Ubulili buyingxenye ebalulekile futhi ebaluleke kakhulu yalabo abashadile. Kungumzuzu omuhle lapho ubumnandi kufanele bube ngokuphelele futhi bube ngokuphelele. Uma lokhu kungenzeki futhi kungajatshulelwa nomunye umuntu, kuzoletha ezinye izinkinga kwabashadile.
Ngokunikezwe lokhu, kubalulekile ukuthi ufune usizo ngokushesha ukuze uvikele izinkinga ezinjalo ekuqedeni ubudlelwano. Kodwa-ke, kunabantu abaningi abakuthola kunzima ukubona ukuthi banenkinga yezocansi futhi abafuni ukuya ekubonisaneni nodokotela wezocansi.
Kunini lapho kudingeka uye kudokotela wezocansi
Isazi sezocansi kufanele sibe yinto ephambili kakhulu lapho ubudlelwano busengozini ngenxa yocansi nomlingani wakho. Uma injabulo ithatha indawo yezinkinga nokukhathazeka, kukhona okungahambi kahle futhi isixazululo kufanele sitholakale ngokushesha okukhulu. Nazi ezinye zezizathu zokuthi kungani kubalulekile ukuya kudokotela wezocansi:
- Ukuphuma ngaphambi kwesikhathi
- Ukungasebenzi kwe-Erectile
- Ukulutha ngokocansi
- Ukuntuleka kwe-libido
- Izinkinga zokufinyelela ku-orgasm
- I-Vaginismus
- Ubuhlungu ngenkathi wenza ucansi
Khumbula ukuthi umzuzu wokuya ocansini nomlingani wakho kufanele ube yinto emnandi, ngakho-ke uma uhlushwa enye yezinkinga ezichazwe ngenhla, Kufanele ngokushesha uye kuchwepheshe ongasiza ukuxazulula inkinga enjalo.
Kunezinye izimo lapho kungakuhle ukuthi uthintane nochwepheshe:
- Ukungabaza ngezindlela ezahlukahlukene zokuvimbela inzalo.
- Izifo ezivamile ezithathelwana ngocansi.
- Ukungathembeki kwabashadikazi.
- Ukushaya indlwabu.
Ukuvakashelwa kwehhovisi lesazi sezocansi
Namuhla futhi nakuba besekhulwini le-XXI, kusenabantu abaningi abanqikayo ukuya ekubonisaneni nodokotela wezocansi. Kodwa-ke, ukuya kulochwepheshe kuyisihluthulelo sokukhuluma ngokukhululekile futhi ngaphandle kwezinkinga ngenkinga yezocansi lowo muntu angaba nayo.
Uchwepheshe kufanele abuze ngaso sonke isikhathi ukuthi imbangela yenkinga yezocansi Kungenxa yesici somzimba noma uma okuphambene kungenxa yento ethinta imizwa. Ukusuka lapha, udokotela wezocansi kuzofanele abeke ezinye izindlela ezisiza ukuxazulula inkinga. Inani lamaseshini lizoncika ngaso sonke isikhathi ohlotsheni lwenkinga ezolashwa kanye nokubandakanyeka komuntu. Ngokwelashwa okufanele inkinga kufanele inyamalale futhi yenze ucansi lube yinto emnandi nabashadikazi.
Ngamafuphi, ukuya ekubonisaneni nodokotela wezocansi kuyindaba engafanele ukwenziwa. Namuhla kunabesilisa nabesifazane abaningi abakuthola kunzima ukuvuma ukuthi banenkinga yocansi futhi akulula ukuthi bakhulume ngento esondelene kangako nomuntu abangamazi. Imfundo yezocansi etholwa emndenini ayenele noma ayifuneki, into enomthelela omubi lapho kukhulunywa ngocansi ngokusobala. Ngakho-ke, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi udokotela wezocansi unguchwepheshe ozosiza ukuxazulula inkinga engaba yingozi kumlingani wakho.