Okufanele ukwenze uma umama wakho ekuzonda

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Mhlawumbe unobudlelwano obuhle nomlingani wakho futhi uyakuthanda lokho, kepha ubonile ukuthi ngemuva kokuhlangana nomndeni wakhe, ubudlelwano nonina akuyona into ongayithanda. Ungaze ube nomuzwa wokuthi unina uyakuzonda kodwa ungazi ukuthi kungani. Uma lokhu kwenzeka kuwe futhi ufuna ukwenza ngcono isimo ukuze singabuthinti ubudlelwano bakho, ungakwazi yenza ezinye izinto ukuze izinto zingabi zimbi kakhulu.

Izinqumo ezingenzeka

Uma kungekho lutho olungalungile kuwe noma kuye, kunezinqumo. Umama wesoka lakho angakuthanda njengendodakazi ngokushesha. Lezi zeluleko zizokukhombisa ukuthi kanjani Bhekana nalesi simo nokuthi umama okuzondayo uba ngumama womlingani wakho okuthandayo.

Khuluma ngesimo esinzima nomlingani wakho

Udinga ukwazi ngokuhlukana onakho nomama wakho. Sondela kulokhu ngokunethezeka; Ukungahloniphi umama wakho akwamukelekile. Inhloso yomlingani wakho ukuzibophezela kunina ongumama, futhi uma ekhathalela wena, uzolalela zombili izinkathazo. (kokubili okwakho nonyoko) futhi kuzophakamisa ukuvumelana.

Khuluma lokhu nomama wakho

Uzoba yibhodi elizwakalayo lokukhungatheka kwakho. Yize kungenembile, imibono yakhe izokuvula amehlo akho ukuthi uzizwa kanjani yena noma ingane yakhe.

Mphathe ngomusa

Inqobo nje uma umama wakhe ekuzonda, awudingi ukumzonda emuva. Ziba inzondo bese ubeka ukumamatheka ebusweni bakho. Phendula ukuhlambalaza nezikhalazo ngenhlonipho nangokuthopha. Lokhu kwenza ukuthi umama abonakale engabongi phambi kwengane yakhe ebe ekwenza umuntu omkhulu.

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Yiba nomusa, kodwa uqine

Ungavumeli unina ahambe phezu kwakho. Uma umlingani wakho engakumeli, zimele wena. Hamba ngokucophelela ngoba lokhu kungamcasula umlingani wakho. Hlonipha imibono yomama bese uveza eyakho. Kungenzeka angakuthandi umbhikisho wakho, kepha uyazi ukuthi umi kuphi.

Uma konke okunye kwehluleka ...

Uzame ngakho konke okusemandleni ukukhombisa umama wakhe ukuthi uyamthanda, nomama wakhe usangizonda. Okwamanje, isixazululo asikho. Unina unenkani futhi akasoze ashintsha. Ungamlinda ukuthi ashintshe umqondo, kodwa lelo yiphupho. Qhubeka ube nomusa kunina, uphathe indodana yakhe kahle, futhi ube nguwe.

Ubudlelwano bungaphila ngaphandle kwemvume kamama. Ungaqhubeka uthandane naye wazi ukuthi umama akakuthandi? Lezi zeluleko bezingadingeki uma omama babo bonke abakhwenyana bebathanda abalingani babo. Ngeshwa akunjalo. Nganoma yisiphi isizathu ongase usicabange: Unina uyangizonda impela, uzama ukushintsha umqondo wakhe.

Kodwa-ke, ungamphoqi noma umcindezele ukuthi akuthande. Yamukela umehluko futhi uhlale ngokuthula (okungenani kusuka ekugcineni kwakho). Mtshengise ukuthi uzimisele ukuhlala ndawonye noma engafuni. Ngeke kube lula ngesikhathi somshado nezingane noma ngenkathi uhambele imibuthano yomndeni, kepha okungenani uyazama.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.