Isikhala somuntu siqu ebudlelwaneni bothando

umbhangqwana wesikhala

Isikhala somuntu siqu kunoma yibuphi ubudlelwano siyisihluthulelo futhi sibalulekile ukuze yonke into isebenze kahle. Kubalulekile ukuba nendawo ethile ukuze ujabulele izinto ezihlukahlukene zokuzilibazisa noma ukwabelana ngezikhathi nabangane. Ngakho-ke okuhle kuwukuba nokulinganisela okuthile phakathi kwendawo yomuntu siqu nendawo nombhangqwana. Kodwa-ke, ngeshwa, abantu abaningi abanaso isikhala somuntu siqu phakathi kwabashadile.

Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokhuluma nawe ngokubaluleka kokuba nesikhala somuntu siqu sanoma yibuphi ubudlelwano.

Kungani kubalulekile ukuba nesikhala somuntu siqu kumbhangqwana?

Nakuba abantu abaningi becabanga okuphambene, ukuba nendawo yomuntu siqu ngaphakathi kombhangqwana Kubalulekile uma kuziwa ekujabuleni nasekuzuzeni inhlalakahle ethile ezuzisa ubudlelwano uqobo. Bese sikukhombisa izizathu zokuthi kungani kudingekile ukuba nesikhala somuntu siqu kunoma yimuphi umbhangqwana:

  • Ukuba nozakwethu kusho ukwabelana ngamaphrojekthi nemigomo yesikhathi esizayo, kodwa kufanele futhi kube umnyango wokukhula njengabantu. Lokhu kukhula kufinyelelwa ngenxa yesikhala somuntu siqu. Ukuba nesikhathi kukuvumela ukuthi uhlakulele ukuzilibazisa okuthile futhi uthuthukise ubudlelwano bomphakathi, into ezuzisa umlingani uqobo.
  • Ukuba nesikhathi samahhala ngezikhathi ezithile akusho ukuthi awumthandi futhi awumthandi umlingani wakho. Abantu abaningi benza iphutha lokucabanga ukuthi uthando lweqiniso lubonakala ngokuchitha isikhathi esiningi ndawonye. Uthando nendawo yomuntu siqu kungaxhunyaniswa ngaphandle kwenkinga futhi akudingekile ukuba zibe yizicucu ezingangeni phakathi kobudlelwane.

isikhala

  • Abantu abaningi abafuni nhlobo ukuba nozakwethu babe nendawo yomuntu siqu. Kubalulekile ukubathemba abashadile ukuze babe nesikhathi sokwenza lokho abakubona kufanele. Ukwethembana kuwubufakazi bangempela bothando okusiza ekuqiniseni isibopho esidaliwe.
  • Ukuba nesikhala somuntu siqu phakathi kwabashadikazi kuwuphawu lokuthi ukwethembana kukhona nokuthi uthando lunqoba noma yisiphi esinye isici sobuhlobo. Lesi sikhala sinikeza injabulo enkulu ezingeni lomuntu siqu futhi njengombhangqwana. Kunalokho, ukungasho ukuthi indawo yomuntu siqu yinto elimaza futhi ilimaza ubuhlobo bombhangqwana. Ukungajabuli komuntu siqu kugcina kuthinta ikusasa lombhangqwana ngokwawo.

Ngamafuphi, awukwazi ukwenza sengathi uchitha amahora angama-24 njengombhangqwana njengoba ekugcineni konke lokhu kunomthelela omubi esimweni somzwelo nengqondo. Okubalulekile ukuthi yonke into isebenze ukuthi kube nokulingana phakathi kwesikhathi esichithwa njengombhangqwana kanye nesikhala sokuthi umuntu ngamunye akwazi ukunqamula futhi enze abakuthandayo. Ngale ndlela, isibopho esidaliwe sizoqina futhi umbhangqwana uzokwazi ukuzuza injabulo nenhlalakahle abayifisayo. Okubalulekile ngempela ebudlelwaneni ukuthi bobabili abantu bajabule futhi lokhu kufinyelelwa ngokuba nesikhathi sabashadile kanye nesiqu sakho.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.