USepthemba uyefana no Buyela emsebenzini kwabanye futhi babuyele esikoleni kwabanye. Yiba noma kanjani, kuyinyanga lapho iningi lethu libuyela emasikweni nasezinhlelweni ihlobo elisenze sakhohlwa. Futhi noma kungaba nzima ngathi ukukuvuma, ukubuyela esimeni esijwayelekile kunezinzuzo zako.
Ukubuyela emsebenzini ngemuva kwehlobo kuyinto iningi lethu libhekana nobuvila. Abanye noma benengcindezi noma ukukhungatheka uma izimo zomsebenzi wabo zingezinhle. Kodwa-ke, ngaphandle kwalawa macala okugcina, izinzuzo zokubuyela enkambisweni zibalulekile. Futhi ukuthi ukunqamula, ukuphumula nokukhohlwa amashejuli ethu kuyisidingo kodwa kuzuzisa kuphela ngenxa yesimo sayo sesikhashana.
Ingabe ume isikhathi eside? Kungenzeka ukuthi kulezo zikhathi usiqinisekisile isidingo sokwakha imizila emincane namashejuli ukugwema ukuhlupheka nokukhathazeka. Izinzuzo zokubuyela enkambisweni Zikhona ngemuva kwesikhathi seholide futhi zihlobene ...
I-oda
Amaholidi aphikisana nokuhleleka. Bangamasonto lapho sithatha khona ithuba lokunqamula ukunqamula, ukuphumula, ukuhlangana…. futhi sifeza lokhu ngokuhambela izindawo ezahlukahlukene, sivuke emuva kwesikhathi kunokujwayelekile, sidle ngezikhathi ezingezwakali, sithathe ubuthongo obude futhi / noma silale kuze kube sebusuku.
Asisho ukuthi akulungile ukwenza kanjalo; shintsha izindlela zethu zokudla nokulala isonto noma amasonto amabili kungaba yinzuzo. Kodwa-ke, lapho zihlala isikhathi eside, kusukela emuzwa wenkululeko siya kokuntuleka kokulawula. Kuyaziswa ikakhulukazi ezinganeni nakubantu abadala kakhulu abavame ukucasuka.
Ukuziphatha okubi yikho okwenza lokhu kwehluleka ukulawula kungabi yinto eyingozi kithina. Ngoba kufakazelwe lokho phila ngendlela ehlelekile: hlonipha amahora okulala, izikhathi zokudla, ukudla okunempilo, ukuba nezibopho ezithile nesikhathi sokuzijabulisa, kuhlale kuzuzisa.
Isikhala sakho
Ngenyanga kaSepthemba, ama-30% ehlukaniso abhaliswa ngonyaka eSpain ayenzeka. Sikhathele ukufunda lezi zindaba unyaka nonyaka kwabezindaba kanti namanje sisamangele. Sikwenza yize kungeyona into engajwayelekile kithi noma kunzima ukuqonda ukuthi kungani kunjalo. Futhi yilokho amaholide ashintsha indlela ejwayelekile yokuxhumana.
Ngesikhathi samaholide sichitha amahora amaningi nomlingani wethu, izingane, umndeni noma abangane. Impilo yomphakathi iyaqina futhi sivame ukuzungezwa abantu ngaso sonke isikhathi, sinyamalale leso sikhala esidingeka kakhulu. Ukubuyela enkambisweni kusho ukuyibuyisa nokuhlukanisa ubudlelwano bethu, into ehlala izuzisa njalo.
Ukuphila kahle ngokomzimba nangokomzwelo
Uma sicabangela izinzuzo esesizibalile, akumangazi ukuthi phakathi kwezinzuzo zokubuyela esimisweni kunempilo yethu engokomzimba nengokomzwelo. Ukuphila impilo ehlelekile kunomthelela kukho kokubili. Sidla ngezikhathi ezifanele, sidla okunempilo futhi ezimweni eziningi, sithola izindlela zokuzivocavoca umzimba, emema ukuthuthuka ngokomzimba. Futhi lokhu kuthuthuka ngokomzimba kuxhunywe ngokungenakugwenywa kokukodwa okungokomzwelo.
Umkhuba futhi uyasicasula umuzwa wokulawula. Sizizwa silondeke kakhudlwana futhi sizolile lapho sazi okufanele sikwenze nokuthi yini okufanele siyilindele emini. Akukwenzeka yini kuwe, ngaphezu kwalokho, ukuthi ngenkambiso kubonakala sengathi usabalalisa izinsuku eziningi? Izinzwa ezinikela, njengokuthola isikhala sethu, enhlalakahleni yethu engokomzwelo.
Ukubuyela esimeni esijwayelekile kunenzuzo, yize kunzima ukukukholelwa, kusanda kufika kusuka emaholidini, akunjalo? Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zihlala zincoma ukungasheshisi izinsuku zethu zeholide futhi sibuyele ekhaya ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngaphambi kokubhekana nenkambiso. Ngakho-ke sizoba nezinsuku ezimbalwa zokuthola kabusha onkhe nsuku zonke, sijwayeze umzimba nengqondo yethu kubo. Noma ucabanga ukuthi lezi azidingi ukuqeqeshwa? Ukukhungatheka, ukungahlaliseki nokukhathazeka kungaba yizimpawu zokushaywa okungazelelwe okusha noma okudala (kuya ngokuthi ukubheka kanjani) okungokoqobo.