Psychology nezithandani

Ukubalekela abangane abanobuthi kuyisihluthulelo uma kuziwa ekuzuzeni inhlalakahle engokomzwelo futhi ukwazi ukukhula ezingeni lomuntu siqu.

Ngokuthintana no-zero sifuna ukuqeda unomphela lowo esasibambisene naye futhi sidabuke nakanjani.

Kukhona uchungechunge lwezimpawu ezicacile ezingakhombisa ukuthi umlingani wakho akathembekile kuwe.

Ukuzizwa uphansi phakathi kombhangqwana ngokuvamile kubangelwa ukuzethemba nokuntula ukulondeka.

Ukuziphatha okukhohlisayo ngeshwa kukhona ebudlelwaneni obuningi namuhla.

I-Demisexuality iwukuthambekela kwezocansi lapho umuntu ebeka khona ukuxhumana okungokomzwelo nophathina wakhe ngaphambi kwesifiso socansi.

Ebudlelwaneni bamasiko, abathintekayo kufanele babonise ukuzibophezela okuthile nenhlonipho kumbhangqwana ukuze isibopho singahlupheki.

Uthando lwezothando ludlula kakhulu lokho okungaboniswa kumamuvi noma ezingomeni zothando.

Imibhangqwana eminingi namuhla ikhuthazelela ukuziphatha okukhohlisayo kwabashade nabo.

Eminyakeni yamuva, isehlukaniso esimpunga noma isehlukaniso sabantu asebekhulile siye sanda.

Ukuphathwa buthule kubhekisela ochungechungeni lokuziphatha okuhloselwe ukungamnaki uzakwethu.

Uthando oluphilisayo lusivumela ukuba sakhe ubudlelwano obuzinzile, obuhlala isikhathi eside nobunempilo.

Ziningi izindlela nezindlela zokuveza uthando oluzwayo kumlingani wakho.

Imikhawulo ibalulekile futhi ibalulekile uma kuziwa ekujabuleleni ngokugcwele ubudlelwano njengombhangqwana.

Ukukhathazeka ebuhlotsheni kungabangelwa izici zangaphandle noma izenzo zothandiweyo.

Ukukhashelwa umlingani kubangela ubuhlungu obukhulu kanye nokulahlekelwa ukwethenjwa okunzima ukukulungisa.

Uma umthwalo uzinzile unomphela ebudlelwaneni, kubalulekile ukuwuphatha ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.

Ukunamathela okungahlelekile kuzoba nethonya elibi neliyingozi ebudlelwaneni.

Ubudlelwano obuvulekile bungaba okuhlangenwe nakho okuhle kwabashadile abaningi futhi kube obubi ngokuphelele kwabanye.

Ukungabethembi abesifazane kungabangela izinkinga ezinkulu uma ungena ebudlelwaneni obuzayo.

Ubudlelwano bungahlukana ngezizathu eziningi zazo zonke izinhlobo nezinhlobo.

Kuvamile futhi kuvamile ukuba kube nokungabaza okuthile ngaphambi kokuthatha isinyathelo esibalulekile sokushada.

Izinkinga zokunamathisela zingaba nomthelela omubi ekwakheni ubudlelwano obunempilo.

Ukuxhumana okuphumelelayo kuyisihluthulelo futhi kubalulekile uma kuziwa ekwenzeni ubudlelwano obuthile buhlale ngokuhamba kwesikhathi.

Ukusetshenziswa kwamanethiwekhi omphakathi kuzoba nomthelela oqondile ebudlelwaneni bombhangqwana

Ukwesekwa kubalulekile lapho uhlala nomlingani otholakale enenkinga yengqondo.

Ukwelashwa kwezithandani kusebenza kahle inqobo nje uma abathintekayo benentshisekelo kukho futhi bebonisa ukuzinikela okukhulu enqubweni.

Akulungile ukulwa nokucasuka noma ukucasuka njalo nomlingani wakho.

Umbhangqwana wanamuhla noma wekhulu lama-XNUMX awukude nalokho umbhangqwana wendabuko owawuyikho.

Akulula kangako ukunikeza umlingani wakho ukwesekwa ngokomzwelo lapho enqoba umzuzu onzima noma onzima.

