Sidinga okungaphezu kothando ukuze ubuhlobo buhlale isikhathi eside

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Sidinga okungaphezu kothando ukuze ubuhlobo buhlale isikhathi eside. Kungenzeka ukuthi le nkulumo idonsela ukunaka kwabafundi bethu abangaphezu koyedwa. Kuvamile ukuthi Ezimpilweni zethu zonke bazama ukusikholisa ngalokho "ngothando konke kunqotshiwe, uthando lunqoba konke".

Siyaqiniseka ukuthi namuhla, futhi ngemuva kwakho konke okuhlangenwe nakho kwakho, uqonde ukuthi ukuthanda umuntu akusona isiqinisekiso sokujabula. Hay amores inmaduros, amores que no saben construir y hacer pareja, y sin duda, hay también amores tóxicos. Hoy en «Bezzia» te invitamos a profundizar en el tema.

Lapho uthando alusanele

umbhangqwana

Ubudlelwano obunomthelela buyinkimbinkimbi futhi kwesinye isikhathi bathwala izindleko eziphezulu ezingokomzwelo. Siqala iphrojekthi ebalulekile nomuntu ogcwele inkohliso, wethemba. Kukhona ukuzibophezela okuqinile, uthando oluqotho namaphupho amaningi okufeza. Kodwa-ke, usuku nosuku nangokuhlala ndawonye siyabona ukuthi kunezinto eziningi ezingalingani.

Ake sihlaziye ngokuningiliziwe ukuthi ngubuphi ubukhulu obungasenza sikubone lokho Kwesinye isikhathi uthando alwenele

Ukuntula ukuqonda nenhlonipho

Kukhona abanikela ngothando kodwa bengahloniphi. Hoh oxubanisa uthando nokubusa nokulawula. Kujwayelekile ebudlelwaneni bezithandani obususelwa kulolo thando olunothando ukuthi lwenziwe lapho empeleni kungekho ukuzibophezela kwangempela komunye umuntu

  • Ukuzibophezela okususelwa enhlonipho nasekuboneni uzakwethu.
  • Ukukhula komuntu akuvunyelwe, isikhala, inhlonipho noma ukunakwa akunikezwa.
  • Kuthando olubusayo, olusebenzisa ubuqili ezicashile ukugcina omunye umuntu eseduze kwakho. Besaba ukuthi bazobashiya, ngakho-ke abayithembi futhi bayayilawula. Kukhona uthando, kepha uthando olunobuthi.

Ukuxhumana okunganele noma ikhono elibi "lokuxhumana ngothando"

Lapho kunezinkinga zokuxhumana, ngokuvamile Kuyilungu elilodwa labashadikazi elihlushwa yilokhu kushoda kanti elinye alazi ukuthi lingawahambisa kanjani amasu anele.

Umuntu uzivikela ngokuthi "kodwa uma ngikhuluma kakhulu", kanti omunye umuntu uzwakalisa lokho "kodwa awukwazi ukusho engikudingayo ...". Kukhona ukushintshaniswa kolwazi okungaphumeleli lapho lezi zithandani, kude nokukhula, zibona amabanga.

  • Ukuxhumana kulezi zimo kuyindlala kakhulu noma ukungabi nokuqukethwe ngokomzwelo. Imicabango, izifiso, imininingwane eyisisekelo ayidluliswanga ukuze izithandani zixhumane futhi zikhule.
  • Ngaphandle kokuxhumana okufanelekile ngeke sazane ngokujulile, asikwazi ukuxazulula izinkinga ...

izandla zijoyine izithandani

Ukuntuleka kwenkinga namanani afanayo

Ukwakha umbhangqwana, akudingeki ukuthi wabelane ngezinto zokuzilibazisa ezifanayo. Akudingekile ukuthi sobabili siyithande imidlalo, ushukela ekhofi noma ukuhamba emvuleni. Inhlonipho, uthando nokunconywa kusenza sihlanganyele lezo zikhala ezifanayo, futhi uma singakuthandi, asikwazi ukukwenza ngenkululeko ephelele futhi ngaphandle kokuhlawuliswa.

Kulungile manje lapho kudingeka khona ukufanisa kumanani. Ngeke kusisize ngalutho uma thina sobabili singawubheki ngokulinganayo umqondo wenkululeko, inhlonipho, ukulingana, ubulungiswa ... Ziyizindawo ezivamile ezizosisiza nsukuzonke, ezizosivumela dala umndeni bese uvumela ubudlelwano bungaphela.

Okufanayo kuya enkingeni:

  • Ubunzima budala izikhathi lapho amagama engadingekile.
  • Kukuqonda okunye nokujabulela ukuba khona kwabo ngezenzo ezilula
  • Kufanele kube ukuhambisana nezikhathi ezihlala kwimemori, ukuxhuma, ukujabula usuku nosuku ngaphandle kwengcindezi yangaphandle nangaphandle kokungaqondi kahle.

Lezo zinto ezigcwalisa uthando kule mbhangqwana

uthando kwabashadikazi

Usuyazi vele ukuthi uthando lubalulekile nokuthi ngasikhathi sinye, akuyona yonke into. Kufana nendlu eyenza ikhaya lezithandani, uma singenalo uphahla nezindonga, ngeke ikhululeke, futhi ingabi namandla okuhlala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Ngakho-ke yiziphi izinto esizidingayo ngaphezulu nsuku zonke ukuze lolo thando luphelele, luqine futhi luhlale isikhathi eside? Qaphela lezi zilinganiso:

Ukuqashelwa

Yazi omunye umuntu njengengxenye yempilo yakho hhayi eyakho kuphela. Uma ubona umlingani wakho njengengxenye yakho, uzokuqonda ukuthi kufanele bahlonishwe, ukuthi badinga uthando, uthando kanye nezikhala zabo lapho bangaqhubeka nokukhula khona njengomuntu.

Ukubona okunye ukunikeza inani, ukubaluleka. Kuyamncoma futhi kuyamdinga osukwini lwethu nosuku ukuzizwa umuhle, ukuzizwa uphelele.

Ukubuyisela emuva

Ukubuyisana kungaphezu kwakho konke ukushintshaniswa okulinganiselayo. Kukwazi ukunikela futhi nokuba nelungelo lokuthola. Kunabantu abenza iphutha lokudida uthando nesidingo sokunikeza omunye umuntu konke. Ukwanelisa zonke izidingo zakho.

  • Akufanele sibe nephutha. Akufanele sibe yileso satellite esisebenza ngokuzungeza iplanethi. Uma senza kanjalo, ekugcineni sizolahlekelwa ukuzethemba kwethu kanye nokwethembeka kwethu.
  • Nikeza umlingani wakho lokho ofuna ukumnika khona, lokho ozizwa ngakho nokuthi yini akudingayo. Manje, kubalulekile ukuthi nawe wamukele. Uthando lususelwa kulokho kubuyisana lapho ubugovu noma ubuntu kungafanele kube khona.

Uthando ukubabaza, kuyabumbana, kuyabelana izikhathi kanye nenhlonipho. Uma umbhangqwana ubekezela, kungenxa yokuthi bayaxhumana kahle, ngoba bayahloniphana futhi ngoba bayingxenye yalolo thando olungazi nge-blackmail noma izincazelo eziphindwe kabili.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.