Ukuxhashazwa yisihlava salo mphakathi okumele kugwenywe futhi kuqedwe ngokushesha. Indima yomndeni kanye nemfundo etholwa yingane ngaphakathi kuyo, ibalulekile uma kukhulunywa ngokuvimbela ukuhlukunyezwa okunjalo esikoleni. Abazali kumele bakhulise futhi bafundise izingane zabo ngendlela eyiyo futhi efanele futhi bagweme ukuziphatha okungafanele.
Kunochungechunge lwezindinganiso okufanele noma yiziphi izingane zifunde njengoba kunjalo ngenhlonipho, uzwela noma uthando kwezinye izingane. Ngale ndlela, ingane izokwazi ukuxazulula noma yiluphi uhlobo lwengxabano noma inkinga ngendlela enokuthula ngaphandle kokusebenzisa amanye amathuluzi angamukeleki afana nodlame.
Imfundo yasekhaya
Kunezici eziningi okumele zibe khona lapho kufundiswa ingane futhi ngale ndlela ukuvimbela izimo zokuhlukumezeka ezikhona esikoleni:
- Abazali kumele baphendule kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lwesidingo izingane ezinalo.
- Uthando lwabazali ngezingane zabo kumele babe khona njalo ebudlelwaneni bomndeni.
- Abazali kumele bafundise izingane zabo ukuxazulula izingxabano ngendlela eyakhayo nenokuthula.
- Noma ikuphi ukuziphatha noma ukuziphatha kufanele kube nemiphumela yako.
- Ukufundisa uzwela kubalulekile lapho ingane ingafakwa esikhunjeni sezinye izingane.
- Okufundiswa emndenini kubalulekile ekunqandeni ukuxhashazwa okungenzeka, ngoba abancane bathambekele ekuchazeni lokho abahlangabezane nakho ekhaya esikoleni.
Ukubaluleka kokunamathiselwe ekuvimbeleni ukuxhashazwa
Inani lokunamathiselwe libalulekile uma kukhulunywa ngokugwema amacala okuhlukumezeka. Uma ingane izwa ukuzethemba nokuvikeleka ngenxa yemfundo yasekhaya, izokwenqaba kalula konke okuzungeze ukuxhashazwa. Uma, ngokuphambene nalokho, kungekho okunamathiselwe emndenini wakho futhi uthando lubonakala ngokungabikho kwalo, kungenzeka ukuthi uzoba nokuziphatha okuthile okunodlame okuholela ekuhlukunyezweni.
Kunezici eziningi zobungozi ezingasebenza ngaphakathi komndeni futhi lokho kungakhuthaza ukuxhashazwa ezinganeni:
- Ukunamathela nothando phakathi kwamalungu ahlukene omndeni kuyabonakala ngokungabikho kwawo. Alukho uthando noma uthando oluzovumela ukuxhashazwa ezikoleni.
- Ukuziphatha ngodlame ekhaya lomndeni. Uma ingane ibona udlame ekhaya lazo zonke izikhathi, Kujwayelekile ukuthi ayisebenzise esikoleni lapho exazulula izinkinga ezithile.
- Ukufundisa okunganele maqondana nalokhu inhlonipho nokuhambisana nemithetho.
- Abazali bancamela ukusebenzisa izindlela ezingafanele ekufundiseni izingane. Igunya likhona ngaso sonke isikhathi futhi kunokuntuleka okukhulu kokuxhumana.
Lezi zinto ezinobungozi ziyingozi ngoba izingane zivame ukulingisa lokho ezikubona ekhaya. Abazali kufanele babe yizibonelo ezinhle ezinganeni zabo, ngakho-ke kufanele badlulise amanani amahle. Imfundo ibalulekile futhi ibalulekile uma kukhulunywa ngokugwema isimilo nokuziphatha njengoba kubikwa njengoba kwenzeka esimweni sokuxhashazwa.