Qhubeka uye phambili noma phula ngayo yonke into yini esinayo manje? Akulula neze ukuthatha lesi sinqumo, noma kunjalo, kunoma yisiphi isikhathi senhlekelele yomuntu siqu, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi kufanele senze kanjani ngokufanele, sazi okulungele thina.
Ukuzibeka phambili akubona ubugovu. Ezimpilweni zethu zonke sihlangabezana nezimo lapho kudingeka khona ukuthola amandla ngaphakathi, futhi sizibeke eqhulwini. Ukubambelela ekuhluphekeni, noma ukungajabuli bobudlelwano obuletha ukudabuka okukhulu kunokukhula, abunampilo. Kulezi zimo, kubalulekile ukwephula isibopho nalowo muntu, bese uqhubeka. Hlala phambili njalo ngethemba nangesibindi.
Phula ngayo yonke into? Noma ubambe isikhashana?
Awulokothi ulwele ngokwanele eyodwa ubuhlobo bomshado. Yonke imizamo ibalulekile ukukhulisa ukuzibophezela, inkohliso kanye nalolo thando lwansuku zonke oluthokozela imininingwane emincane.
Manje, yiziphi izikhathi lapho kufanele siqale khona ukucabanga ukuthi mhlawumbe ukuya phambili mhlawumbe akuyona into efanelekile? Zindla kulezi zilinganiso.
1. Imizamo yamazwe amabili engavuzwa
- Kukhona labo abacabanga ukuthi othandweni, kufanele sinikele konke mahhala, ukuthi ukuzinikela kufanele kube ngokuphelele. Ukukhathazeka ngawo wonke umzuzu ukugcina izithandani zijabule, ngaphandle kokungabaza umzuzwana wokudela izinto ezithile ukuze zinikeze lokho kuzinza lapho othandekayo aneliseka.
- Kufanele siqaphele, Ubudlelwano bezithandani awasekelwe ekuzideleni, kusencane ekunikeleni ngakho konke "ngeze."
- Uthando luyi ukulingana, ukutshala imali kuphrojekthi ejwayelekile ezingxenyeni ezilinganayo.
- Yize kuliqiniso ukuthi ngesikhathi esithile singakwazi sula entweni ethile, lokho kushiya phansi umsebenzi kwenziwa ngoba nathi "sizuza okuthile": ukuze sikwazi ukuchitha isikhathi esithe xaxa ndawonye ngokuzwana, sikwazi ukuqala impilo ndawonye uma umsebenzi ungasivumeli ...
- Ukushiya emsebenzini kuyapheleliswa, yonke imisebenzi eyabiwayo iwukutshalwa kwemali futhi konke kuvunyelwene ngakho kukhona inkhulumomphendvulwano futhi kunqunywa ngokuvumelana.
- Okwamanje siqongelela ukwesula kwesinye emva kwesinye, isivumelwano esisodwa emva kwesinye, futhi azikho kulezi zenzo ezibonwayo, ukukhungatheka, ubuhlungu.
- Uma nisothandweni, munye kuphela ozama ukugcina ubuhlobo bumi, kukhona okungahambi kahle.
2. Vala ukuhlupheka
Kunezikhathi lapho singazi khona lokho asiphilile. Kunzima ukukholelwa. Kodwa-ke, ezikhathini eziningi luthando uqobo olusigcina simile ngokuvumela izinsuku ziqhubeke ngenkathi sigcina ithemba.
- Ngiyethemba lokho izinto ziyashintsha.
- Ngakho-ke uma ngenza lokhu, mhlawumbe ngizokwazi kakhulu
- Ukuthi sicindezeleke kancane, lowo msebenzi uyathuthuka ...
- Ngiyethemba ukuthi umlingani wethu uzophinda afane
- Kuvamile ukunamathela kulezi zinhlobo zemibono sigxile kumbono wethu komunye umuntu. Ingabe yilokho okubizwa ngokuthi "Umbono womhubhe"Sibona ohlangothini olulodwa, silahlekelwa umbono ngakho konke okusizungezile.
Sibeka phambili othandekayo akhohlwe ngathi, kuze kube lusuku olulodwa, lokho amiga ngubani okutshela ukuthi ubukeka udabukile. Okwakho abazali Bayakuxwayisa ukuthi uzacile, nokuthi ubukeka ukhathele ... Futhi uyabona.
Uyabona ukuthi awuseyena uqobo lwakho, nokuthi ukuzethemba kwakho kuyadamba futhi ulahlekelwe yimibono eminingi. Yilapho uzibuza khona umbuzo Qhubeka noma uphule ngayo yonke into?
Hlala phambili njalo, ungazivumeli ukuba ube yisiboshwa sokungajabuli
Noma kunganjani nquma. Noma ngabe ukhetha ukuhlukana noma uqhubeke nobudlelwano bakho, ukhiye uhlala uqhubekela phambili. Manje ... sikuqonda ini ngokuthuthuka ebudlelwaneni bethu?
- Ukuthuthuka kukwazi ukuxazulula umehluko, nokuthi umehluko akuzona izindonga ezingenakunqotshwa kodwa ubukhulu bokuhlonipha nokuqonda.
- Ukuqhubekela phambili ukwazi ukuthi sizizwa sihle, sanelisekile futhi siphelele kulobo budlelwano. Ukuthi siyaqhubeka nokugcina i- inkohliso kuphrojekthi esikholelwa kuyo.
- Kusengaphambili hlonipha izikhala. Kukwazi ukuzikhulisela uqobo nanjengezithandani, lapho ubuntu buhlangana kahle "nathi". Okwakho kuyavumelana nokwami futhi sobabili siyawina.
Uma kwenzeka sithathe isinqumo sokuthi "sihlukane nakho konke", ukholwe noma ungakholwa, inhloso yakho izofana: ukuqhubeka nokuthuthuka njengomuntu:
- Ukwephula konke kusho ukubeka eceleni ingxenye yempilo yethu nokugqashula leso sibopho lapho uthando lusihlanganisa nomuntu othile. Konke lokhu kuzosho ukuthi kufanele ubhekane ne- a inqubo yosizi.
- Ukusuka kulokho okwedlule kuzophoqa ukuthi "Sizakhe kabusha" ngaphakathi, ukuxhumana futhi nesizungu sethu, ukulalela izwi lethu futhi kufanele sipholise isilonda esingajwayelekile. Kulabo abangabonakali ngamehlo.
- Futhi uzoyithola, ngoba impilo iya phambili ukuvala imibuthano, lapho lapho kwesinye isikhathi siphoqeleka ukuthi siphule ngakho konke. Kodwa-ke, yonke imikhawulo isinyathelo sokuqala sokuqala, lapho lapho uzophinde uhambe khona indlela yokuphila ube nokuhlakanipha okuncane.
Abantu bazibona kaningi kulezi zimo eziyinkimbinkimbi, lapho kufanele sikhethe inkomba eyodwa noma enye. Ungesabi ukuzibeka phambili, ungacabangi ukuthi unobugovu ngokukhetha ukujabula, ngokushiya ukudabuka noma ukunganeliseki eceleni. Yiba nesibindi kukho konke okwenzayo futhi thatha ithuba Kuko konke kufanelekile