El ungashadi kwesinye isikhathi kungabonakala njengento embi. Ubheka eminye imibhangqwana futhi ulangazelela ezinye zezinto owawunazo ngenkathi unomuntu. Yingakho abantu abaningi bebona ukungashadi njengento okufanele iphele ngokushesha, njengomzuzwana wokungajabuli ozophela lapho bethola omunye umuntu. Inkinga kulezi zimo imvamisa ukuthi baqala ubudlelwano obungawafaneli ngenxa yokwesaba ukuba wedwa.
Kokubili ku ukuba nomlingani njengongashadile kunezinzuzoNgakho-ke kufanele sigxile kuzo hhayi kuma-downsides. Njengoba sishilo kaningi, injabulo yinto esingaziveza ngayo sinesimo sethu sengqondo, hhayi into encike ngokuphelele ezintweni zangaphandle.
Funda ukuba wedwa
Ngesikhathi sokungashadi sifunda ukuba sodwa futhi asidingi ukunakwa noma ukusekelwa komunye umuntu njalo. Lo mehluko ubonakala kakhulu uma besihlala ndawonye njengezithandani kunokuthi sibe nesigaba esisodwa kuphela njengezithandani, kepha umuzwa wokuba nesizungu ekuqaleni yinto embi kakhulu ongayenza. Sebenzisa lokhu futhi uqala ukujabulela ukwenza izinto eyedwa, lezo zinto ozithandayo. Ukusuka ekubeni nekhofi elilula ku-terrace ufunda incwadi uye ekuhambeni ilanga noma uye ebhayisikobho ukubona i-movie ozobona wena kuphela. Ukufunda ukuthi isizungu asisibi nokuthi nathi singabuthokozela kuzosenza sizizwe sizimele ngokwengeziwe futhi sinamandla.
Zazi kancane
Uma sihlangene isikhathi eside, kwesinye isikhathi sihamba kuphela ukuyokwenza izinto ndawonye. Kukhona labo abaze bavumelane nokuthandwa omunye umuntu ukuze babajabulise futhi bakhohlwe ngokwabo okuncane, okuholela ekukhanselweni okuthile kobuntu bethu. Kungakho isigaba sabangabodwa singaba yi- isikhathi esihle sokwazana futhi. Buyela ekulaleleni umculo owuthanda kakhulu, gqoka izingubo ozifunayo ngaso sonke isikhathi bese wenza izinto mhlawumbe ongazenzanga ngoba umlingani wakho wayengazithandi. Manje sonke isikhathi sakho samahhala sinikezelwe wena kuphela.
Funda ukuzithanda
Kunabantu abaningi abangazi ukuthi bangaba kanjani bodwa ngoba abafundanga ukuthandana ngokwanele. Ngalesi sizathu babambelela ebudlelwaneni obungabafaneli nganoma iyiphi indlela futhi abagcina bengajabule ngoba abazi ukuthi bathandane kanjani ngokwanele. Okokuqala kufanele sizithande bese kufanele sikwazi ukuthanda omunye umuntu, kepha singalokothi sizilimaze kule nqubo. Lesi sigaba sabangashadile kumele sizibeke thina kuqala futhi ungenzi amaphutha esikhathi esedlule.
Ukuzithanda akulula njengoba kubonakala. Kufanele sisebenze nsuku zonke ngenkulumo enhle ebheke kithina, sikhohlwe amabinzana anjengokuthi 'Angikwazi ukukwenza', 'Akekho ongithandayo' noma 'Angisilutho'. Uma sibona ukuthi siwela kukho, kufanele siziphazamise bese sibuya ngamandla athe xaxa nangomoya omuhle. Kumele sizinakekele kakhulu, isikhathi sokutshala imali kithi. Thenga okuthile esikuthandayo, hamba uyojabulela ukusikhipha noma wenze ezemidlalo ukuze sizinakekele nsuku zonke.
Jabulela abangane nomndeni
Ubudlelwano kwesinye isikhathi busiphuca isikhathi sokuchitha nabangane bethu noma nemindeni yethu. Kungakho lesi sigaba singalungela xhuma kabusha nabantu esikhohliwe kancane nokwenza izinto nabo futhi. Kusuka ekubeni nekhofi uye ekubalekeni ukhumbula izikhathi zakudala. Kuliqiniso ukuthi izinto ziyashintsha kodwa uma abangani bethu beqiniso bazobe besekhona. Vele, ebudlelwaneni obulandelayo kufanele ufunde zonke lezi zifundo ukuze uzenze zibe inqubo enempilo futhi ejabulisayo.