Ingabe unalo ikati elikhulile kakade elisesigabeni salo sokuguga? Uma uke waba nakho impilo yakho yonke, izinguquko ohlangabezana nazo ngeke zinganakwa. Ngoba amakati angakwazi ukuhlala iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-15, kodwa kusukela eminyakeni engu-8 singasho kakade ukuthi azoshintsha kancane kancane kulesi simo esisha.
Ngakho-ke, badinga okuningi kakhulu kithi futhi sizoba khona ukuze sibanikeze kona. Uma nangaphambi kokuba sazi kakhulu ngabo, manje sizoba njalo nakakhulu. Kodwa njalo ukukhuthaza imikhuba emihle ngoba yibona ngempela abenza ukuthi bakwazi ukuqhubeka nokuba ngcono kakhulu yize beqhubeka neminyaka yobudala. Ungakunaki konke okulandelayo!
Ukuzivocavoca kubalulekile kodwa ngokulinganisela ekati elikhulile
Bane, futhi kufanele, basebenze kancane. Kodwa kuyiqiniso ukuthi amandla ngeke esafana nangaphambili. kanjalo ku kulokhu kungcono ukuqhubeka nokuzivocavoca kodwa ngendlela ekhululekile. Futhi ngeke kudingeke ukuba akwenze nsuku zonke, kodwa ungachitha isikhathi esengeziwe naye futhi udlale naye. Ukuthi nje uzizwa ephephile futhi ezolile, ejabulela intambama enhle nawe kodwa ngaphandle komzamo omkhulu. Ukuhamba okufushane nakho kufanelekile kakhulu, nakuba kuyiqiniso ukuthi amanye amakati ngeke ahlale ethule noma ekhululekile njengoba silindele.
Ukudla okuhambisana neminyaka yabo
Sihlala sizama ukukwenza kube njalo, kodwa kulokhu kusamelwe sikunake kakhulu ngangokunokwenzeka. Ukwenza lokhu, akukho okufana nokufuna ukudla okuqondile kwamakati amadala. ngoba kuzoba nguye okunikeza wonke amavithamini nezithako zokudla okunomsoco ozidingayo emzimbeni wakho. Ngoba injongo iwukukhulisa izivikeli zakho kuyilapho uqinisa amasosha akho omzimba. Ukudla okuhle nakho kuzokwenza amafutha agaywe ngcono futhi avikele amalunga akho. Njengoba ziyizici eziyisisekelo ukuze ukwazi ukukunikeza ukunakekelwa okungcono kakhulu.
Ungayishintshi imikhuba yabo
Amakati ajwayele ukubheja ngokuba nemikhuba engaguquki. Bathanda ukuthi lesi simiso siyingxenye yokuphila kwabo, ngakho-ke, naphezu kokuhamba kwesikhathi, kuhlale kungcono ukuthi bahlale. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuthiwa lapho sebekhulile, basafuna isimiso esimisiwe kakhulu kunakuqala. Ngakho-ke, okuhle ukuthi asikushintshi noma endabeni yemidlalo noma ukuhamba, sondla yonke into ojwayele ukuyenza nsuku zonke. Kuyindlela yokukugcina ukhululeke kakhudlwana futhi ezokusiza ezinsukwini zakho.
Ukuhlanzeka kwekati elikhulile
Kungelinye iphuzu okufanele sililawule. Nakuba amakati eseyizilwane ezihlanzekile ngokwemvelo, kulesi sigaba kufanele sikuqaphele kancane. ngaphezu kwanoma yini ngoba bangakwazi ukukhiqiza lezo zinwele zezinwele ezigwinywe futhi lokho kuthola ezinkingeni ezithile ezibhekene nesisu sakho. Ngakho-ke, kungcono ukuzama ukuyixubha ukuze ususe inani eliphakeme lezinwele, ikakhulukazi lapho izinkathi zonyaka zishintsha. Izindlebe nazo zingaqongelela ukungcola okwengeziwe futhi-ke, sekuyisikhathi sokuqaphela nokuzigeza uma kunesidingo. Nakuba kuwumsebenzi oyinkimbinkimbi, ungazama futhi ukufaka izinzipho zakho. Ukuze ikati lakho libukeke linakekelwe futhi liphelele.
Muse kudokotela wezilwane
Noma kunjalo ukubuyekezwa kukhona ngaso sonke isikhathi sokuphila kwabo, ikati elikhulile lingase lidinge ukunakwa okwengeziwe. Ngalesi sizathu, akukho okufana nokuyisa kudokotela wezilwane ukuze asitshele ukuthi yiziphi izinyathelo ezingcono kakhulu okufanele sizilandele. Ikakhulukazi uma uhlushwa uhlobo oluthile lokugula. Uzokhuluma nawe mayelana nokunakekelwa kwabo futhi kunjalo, futhi mayelana nokudla okulungile komunye nomunye wabo. Ingabe unalo ikati elikhulile ekhaya?