Ekuqaleni indoda ingakwenza uzizwe uma unaye ukuthi kufane nokuthi uwine ilotho. Ngaphezu kokukhanga, kumnandi, kuyathandeka impela! Uyakwazi okufanele akwenze nokuthi uzothini ukuze abeke ukumamatheka ebusweni bakho. Kepha lapho izinto ziqala ukuba nzima ngaleyo ndoda, kubonakala sengathi le "honeymoon" iyaphela ... futhi kubonakala sengathi ayifuni lutho olubucayi nawe.
Yize kubonakala sengathi izinto zihamba kahle phakathi kwenu nobabili, kodwa niyakwazi ukubona ukuthi kunokuthile okungahambi kahle kini nobabili. Kubukeka sengathi akekho ebudlelwaneni, sengathi "ulahlekile." Ngokuphazima kweso izingcingo zakhe zansuku zonke ziba masonto onke, imibhalo emihle lapho evuka, isinyamalele, kunzima ukuthi uxhumane naye ukuze nikhulume isikhashana ... kubonakala sengathi ubudlelwano buqala ukubanda.
Mhlawumbe akwenzeki lutho kumfana wakho futhi akafuni ukwehlukana nawe, ngoba nje uyindoda engatholakali ngokomzwelo noma akafuni lutho olubucayi, kodwa usuqalile ukubona manje, lapho ikubonisa ngempela ukuthi injani ngempela. Uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi umfana wakho (noma akayona) indoda engatholakali ngokomzwelo, qhubeka ufunda lezi zimpawu ezilandelayo ... ukuze wazi ukuthi ngabe uyindoda yini ofuna ukuchitha impilo yakho yonke nayo (noma hhayi).
Khansela izinhlelo
Kungenzeka ukuthi uchithe izinsuku ezimbalwa wenza izinhlelo zokuba ndawonye nomfana wakho, kepha yena ngomzuzu wokugcina uzokukhansela noma yini embi ... akaveli. Yize uma lokhu kwenzeka kuwe ngaphezu kokukodwa, akusikho ukuthi akunakufinyeleleka ngokomzwelo, futhi akuboneleli. Ingabe kufanele ngempela ukuba nendoda enjalo?
Akahlali ekubamba ocingweni
Kwesinye isikhathi ngoba unomsebenzi omningi nezinye izikhathi ngoba ukutshela ukuthi unomsebenzi omningi kodwa awuzwa nje ukuthi uzokhuluma nocingo. Lokhu kungakwenza uzizwe sengathi uthandana nesipoki. Akaziphenduli izingcingo noma imiyalezo, akaboni kunesidingo. Uma eke wakushayela ngokushesha ngemuva kokwenza kanjalo, uzokwesaba uma kukhona okumehlele ...
Ukwesaba ukuzibophezela
Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi uzoqala ukubona ukuthi zonke izethembiso zakhe zokuhlangana nabangane noma nomndeni wakhe ziphephukile. Akafuni lutho oluphathelene nokuyekethisa akayithandi futhi uyayisaba. Uma uqala ukuqaphela ukuthi akafuni ukuzibophezela kuwe, kuyifulegi elibomvu ukuthi akakakulungeli ngokomzwelo ukuthatha isinyathelo esilandelayo. Ufanelwe ukuba nendoda eziqhenyayo ngokuba eceleni kwakho futhi efuna ukuyimemeza isophahleni lwendlu!
Akakhulumi ngemizwa yakhe
Mhlawumbe kunzima kuye ukuthi akutshele ukuthi uyakuthanda kodwa futhi kungenzeka ukuthi ungafuni ukukhuluma ngemizwa yakho ejulile nokugwema ukuba nezingxoxo nawe ezingabenza bazizwe bengakhululekile. Kepha, ubani ongcono kunomlingani wakho ukuvula inhliziyo yakho? Uma engazethembi ngokwanele ukuthi angakhuluma nawe ngakho konke okumcindezelayo, kungcono ukuthi ubazise ukuthi lobo budlelwano buqondene nawe noma cha.