Ukwelashwa kwezithandani kusebenza kahle uma kuziwa ekuxazululeni izinkinga ezingaba khona noma izingxabano ezidaleka kumbhangqwana

Uthando oluvuthiwe yilona oluhlala ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ngenxa yezinto ezinjengokuzinikela noma inhlonipho phakathi kwezinhlangothi.

Ubuhlungu benhliziyo yisimo somzwelo esibuhlungu okufanele sinqotshwe ukuze uphinde ujabule ekuphileni.

Kuyenzeka ube nomuntu othandana naye ngaphandle kokuthandana inqobo nje uma abathintekayo bevumelana ngakho

Umhawu kumbhangqwana kufanele uqondwe njengendlela yokwesaba lapho kungenzeka ukulahlekelwa othandekayo

Imishwana yothando iyindlela enhle yokubonisa umlingani wakho ukuthi umthanda kangakanani.

Kuvamile ukuthi ngesikhathi sokuhlalisana njengombhangqwana ezinye izinkinga ziphakama usuku nosuku.

Lapho ubhekene nokungathembeki ohlangothini lombhangqwana, kubalulekile ukukhohlwa ngokulimala ngokomzwelo futhi uthole okuthile okuhle kuwo.

Bayanda abantu abakhetha umaqondana uma kuziwa ekwabelaneni impilo nokuhlala ndawonye

Ukwenza umuntu abonakale kuyinqubo evamile kakhulu kodwa kunochungechunge lwezimbangela futhi kufanele sizigweme ngokushesha okukhulu.

Izingxoxo nophathina wakho kufanele kukhulunywe ngazo ngendlela ezolile nekhululekile ukuze kugwenywe izingxabano ezingase zibe khona

Imicabango engenangqondo yothando lothando ingaqeda ubuhlobo

Ukucikeka ngomlingani wakho kuwuphawu olucacile lokuthi ubudlelwano abuhambi kahle

Ubudlelwano obubuyela emuva buvame ukwenzeka ngokushesha ngemuva kokuhlukana kobudlelwano

Ukuzinika isikhathi ebudlelwaneni akusho ukuthi isibopho sizogqashuka futhi sifinyelele esiphethweni

Akukuhle ukuthi ikusasa elihle labashadikazi lithatheke ngezinto ezenzeka kudala

Kwesinye isikhathi kumele wazi ukuthi umxolela kanjani umlingani wakho futhi ulwele ukwakha kabusha ubudlelwano obusekelwe othandweni nokuthembana.

Kunemibhangqwana eminingi eshiya i-monogamy eceleni bese ikhetha ukuhlola izinhlobo ezintsha zothando nezocansi.

Nakuba kungase kubonakale kuxakile, kunobudlelwano bemibhangqwana lapho kuhlangana khona uthando nenzondo

Abantu abaningi bavame ukuba nokungabaza okukhulu mayelana nokuthi kuhle yini ukubuyisana nomlingani wabo.

Ngokuzinikezela nokuzibophezela kungenzeka ukuguqula isifiso somuntu sibe othandweni lweqiniso

Ukwelashwa kwezithandani ezigxile emzwelweni kuhloswe ukulungisa ukuxhumana okungokomzwelo okukhona ebudlelwaneni

Miningi imibono engamanga evamise ukuzungeza uthando namuhla futhi okumele iqedwe

Ukusondelana kuyisihluthulelo futhi kubalulekile ukuze umbhangqwana othile ujabule futhi uhlale ngokuhamba kwesikhathi

Izimpawu ezifana nokukhulumisana okuhle nenhlonipho ziyisihluthulelo sobudlelwano buqhubeke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi

Kuhle ngempela futhi kuyamangalisa ukukwazi ukujabulela uthando uma kuziwa ekufinyeleleni iminyaka yobudala

Udlame lobulili yisihlava sangempela sekhulunyaka lama-XNUMX esithinta imibhangqwana yabantu abadala kanye nentsha

Ukuba nophathina akuwona umshwalense wokuphila ukuze ujabule futhi ukungashadi akuhambisani nokungajabuli

Ukuthatha izinqumo nabashadikazi ngokuvamile kubangela zonke izinhlobo zezingxoxo nezingxabano

Naphezu kokudumazeka okuthile kothando, kubalulekile ukukholelwa othandweni lweqiniso futhi ube nethemba lokuluthola

Ukucekela phansi ebudlelwaneni kwenzeka ngokungazi futhi ngaphandle kokuqaphela, kudala inkinga ebuhlotsheni

Uma kuziwa ekujabuleleni ubuhlobo obuhlala njalo nobuphumelelayo, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungazivumelanisa kanjani nabo.

