Uhlukane naye manje usuzibuza ukuthi ngabe uthathe isinqumo esifanele yini? Kunezizathu ezimbalwa zokuthi ubone ukuthi wenze kahle ngempela! Ukwehlukana nomlingani wakho kubuhlungu, noma ngabe yiziphi izimo ... Kepha ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, ukungabaza ukuthi wenze kahle noma cha kungaba kubi kakhulu. Pernoma silapha ukuzokusiza futhi sikuqaphele ukuthi wenze kahle.
Usevele utshele wonke umuntu ukuthi akashadile
Akufanele neze kukukhathaze uma isimo sobudlelwano bakhe sishintshile ekubeni sebudlelwaneni nawe ukuya kokungashadile. Kepha uma abangane bobabili bekutshele ukuthi utshela wonke umuntu ukuthi ujabule kangakanani ngokungashadi kwakho okusha, kufanele wazi ukuthi kuwuphawu lokuthi uthathe isinqumo esifanele.
Ukhulume kabi ngawe
Umnumzane weqiniso akasoze asho lutho olubi ngowesifazane athandana naye noma abekade ethandana naye esikhathini esedlule. Lokhu kuyiqiniso, noma ngabe isimo sinzima kangakanani. Kepha uma kade ekhuluma kabi ngawe futhi enza izindaba, kuyisibonakaliso esihle sokuthi uthathe isinqumo esifanele ngenkathi nihlukana. Ungaphatheki kabi, bonga ukuthi akusekho empilweni yakho.
Kakade kuzinhlelo zokusebenza zokubhalisa ezibhalisiwe
Akakhalanga ngoba kusobala ukuthi ukulahlekelwa nguwe yinto abekade eyilangazelela. Wayengasidingi isikhathi sokuqhubekela phambili ngoba kusobala ukuthi akazange neze alimale ngokwehlukana kwakho naye. Lokhu kubona kungalimaza kakhulu ekuqaleni, kepha uzobe ulungile. Ngokusobala wonke umuntu ukutshela ukuthi uthathe isinqumo esifanele ngenkathi wehlukana naye.
Abangani bakho bayayigubha
Bakwenzele iphathi ngoba ekugcineni, ikhanda lakho lishaye udonga futhi wabona ukuthi ukwehlukana naye bekungenakugwemeka. Futhi, ngemuva kokuchitha isikhathi nabo, uyabona ukuthi bakugcine kude nabangane bakho abamangalisayo. Hhayi ngoba bengifuna ukukugcina wedwa, kepha kunalokho ngoba benginomona wokuthi ubuseduze nabantu abakujabulisa ngempela. Lowo mfana onobugovu ufanelwe ukuhlukana angakhohlwa, angithi?
Umndeni wakho ujabule ngokwehlukana kwakho
Kungenzeka bangazimisele ukuvuma ukuthi bayajabula ukuthi ekugcineni wahlukana naye, ngoba abafuni ukukuzwisa ubuhlungu, kepha uyabona ukuthi kunjalo. Ungayithathi ngokumelene nabo. Bayajabula ukuthi uthathe isinqumo sokuvalelisa kumuntu ongakufanele.
Unesikhathi sokwenza izinto ozithandayo
Umhlaba wakho ubuvame ukuzungeza yena, kepha manje ekugcineni ungalandela izinto ezikwenza uzizwe uphila. Ngokungazelelwe usuthole isikhathi esiningi sokuthenga, ukuhamba, ukufunda, ukudlala imidlalo, uphumule nabangane bakho abanoboya ngenkathi ubuka iNetflix, njll.
Ekugcineni uzizwa ujabuliswa ngamathuba, into ongakaze uzizwe isikhathi eside. Uma ukulesi sigaba manje, kusho nje ukuthi usendleleni yokululama. Ungakhohlwa ukuzibonga ngokuba nesibindi sokuqeda izinto naye… hhayi wonke umuntu onaleso sibindi!