Ukuhlaliswa ebudlelwaneni ... ingabe kubi?

imibhangqwana ebudlelwaneni obuntofontofo

Bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane banokwesaba empilweni, abanye bayafana kanti abanye bahluke kakhulu. Ukwesaba okukhulu kuwo wonke umuntu ukuzibophezela kumlingani wakhe ... kepha kukhona nalabo abahlala kakhulu, ngabe kuyinto embi le? Ukuzizwa ukhululekile ebudlelwaneni kusho ukuthi kunokuvuleleka ebudlelwaneni kanye nokwamukelwa, ukwethembana, ukwethembeka, ukuzibophezela, kanye nalolo xhumo olukhethekile olungachazeki.

Kodwa-ke, abantu abaningi bathola ukuthi ezinye izinto kufanele zihlale zifihliwe futhi zingaziwa imibhangqwana. Ukuthi lezi zithandani akufanele zibone ukuthi yini engemuva kwesihenqo ukuze kube lula nokuzola kwazo, kodwa akunjalo ngempela.

Kukhona ukucwaswa, nesithombe ezingqondweni zabantu ngoba abezindaba baveza ukuthi izithandani ezizizwa zikhululekile ebudlelwaneni, zidala izinkinga. Ngaleyo ndlela kwakhiwa inkohliso yokuthi kuyinto embi. Ngokusobala, ukukhululeka ebudlelwaneni kungaba yinto enhle - funda ukuze uthole ukuthi kungani!

Kunjani ukuzizwa ukhululekile ebudlelwaneni?

Ukuze uqalise, kubalulekile ukuthi ubheke ukuthi kunjani ukukhululeka ebudlelwaneni. Ngenkathi ezinye zalezi zimfanelo nezici zingazwakala zingenanhlonipho, zinamahloni, noma zinjengokuthi awunandaba nokuthi umlingani wakho ucabangani ngawe, akunjalo. Noma kunjalo, akhombisa izici eziningi ezinhle zobudlelwano bakho, ngakho-ke funda lezi zimfanelo ngomqondo ovulekile.

Ngaphandle kwezihlungi

Usho lokho okuzwayo, okucabangayo nayo yonke imibono yakho phambi komlingani wakho. Sezadlula izinsuku lapho ubukade uzibamba imicabango ethile futhi uyeke ukuba ngumuntu othembekile nonenkani. Futhi, akukho lutho olungalungile ngokwenza lokhu. Empeleni kuyinto enhle kakhulu ukuzizwa wenele ngokwanele ukhululekile ebuhlotsheni bakho ukuziveza futhi ube uqobo lwakho nomlingani wakho. Por ejemplo si tu sueñas con tener un bebé y crees que tu momento ha llegado es muy sano que tengas la confianza para ser totalmente franco con tu pareja y expresarle tu deseo.

imibhangqwana ebudlelwaneni obuntofontofo

Uyeka ukudlala ukugqoka

Esikhundleni sokuhlala ubukeka unesitayela, unothando, usezingeni eliphezulu, uphelele, futhi uhlale ugqoke izingubo ezinhle, manje ungakhululeka futhi uzizwe ukhululekile ukugqoka ezinye izinsuku. Akukho lutho olungalungile ngokuhlala ugqoka isethi yakho emnandi yama-bras namaphenti afanayo, ingubo yakho efanele umagazini, amaphijama amahle, noma uhlala ugqoke izimonyo ezifanele ukhaphethi obomvu.

Kodwa-ke, lapho uzizwa ukhululekile ebudlelwaneni, uyabona ukuthi ungakhululeka futhi akudingeki ngaso sonke isikhathi uzizwe ucindezelwa kakhulu ukubukeka uphelele ngo-100% ngaso sonke isikhathi. Esikhundleni salokho, ungabukeka njengawe bese uhlala ujabule kakhulu nomlingani wakho. Vele, lokho akusho ukuthi uyeke ukugqoka ukuze ujabulise.Usenza, hhayi 24/7.

Ngaphandle kwamahloni

Akunandaba ukuthi yini ebikuphoxa, manje akusikho ukuthi ukhululekile nomlingani wakho. FUTHILokhu akuyona into embi, kunalokho, kuyinto enhle. Manje usungazizwa uphephile, ukhululekile, uthandwa futhi unakekelwa ngokwanele kangangokuba awudingi ukuzizwa unamahloni nganoma yini enye.

Futhi ungaba nguwe ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi ubonise ubuntu bakho beqiniso! Izimaski seziphelile futhi ungabujabulela ubudlelwano bakho ngaphandle kokufihla ukuthi ungubani ngempela.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.