Kuhle ukukhuluma ngochungechunge lwezihloko nabashadile ukuze kuqiniswe isibopho esidaliwe

Uma uzizwa ubambekile ebudlelwaneni bakho ngenxa yezinkinga zesikhathi esidlule, siphakamisa amasu athile ukuze uqhubekele phambili.

Ukwabelana ngochungechunge lwamagugu nozakwenu kubalulekile futhi kubalulekile uma kuziwa ekwakheni ubudlelwano obuqinile nobuhlala njalo

Ubuhlobo obusekelwe ekuhawukeleni nasekudabukeni buyohluleka ngokuphelele.

Ukungavumeleki ngokomzwelo kuwuhlobo lokuhlukumeza phakathi kwabashadile okungafanele kuvunywe

Ubudlelwano ekhulwini lama-XNUMX abufani nobudlelwano bezikhathi zangaphambili.

Ukucabangela ucansi kuwumkhuba okuvumela ukuthi ujabulele ngokugcwele futhi ngokujabulisayo ubudlelwano bocansi nomlingani wakho.

Uthando oluluthayo ludala ubudlelwano obubi kakhulu nezinto ezinobuthi ezibalulekile

Uthando lweqiniso yilona oluvela ngokuhamba kweminyaka futhi yilona olwenza ubuhlobo buhlale.

Ukubanda kuyisici esingaqeda ubuhlobo unomphela

Ubuqotho nobuqiniso yizicucu ezimbili eziyisihluthulelo neziyisisekelo ebudlelwaneni obunempilo nobuhlala njalo.

Ungalahlekelwa imininingwane yalezi zifundo zothando ezizokusiza ukuthi ujabulele ngokugcwele umbhangqwana

Kufanele ubhekane nokungabaza kombhangqwana mayelana nobuhlobo ngendlela ezolile futhi ecabangelayo

Kunezimo eziningi lapho kuvela ukuthi aqeda ubudlelwano ngokushesha okukhulu

Ukuhlupheka okubuhlungu kusho ukuba nochungechunge lwemizwa yokudabuka nobuhlungu ekupheleni kobudlelwane

Kunochungechunge lwemikhuba yabesilisa okungekho owesifazane okufanele akubekezelele ebudlelwaneni

Ukuntuleka kokusekelwa ngokomzwelo kungabangela izinkinga ezinkulu ebudlelwaneni ngokwabo futhi kulimaze ngokuyingozi

Kunezithako ezimbalwa okufanele zibe khona ebudlelwaneni bothando obuhlala njalo, njengokuthembana noma inhlonipho.

Kubalulekile ukugqashula futhi ushiye ngemuva imibono yobulili ukuze uzuze ukulingana phakathi kobudlelwano

Kunomehluko omningi okhona ezingeni lentela phakathi komshado nobudlelwane bomthetho ojwayelekile

Ubudlelwano obunempilo bababhangqwana busekelwe ezinsikeni ezahlukene, enye yazo iwukusekelana. Lapho abantu ababili...

Ukucabangela kuwumkhuba ongasiza ekuqiniseni nasekuthuthukiseni ubudlelwano phakathi kwabashadile

Uma bobabili abathintekayo bebonisa isithakazelo ebudlelwaneni, ukubuyisana kungaba usizo kakhulu futhi kuphumelele.

Abantu abaningi ngokwengeziwe bakhetha i-serial monogamy njengomkhuba ebudlelwaneni babo

Imishwana yothando ye-movie iyindlela enhle yokubonisa uthando oluzwayo ngomlingani wakho

Nakuba kunzima ukulondoloza uthando ngemva kokuba abazali, kufanele unikele isikhathi, ukubekezela kanye nokuxhumana kukho.

