I-Los imijikelezo yombhangqwana iyahlukahluka kakhulu futhi asihlali ngaso sonke isikhathi endaweni eyodwa. Kujwayelekile ukuthi imibhangqwana iguquke kepha kufanele sikuqaphele lokhu kuziphendukela kwemvelo ukuze inqubo nokwethembana kungahumushi kude nokuntuleka kokusondelana.
El ukuhlukanisa kungaholela ekuhlukaneni uma kungekho zinyathelo ezithathwayo ukuyivimba. Le yinkinga ethinta imibhangqwana eminingi futhi edala izingxabano zangempela phakathi kwazo, nezinye izinkinga ezingeziwe njengokuntuleka kokuxhumana nokuxhumana. Kungakho-ke kufanele sifunde ukubona izimpawu zokuqhela kusengaphambili.
Lo mbhangqwana awuwona ohamba phambili
Uma, lapho simisa izinto eziseqhulwini phakathi kokubalulekile nokulandelayo, sihlala sihamba umlingani wethu ngemuva ngukuthi mhlawumbe sesivele siziqhelelanisile singanakile. Ngaphambi kokuhlala nabashadikazi futhi sibenze babe nobudlelwano, sincamela ukuyokwenza izinto esizithandayo noma sibeka izintshisekelo zethu phambili yize sazi ukuthi kulaba abashadile kuyinto ebalulekile. Lokhu kuwuphawu lokuthi asisenandaba nezinga elikhulu ngokuba nabashadikazi nokujabulela ukuba nabo.
Izingxabano azixazululwa
Enye inkinga engase ivele yilokho izingxabano azixazululwa. Uma kunenkinga, kumane kuvunyelwe ukudlula noma kungafinyelelwa esivumelwaneni. Lokhu kudala ibanga elingaphezulu phakathi kwabantu. Izingxabano zombhangqwana kufanele zixazululwe ngokushesha futhi zifinyelele ezivumelwaneni kungenjalo zidala izinkinga eziningi kuphela.
Iwela esimisweni
Uphawu lokuthi kukhona okwenzekayo kulezi zithandani yilokho uwela ngokwengeziwe esimisweni. Abasafuni imisebenzi emisha noma izinselelo zokuthuthukisa lobo budlelwano, kepha bayaqhubeka namandla afanayo njalonjalo, noma lokhu kungakhathaza. Lesi ngesinye sezinkinga ezivame kakhulu kuyo yonke imibhangqwana.
Ukuntuleka kokuxhumana
La ukuntuleka kokuxhumana kuhlale kuwuphawu lokuthi izithandani ziyaziqhelelanisa futhi kunezinkinga. Ukuxhumana kubalulekile futhi kungenye yezinsika zanoma yibuphi ubuhlobo. Uma kunokuntuleka kokuxhumana, izingxabano ngeke zixazululwe futhi ukusondelana kuzophela. Uma sibona ukuthi kunokushoda kokuxhumana uma sibhekene nezindaba ezibalulekile, sekuyisikhathi sokuthi sikukhulise ngokuqinile ukuze kungayi kokuningi.
Isikhathi sokuphumula ngokuhlukile
Uma isikhathi sokungcebeleka nobumnandi kugcina ngaso sonke isikhathi kujatshulelwa ngokwehlukana, kungaba ngolunye uphawu lokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle. Kuhle ukuba nezinto zokuzilibazisa futhi nijabulele isikhala somunye nomunye, kepha kufanele futhi jabulela izithandani ngezikhathi zokuzilibazisa, ngoba okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle kuhle kwabashadikazi. Ukwabelana ngobumnandi nokuphumula ngesikhathi sokuzilibazisa nsuku zonke kuyinto engathuthukisa kakhulu ukuxhumana phakathi kwabashadikazi. Kungakho kuwumqondo omuhle ukwenza izinhlelo zokwenza ndawonye, nezikhathi zodwa ezakha ukusondelana. Ukubuya kwalobo budlelwane phakathi kwalokhu kuthuthukisa ukuxhumana nobudlelwano.
Azikho izinto zokuzilibazisa ezifanayo
Yize lezi zithandani zingahlanganyeli kuzo zonke izinto ezizithandayo, iqiniso ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi zisekele omunye okuzo. Yabelana ngokuzilibazisa kothile Ngoba kuyinto ebalulekile kulowo muntu kungaba yinto enhle kakhulu ebudlelwaneni. Kungakho noma yilowo nalowo enezinto azithandayo, zombili kumele zithembele kuzo futhi zihambisane. Ngale ndlela sizokwazi ukuthi sibalulekile komunye, ngoba usikhombisa ngentshisekelo yakhe ezintweni esizithandayo. Uma ingasekho intshisekelo yokuxhasa enye, kuwuphawu lokuthi kukhona okungahambi kahle.