Ingabe ukungathembeki okungokomzwelo kubi kakhulu kunokwenyama?

izithandani ezingathembekile ngokomzwelo

Kubantu abaningi, abesilisa noma abesifazane, ukukopela kuyisibonakaliso sokugcina sokungahloniphi nezizathu ezisheshayo zokuqeda ubuhlobo. Kulungile. Uma ukhohlisa umuntu wakho, wephula ukwethembeka okungcwele okwakhiwe ebudlelwaneni bakho bezothando. Ukwethembana akulula ukwakha futhi akuzi kalula. Inqwabelana kuphela ngemuva kokuthi ingxenye ngayinye iziveze kaningi ukuthi ithembekile futhi inokwethenjelwa.

Ukungathembeki ngokuyisisekelo kusho ukuthi awubuxabisi ubudlelwano bakho noma isikhathi ositshalile kubo. Kodwa-ke, konke ukungathembeki akunalo igalelo elifanayo. Impela, nakanjani ungaphatheka kabi enhliziyweni uma uthola ukuthi umlingani wakho ubekade ehileleke ekuthandaneni ngokomzimba ngemuva kwakho. Noma ngubani anga ... Ngaphezu kobungozi obusobala bezempilo, kungenzeka uzizwe ukhashelwe futhi uzibuze ukuthi kungani ekwenzile.

Yize ukuthola ukuthi umlingani wakho ubengathembekile ngokomzwelo kuwe kungahle kube ukungathembeki kwenyama kwabaningi. Izinto zomzimba zibhekene nomzimba, kanti izindaba ezingokomzwelo zibhekene nenhliziyo. Funda ukuze uthole ukuthi kungani lokho kulimaza kakhulu.

Ukungathembeki ngokomzwelo

Ukungathembeki ngokomzwelo kwenzeka lapho umuntu eshiya ubudlelwane babo ukuze anelise izidingo zabo ezingokomzwelo. Esikhundleni sokuthembela kumlingani wabo ukuthola lokhu kusekelwa, babheka kumngane osondelene naye, osebenza naye, noma ngisho nakwisihambi. Imvamisa akuyona into umuntu ayifunayo. Ikhula ngokwemvelo. Omunye angazizwa enganakiwe noma enesizungu ngakho-ke ngokwemvelo bayoncika kothile obanakayo.

Ekuqaleni, bangabophezeleka ezintweni enizithandayo noma enizithandayo. Lokhu kukhiqiza izingcingo nemiyalezo ebhaliwe ngaso sonke isikhathi sosuku. Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, bangahle bathuthukise nolimi lwabo lapho amahlaya abiwe ekhulunywa. Ngendlela efanayo, Baye baba umlutha kakhulu kulokho omunye umuntu abenza bazizwe sengathi umlingani wabo wamanje akasekho kulo msebenzi.

izithandani ezingathembekile ngokomzwelo

Ukungathembeki ngokomzwelo kusho inhloso

Akekho ofuna ukukhohliswa, kusobala, kepha indaba yesikhathi esisodwa ingachithwa njengokuphelelwa yisikhashana kwesahlulelo noma umzuzwana wobuthakathaka. Izindaba ezingokomzwelo zibandakanya inhloso. Akunakwenzeka ukuthi uthandane nothile ngengozi ngendlela efanayo ongase udakwe ngayo, futhi "ngengozi" ulale nomuntu ohlangane naye endaweni yokucima ukoma.

Izibopho ezingokomzwelo ziyakhula ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ngezigaba. Ungahle ungaboni ekuqaleni ukuthi ubhukuda endaweni eyingozi, kepha njengoba i-adventure engokomzwelo iqhubeka, akunakwenzeka ukuphika okwenzekayo. Ukubandakanyeka othandweni lomzwelo kuthi noma unembeza wakhe umtshela ukuthi mhlawumbe uzithanda kakhulu, uncamela ukwanelisa izidingo zakhe bese ucabanga ngezomlingani wakho.

Ngakho-ke, ngokuzithandela uthathe isinqumo sokuqhubeka nokwakha ubudlelwano besibili. Kungabonakala sengathi lokhu akuyona into enkulu, kepha kunjalo. Izindaba ezingokomzwelo aziqhutshwa inkanuko, kepha yimizwa nemizwa.

Uthando ebelugcinelwa umlingani wakho manje selunikezwa lo muntu omusha. Kanjalo, manje uvumela lo muntu wesithathu ukuthi afeze indima empilweni yakho obekufanele ilawulwe kuphela nguzakwenu.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.