Ukuze ubudlelwano busebenze ngendlela enempilo, uchungechunge lwezingibe ezifana nokungakhulumisani kahle kufanele lugwenywe.

Akulula noma kulula ukuhlala nomlingani ogula ngengqondo

Kunochungechunge lwemisho ekhuluma ngobuhlungu benhliziyo futhi engakusiza ukuthi uqede ukuhlukana.

Kungenzeka ngokuphelele ukuthi abathintekayo bangabangane futhi balondoloze ubuhlobo ngesikhathi esisodwa

Ukungabi nanzalo kuvame ukudala izinkinga ezinkulu ezingokomzwelo ebudlelwaneni

Lapho kuziwa ekukhuliseni nasekufundiseni izingane, umbhangqwana kumelwe uhileleke ngendlela elinganayo ngokuphelele

Akufanelekile ukuqhubeka nomuntu olahlekelwe lonke uthando nothando

Ukuze ubudlelwano buqhubeke ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, kubalulekile ukuthi abathintekayo baqondane

Uma sekuyisikhathi sokubuyisana nomlingani wakho, ungamthumelela uchungechunge lwemiyalezo yothando nethinta inhliziyo

Iyanda intsha ehileleke ngokugcwele ebuhlotsheni bomshado obunobuthi

Imikhawulo iwukhiye futhi ibalulekile kunoma yibuphi ubudlelwano bezithandani obubhekwa bunempilo

Ukuxhumana kubalulekile uma kuza ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi abathintekayo abaxabani futhi abalwi

Ukubaluleka kocansi yinto ezoncika kumbhangqwana okukhulunywa ngawo kanye nalokho abakuthandayo.

Abantu abaningi bakhetha ukuqala ubuhlobo obuseduze ngemva kokuhlupheka nomlingani wabo.

Kunabantu abafuna futhi abathanda umaqondana wabo kodwa abangajabule ebudlelwaneni babo

Ukwelashwa kwabashadile kuyindlela ephumelelayo yokuxazulula izinkinga ezenzeka ebudlelwaneni

Ukuhlakanipha okuhle ngokomzwelo phakathi kwabashadile kwenza ubuhlobo buhlale isikhathi eside futhi bukhule buqine

Ukwelashwa kwezithandani kuyindlela enhle yokuxazulula izinkinga ezivele phakathi kobudlelwano.

Uthando ekuqaleni luwuthando lwangempela abanye abantu abangaba nalo kukho konke ukuphila kwabo.

Uyazi ukuthi unokuxhumana okungokomzwelo nalowo muntu okhethekile? Ngakho uma uhlangabezana nazo zonke lezi zinyathelo, siyakuhalalisela.

Ukunamathela kokukhathazeka okulethwe ensimini yombhangqwana, kusikisela ukwesaba okukhulu nokwesaba ukushiywa kanye...

Ubudlelwano obuningi bentsha buveza uthando futhi buholela ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi

Akulula ukulondoloza ubuhlobo nomuntu onesimo sengqondo sokungenzi lutho.

Kufanele wazi ukuthi ungazifinyelela kanjani izingxoxo ezithile nophathina wakho ukuze uzivikele ekulimazeni ubudlelwano

Ubuqotho nokwethembeka yizici ezimbili ezibalulekile uma kuziwa ekwakheni ubuhlobo obunempilo nobuhlala njalo.

Izindlela zokwelapha zezithandani zilungile uma kuziwa ekuxazululeni izingxabano phakathi kobudlelwano nokuqinisa izibopho ezithintanayo

Akulula ukuthi noma ngubani abe nobudlelwano nomunye umuntu ocwile ocansini.

Kuyinto evamile ukuba nochungechunge lokwesaba nokwesaba lapho uqala ubuhlobo.

Izici zenhlalo yabantu zingawohloka ubudlelwano kuze kube sezingeni lokubunqamula

Ukusetshenziswa kwezithombe zobulili ezingcolile ebudlelwaneni kungaba nemiphumela emibi nemihle

Izici ezinjengokungakhulumisani kahle noma ukungathembani kungase kubonise ukuthi umbhangqwana usenkingeni

Kubalulekile ukuthi umlingani azi ukuthi usothandweni kanjani futhi imishwana yothando ingasiza ukuveza imizwa enjalo.

