Isifiso socansi siyinto egeleza ngokuqhubekayo kubantu abaningi. Kungashintshwa izimo ezithile zomuntu siqu, njengokucindezeleka noma impilo engokomzwelo. Ngale ndlela, umuntu ocindezelekile angase abe nokunganaki okuthile maqondana nobulili noma adinge ubulili ukuze anciphise izinkinga ezibangelwa ukucindezeleka okushiwo.
Endabeni yabashadile, omunye wabashadile uvame ukuba nesifiso socansi esiningi kunomunye, okuvame ukudala izinkinga ezithile. Esihlokweni esilandelayo siyakutshela indlela yokwenza uma omunye wabalingani enesifiso socansi esingaphezu komunye.
Ukubaluleka kokuxhumana
Ingxoxo nokuxhumana kubalulekile kunoma yimuphi umbhangqwana. Esimeni lapho kuba nezinkinga ezithile lapho niya ocansini, Ukuxoxisana kusiza ukugwema izingxabano ezithile phakathi kobudlelwano. Ucansi angeke lube yisibopho, kufanele kube isikhashana sokusondelana phakathi kwabashadile esiza ukuqinisa isibopho esidaliwe.
Ukuzwelana kungenye yezinto ezibalulekile uma kuziwa ekuxazululeni izinkinga ezibangelwa ucansi. Kufanele wazi ukuthi ungazibeka kanjani ezicathulweni zomlingani wakho ukuze uqonde ngaso sonke isikhathi isizathu sokunganaki okunjalo nokuntuleka kwesifiso sobulili.
Imibukiso yothando nothando kwabashadile
Ucansi akumele lube yinto ewumshini noma ebandayo kodwa isikhashana esigcwele inkanuko nokuvusa inkanuko evusa ubumnandi bombhangqwana. Ngaphambi kokuya ocansini, kubalulekile ukunikeza ukukhetha ekuboniseni uthando nothando kumlingani. Ukuqabula nokuphulula umbhangqwana kufanele kube isandulela sobudlelwane bocansi.
Buyekeza imikhuba yansuku zonke
Kunenombolo yezici zansuku zonke ezingabangela ukunganaki okuthile ezingeni lezocansi. Kwesinye isikhathi ukukhathala, ukukhathala noma ingcindezi kuyimbangela yezinkinga zocansi. Njengoba kunikezwe lokhu, kubalulekile ukushintsha le mikhuba kwabanempilo evumela ukuvuselela i-libido kanye nesifiso socansi. Ukushaya indlwabu ngezikhathi ezithile kungasiza isifiso sobulili sibuyele kumbhangqwana. Ukubandakanya omunye umuntu kulesi sikhathi kungaxazulula izinkinga zesifiso socansi futhi kusize ukuvusa kabusha i-libido. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu okunjalo kuba umkhuba futhi ovamile, kungadingeka ukuya kuchwepheshe owazi ukuqeda le nkinga.
Ngamafuphi, ucansi kufanele kube isikhathi esikhethekile futhi imilingo yimuphi umbhangqwana. Uma kuba yisibopho sangempela, maningi amathuba okuthi izinkinga ziqale ukuvela phakathi kobudlelwano. Uma kubonakala ukunganaki ngezinga lobulili, kubalulekile ukukhuluma nombhangqwana ukuze kutholwe ikhambi eliwuzuzisa wona. Khumbula ukuthi ucansi kumele kube yinto yokuzithandela futhi kufanele kube yisikhathi sokuthokozela izinhlangothi zombili.