Sekudlule unyaka selokhu nathembisana umshado, ngakho-ke manje yisikhathi esifanele sokuhlela umshado. Kepha yiluphi usuku oluphelele? Into eyodwa okufanele uyikhumbule ukuthi umbono womshado ophelele wawo wonke umuntu uzohluka, Kepha into engcono kakhulu ongayenza ukulandela inhliziyo yakho futhi uhlale uthembekile kuwe nakumlingani wakho.
Esinye sezinqumo zokuqala ezibalulekile okuzodingeka usenze (ngemuva kokuthi yebo kwisiphakamiso, kunjalo) ukukhetha usuku ozoshada ngalo. Kunezinketho eziningi namathuba ... Kepha kuzofanele ukhethe okuvumelana kakhulu nezimo zakho.
Izinsuku ezingokomfanekiso
Ithuba lokufanekiswa alinamkhawulo kunoma imuphi umshado, ungaba nophawu lomuntu siqu lokufanekisa noma uphawu lwangaphandle lokufanekisa. Isibonelo, usuku lomuntu siqu olungaba ngumfanekiso ukhetha usuku olufanayo nogogo nogogo bakho abashada noma usuku owahlangana ngalo nomlingani wakho eminyakeni edlule. Ngenkathi uphawu lwangaphandle luhlobene kakhulu nesikhathi sonyaka nokuthi lumeleni.
Ukushada entwasahlobo, ngokwesibonelo, kungakhombisa ukuqala okusha. Ngenkathi ubusika kuyisikhathi sokungeniswa. Imishado yasebusika ihlale ingeminye emihle kakhulu, Yisikhathi sokukhumbula ukuthi phezu kwakho konke okwenzekayo empilweni, uzohlala unomndeni wakho.
Ukushada ebusika kungaba nencazelo ekhethekile kubantu abaningi, njengoba ukuwa kungamelela umjikelezo wempilo. Ihlobo limele intsha futhi ngokomlando isikhathi esidumile sokubungaza umshado.
Kuwo wonke umlando, abantu baye bazabalaza ukukhetha usuku olunempumelelo kakhulu kubo, amanye amasiko aze enza imicikilisho ethile (yize ingemnandi) obekufanele ikhombise usuku olufanele lokushada; Namuhla, abantu abaningi babheka izimpawu zezinkanyezi nemizwa yabo siqu.
Lapho ukhetha usuku, kunamathuba amaningi futhi kuncike kakhulu kulokho umakoti nomkhwenyana abazizwa kufanelekile kubo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, okubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi wusuku olukhethekile kini nobabili.
Iyiphi isizini oyithandayo
Isizini ngayinye yinhle yodwa futhi isizini ngayinye inezimfanelo ezihlukile ezenza ikhetheke kangaka. Lapho ukhetha usuku lomshado, kubalulekile hhayi kuphela ukubheka uphawu lwangemuva kosuku, kepha kubalulekile futhi ukubheka ukuthi isizini izoluthinta kanjani usuku lwakho lomshado.
Umshado wasebusika, isibonelo, ungacishe ube ngumlingo neqhwa elikhazimulayo. Ingemuva lalihle, kepha kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuthi kuya ngokuthi ushada kuphi, isimo sezulu singaba sibi futhi singadala izinkinga. Kepha kungashiwo okufanayo nganoma yisiphi isizini. Intwasahlobo nehlobo kuletha imvula nokuduma kwezulu, isibonelo. Isikhathi ngasinye sinomlingiswa waso, amandla nobuntu, okubalulekile ukuthi sikucabangele lapho ukhetha usuku.
Lapho usucabangele lokhu, kuzodingeka ucabange kuphela ngokutholakala kwezivakashi zakho nosuku olukhetheke ngempela.