Njengakweminye imikhakha noma ezindaweni zokuphila, Kuvamile futhi kuwumkhuba ukuba nesithukuthezi ngezikhathi ezithile zabashadile. Isithukuthezi esinjalo ngokuvamile siwumphumela wento ethize, ebangela ukungabi nasithakazelo okuthile kumlingani. Akekho okhululekile ukuba nesithukuthezi ngezikhathi ezithile, ngakho-ke akudingekile ukunikeza ukubaluleka okukhulu kulesi simo. Isiginali ye-alamu kufanele ikhale uma isithukuthezi sesijwayelekile naphezu kokuba usebudlelwaneni.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokutshela ukuthi kuvamile futhi kuwumkhuba yini ukuba umbhangqwana ube nesithukuthezi futhi yini okumele uyenze ukuze uhlehlise isimo esinjalo.
Isicefe sabashadikazi
Isikhathi esiningi unesizungu ngomlingani wakho, Kubonwa njengenhlabamkhosi yokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ebudlelwaneni. Isithukuthezi esishiwo ngokuvamile sivela njalo eminyakeni emihlanu noma eyisithupha ngemva kokuba nobuhlobo obuthile. Kukholakala noma kucatshangwa ukuthi kuwuphawu olucacile lokuthi uthando alusenamandla njengoba lwalunjalo ekuqaleni kobudlelwane.
Nokho, lena inkolelo eyiphutha. njengoba kuyisimo esibhekwa njengesijwayelekile ngokwezinga elithile futhi esivame ukwenzeka ebuhlotsheni obuningi. Yingakho singekho isidingo sokukhathazeka ngokweqile futhi uphathe le nkinga ngokuhlanganyela nombhangqwana.
Ukukhathazeka kothando kumbhangqwana
Lapho uthando luvela phakathi kwabantu ababili, lokho okubizwa ngokuthi ukukhathazeka kothando kwenzeka. Imayelana nokuvuswa kwemizwa eyahlukene kanye nemizwa ejabulisayo kubo bobabili abantu. Lokhu kubangela ukwesaba noma ukwesaba ukulahlekelwa othandekayo, okuvumela ukuthi udale uxhumano oluqinile ukuze lokhu kungenzeki. Kodwa-ke, kujwayelekile futhi kujwayelekile ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi le mizwa izolile futhi isimo sokudinwa kumlingani sigcine sivela.
Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kubalulekile ukuthi ungahlali ungenzi lutho futhi ubheke amathuluzi athile noma izindlela ezisiza ukuvuselela intshisekelo efanayo phakathi kobudlelwano. Uma kungekho okwenziwayo, isithukuthezi siyoba khona usuku nosuku lobudlelwano futhi bubeke engozini. Ngakho-ke, kuwumsebenzi wamaqembu ukwethula izinto ezintsha kumbhangqwana, ukuze umuzwa we-monotony ethile ebuhlotsheni obushiwo unyamalale.
Kuvamile ukuthi umbhangqwana ube nesithukuthezi
Kungashiwo ukuthi kuyinto evamile futhi ejwayele ukuba umbhangqwana ube nesithukuthezi, inqobo nje uma kwenzeka ngezikhathi ezithile. Isithukuthezi sivame ukuvela kulobo budlelwano osekunesikhathi eside bundawonye. Isignali ye-alamu ingavela uma isithukuthezi sinwetshwa ngesikhathi futhi siba njalo. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kubalulekile ukuthi abathintekayo baxoxe ngalolu daba ngokukhululekile futhi bafune isisombululo esingcono kakhulu.
Isithukuthezi eside phakathi kombhangqwana ngokuvamile sibangelwa, ezikhathini eziningi, ukunganakwa okuthile kwamaqembu angazange akwazi ukwenza isibopho esidaliwe siqine. Uma lokhu kwenzeka, kubalulekile ukubonana nochwepheshe. owazi ukuthi angabhekana kanjani nenkinga ngendlela efanele ukusindisa ubudlelwano. Uma abathintekayo behlala bengenandaba nakho, kungenzeka ukuthi ubudlelwano bugcine buhlukana.
Ngamafuphi, asikho isidingo sokuthuswa wukuba nesithukuthezi ngezikhathi ezithile zabashadikazi. Ukuhamba kweminyaka kungase kubangele umbhangqwana ungene esimisweni esithile esingabuzuzisi ubuhlobo ngokwawo. Uma izikhathi zesithukuthezi zifika ngesikhathi, akukho okwenzekayo ukuze ukhulume nombhangqwana ukuze uthole isisombululo ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka. Kuhle ukugqashula esimisweni bese wethula izinto ezintsha ebudlelwaneni ukuze kuvuselelwe ilangabi lothando. Uma izikhathi zesithukuthezi ziyinjwayelo futhi ziqhubekayo, zingaba inkomba yokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle ebudlelwaneni.