangene. Embhangqwaneni, umuntu ngamunye kufanele abe nesikhathi nendawo ukuze ungazizwa ukhungathekile noma udonswe ngomunye umuntu. Yingakho kubalulekile ukukhuluma nombhangqwana mayelana nokuhlukaniswa kwezikhala.
Zizichaza kanjani izikhala ebudlelwaneni
- Okokuqala, kulula ukuhlala phansi nombhangqwana futhi nikhulume ngakho ngendlela evulekile. Kungcono ukubekela eceleni intukuthelo futhi ukwenze ngendlela ezolile nenenhlonipho. Lapho amaqiniso ahlukahlukene esedaluliwe, kuhle ukwazi ukuthi ungalalela kanjani umbhangqwana futhi ufinyelele esivumelwaneni esingcono kakhulu.
- Umuntu ngamunye uhlukile futhi imicabango ngokuvamile ayifani. Izidingo ngokwesikhala zingahluka kwezakho. Kubalulekile ukuzamukela futhi uzibone futhi kusukela lapho sungula imingcele ehambisanayo.
- Isici sesithathu okufanele sicatshangelwe lapho kusungulwa ukuhlukaniswa kwezikhala, ukubheka imisebenzi ethile evumela ukuzijabulisa okuhlangene nokuhlangene.
- Indawo emisiwe kufanele ihlonishwe futhi ingasunguli noma yiluphi uhlobo lomkhawulo kuyo. Umbhangqwana awunakuvinjelwa ekwenzeni okuthile lapho sekwenziwe okuphambene.
Ukubaluleka kokusungula izikhala kwabashadile
Sungula izikhala ebudlelwaneni kuyindlela yokubonisa uthando nenhlonipho ngaphakathi kuyo. Lawa magugu abalulekile futhi abalulekile kunoma yimuphi umbhangqwana. Inhlonipho yenza ubuhlobo bukhule futhi injabulo izinze phakathi kwabashadile. Ukuba nezikhala zomuntu siqu kuyisihluthulelo kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lobudlelwano olungabhekwa njengobunempilo.
Ukulungisa izindawo ezinjalo akuwona umsebenzi olula kumbhangqwana, yingakho ngezikhathi ezithile kuhle ukucela usizo kuchwepheshe. Ngaphandle kosizo kubalulekile ukuba nesikhathi nomzamo othile kubo bobabili abantu.
Kafushane, ukuba nobudlelwano umbhangqwana kusho ukwabelana isikhathi ndawonye nomunye umuntu futhi ube nesikhathi esithile sokujabulela ngendlela eyodwa. Kubalulekile ukuthola ukulingana okuphelele ukuze umbhangqwana ungazizwa ucasukile nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Akuwona umsebenzi olula futhi uzodinga ukuzola nokuthula okukhulu lapho kusungulwa izikhala umuntu ngamunye phakathi kwabashadile abazoba nazo.