Izimpawu Zokucindezeleka Ngemuva Kokwehlukana

SUKA

Enye yezinto ezimbi kakhulu ezingenzeka kuwe empilweni ukuhlukana nomuntu omthandayo. Kunabantu abakwazi ukuvula ikhasi ngokushesha, kepha bakhona abanye abantu abakuthola kunzima ukwamukela lesi simo esisha bese bangena ekucindezelekeni okujulile benganakile nokukuqaphela.

Ukugwema lokhu, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungakusebenzisa kanjani ukulila kwekhefu elishiwoyo futhi zama ukwenza impilo yansuku zonke ngendlela enempilo kakhulu.

Yiziphi izimpawu ezibonisa ukuthi lo muntu unenkinga yokudangala

Wonke amakhefu anzima futhi ayinkimbinkimbi ngoba akusona isidlo sokunambitheka okuhle, ukuvalelisa ngendlela eqondile kumuntu omthandayo. Endabeni yokuhlushwa ukucindezeleka, kubalulekile ukwazi ukubona izimpawu ezahlukahlukene zayo ukuze uzelaphe ngendlela engcono kakhulu.

Ezimweni zezimpawu ezisho isici somzwelo, okulandelayo kufanele kuboniswe:

  • Umuntu uzizwa ukunganaki nokudabuka ngaso sonke isikhathi.
  • Ngaphandle kosizi olubalulwe ngenhla, kuvela eminye imizwa efana intukuthelo noma ukufutheka.
  • Umuntu angazizwa njengecala ukuthi konke sekuphelile.
  • Umuzwa wokwesaba Ubhekene nokungatholi omunye umuntu ongathandana naye.
  • Kukhona ukuntuleka okukhulu kwesisusa futhi isifiso esincane sokuqhubeka.

Ngaphandle kwezimpawu zemizwa, kunezinye izimpawu zokuqonda okufanele kubhekiswe kuzo:

  • Umuntu ulokhu ephendula ikhanda le- ungambuyisa kanjani umuntu omthandayo.
  • Ngaso sonke isikhathi kunemicabango ocabanga ngayo Engangikwenze ukugwema ukuhlukana okwesabekayo.
  • Konke lokhu kudala ukuthi umuntu ophethwe yingcindezi angenzi emsebenzini futhi uvame ukuzivalela emhlabeni wakhe.
  • Kwezinye izimo, inkinga inkulu kakhulu ukuthi imicabango yokuzibulala.

ukuphazamiseka-ukucindezeleka

Okufanele ukwenze uma ucindezelekile ngenxa yokuhlukana

Uma kwenzeka ukuthi kufakazelwe ukuthi umuntu unenkinga yokudangala ngenxa yokuhlukana, kubalulekile ukulandela uchungechunge lwamathiphu:

  • Kubalulekile ukuthola usizo lochwepheshe noma abantu abasondelene ukwazi ukunqoba ukudangala okunjalo.
  • Noma kungaba nzima ekuqaleni, kubalulekile ukwazi ukugqashula konke ukuxhumana nesikhathi esedlule.
  • Ukuhamba nge-duel kuyisihluthulelo uma kukhulunywa ngokwamukela ikhefu. Ungazibambi futhi uveze yonke imizwa edingekayo.
  • Kuyadingeka ukubona ngeso lengqondo esikhathini esimaphakathi neside, ukuze usethe uchungechunge lwezinhloso nezinhloso ezenza impilo ibe mnandi ngemuva kokwehlukana.

Ngamafuphi, Ukuhlupheka ngemuva kokuhlukana kuyinto ejwayelekile futhi ejwayelekile. Umuntu akufanele ahlale egxilile eqinisweni futhi akwazi ukuphila impilo ejwayelekile kancane kancane ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ukuba nosizo kubalulekile futhi kubalulekile ukuze ukwazi ukulila ngenxa yekhefu nabashadikazi.


Yiba ngowokuqala ukuphawula

Shiya umbono wakho

Ikheli lakho le ngeke ishicilelwe. Ezidingekayo ibhalwe nge *

*

*

  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.