Uthando lwehlukile ngombono nangokwenza. Iningi labantu libona uthando njengento enempilo lapho umlingani kufanele ahlonishwe futhi athandwe ngokungenamibandela. Kodwa-ke, futhi ngeshwa, ngokwenzekayo kunobudlelwano obungenampilo lapho kutholakala khona ukungahloniphi kozakwethu noma imikhuba emibi.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokutshela umehluko phakathi kothando olunempilo kanye ezinye eziyingozi noma ezingenampilo.
Ukuqina nokukhathazeka
Kuyiqiniso ukuthi ekuqaleni kobunye ubudlelwane yonke into yinhle kakhulu futhi umfutho uphakeme kakhulu ngazo zonke izindlela. Kunokukhathazeka okukhulu ngokuthi ngabe lezi zithandani zijabule futhi zinethezekile yini ebudlelwaneni. Kuyo yonke le minyaka, lokhu kukhulu kuncipha kakhulu futhi ukuboniswa kokubonisana kothando akufani. Kukhona ukwehla okuphawulekayo kokukhathazeka kusukela ekuqaleni.
Ukulawulwa kozakwethu
Endabeni yothando olungenampilo noma olunobuthi, elinye lamalungu alo mbhangqwana lenza umzamo wokususa uhhafu wakhe ongcono kumbuthano osondele kakhulu futhi ngaleyo ndlela likwazi ukumyisa phansi. Kungaphezulu, Bazama ukuguqula lo mbhangqwana ubhekane nabangane nomndeni futhi balawule impilo yabo. Kukhona ukuzazisa okukhulu kokufuna ukunakekelwa okuqhubekayo kumlingani. Lokhu kulawula kuyinto engenzeka ngendlela enembile futhi engokwemvelo.
Umhawu
Enye into ezohlukanisa uthando olunempilo kolunye okungeyona, Kungumona owedlulele welinye lamaqembu kulezi zithandani. Umona udalwa wukuthi omunye wabantu ebudlelwaneni ukholelwa ukuthi umlingani wakhe ungowakhe nokuthi akakwazi ukuhlobana nabanye abantu. Izithandani kumele zisekelwe ngasosonke isikhathi ekuthembekeni kwabo bobabili futhi uma lokhu kwehluleka kuyinto ejwayelekile ukuthi umona onje wokugula nowedlulele uqale ukwenzeka.
Ukungabi nenhlonipho nokudelela
Ukwedelela nokungahloniphi kungenye yezimpawu zothando olungenampilo. Uthando oluthathwa njengolunempilo yilolo lapho bobabili abantu bethembana ngokuphelele. Lokhu kubalulekile lapho ukuzethemba kukhula ngamandla nokuzethemba kukhula kancane kancane. Uthando olunempilo lubheja konke okwenzelwe abashadikazi futhi alufuni ukuqeda amaphupho abo nezinhloso zabo empilweni. Futhi akulungile ngekusasa elihle lobudlelwano obuthile ukugqamisa amaphutha noma amaphutha umlingani wakho anawo.
Ngamafuphi, izici ezikhona phakathi kothando olunempilo nolunye olungathathwa njengobuthi zicacile. Njengoba sesike saxoxa ngenhla, uthando olungenampilo lujwayelekile kakhulu kunalokho abantu abangakucabanga. Akunakuvunyelwa ukuthi ekuqaleni kobudlelwano, uthando luyinto enhle futhi njengoba iminyaka ihamba, yena kancane kancane uthola uhlobo lothando olususelwa emoneni futhi ngokungabi nenhlonipho nokwethemba ngothandekayo.