Ebudlelwaneni be-"yo-yo" kukhona ukungazinzi okukhulu phakathi kwabashadikazi futhi kuba nokwehla nokwenyuka okukhulu ezingeni lomzwelo.

Akulula ukuthola lowo muntu olungile futhi ophelele ongasungula naye ubuhlobo

Ukuba umzali okwabiwe kuzovumela umbhangqwana ukuba ujabule kakhulu futhi uhlale ngokuhamba kwesikhathi

Akulula noma kulula ukuthi ubudlelwano buphinde buthembe umlingani ngemuva kokuqamba amanga

Baningi abantu abanezinkinga uma kukhulunywa ngokuphuma ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi

Iningi lentsha yanamuhla linothando olujulile noma lwe-platonic ezinkundleni zokuxhumana

Ebudlelwaneni bombhangqwana obuzithobayo, omunye wabahlanganyeli uyayala futhi uyala kanti omunye ulalela ngaphandle kokuchitha isikhathi.

I-Monotony nesithukuthezi izitha ezimbili eziyingozi kunoma ibuphi ubuhlobo.

Lapho ethola uthando, umuntu uba nochungechunge lwezinguquko ezingokomzwelo nezingokomzwelo zazo zonke izinhlobo.

Ngala mabinzana ungabonisa umlingani wakho ngoSuku Lwezithandani, uthando nothando onalo ngaye

Ekucindezelekeni ngenxa yothando, umuntu okukhulunywa ngaye akasho ukuhlukana futhi uhlushwa isifo sokucindezeleka

Ufuna izipho ze-Valentine zakhe? Bese ubheka le mibono esiphakamisa ukuthi umangale ngayo ngalolo suku.

Izikhundla lapho izithandani zivame ukulala kuzo zingakhombisa ukuthi hlobo luni lobudlelwano abanalo

Ukubuyisana nabashadikazi kuhle uma kukhona ukuzibophezela kwabathintekayo ekuthuthukiseni izinto

Ukuxhumana kuyinsika ukuze ubudlelwano busebenze kahle.

Ukukhombisa ukunganaki okuthile kumlingani kungabangela ubudlelwano bube buthaka futhi bunqamuke

Kunemibhangqwana eminingi okuthi ngemva kokuba nengxoxo ethile inqume ukuya ocansini.

Kunochungechunge lokuziphatha noma ukuziphatha okungeke kuvunywe ebudlelwaneni

Kuyinto evamile ukuba nesithukuthezi phakathi kwabashadikazi, ikakhulukazi ezimweni ezithile nezingavamile.

Ukungashadi kuyisinqumo esisemthethweni nesihloniphekayo njengoba nje usebudlelwaneni

Ebudlelwaneni obunempilo, ukuboniswa kothando nothando kufanele kuqhubeke.

Ukusabela ekutholeni ukuthi uzakwenu akathembekile kungahluka kakhulu futhi kuhluke.

Baningi abesifazane namuhla abahlukunyezwayo noma bahlukunyezwe ebudlelwaneni babo

Umona weNarcissistic kumele ulashwe ngoba kungenjalo ungagcina ngophathina

Ungaqala kanjani ubudlelwano uma usunesikhathi eside ungashadile? Sikunikeza okhiye abangcono kakhulu ukuze ugweme ukudumazeka.

Kunezibonakaliso ezimbalwa ezicacile ezingasiza ekuboniseni ukuthi umbhangqwana osemusha unobuthi

Udlame nolaka yinto engavunyelwa kunoma yiluphi uhlobo lobudlelwano

Kuyinto evamile futhi evamile emibhangqwaneni eminingi ukuthi omunye wamaqembu acele indawo yomuntu siqu

Isikhwele singaba yinto evamile kwabashadile, inqobo nje uma bengalawuleka ngaphandle kwenkinga.

Kunenombolo yezici noma izici okufanele zibe khona uma ufuna umlingani

Izithiyo zokuxhumana kubabhangqwana zingabangela izingxabano kanye nezingxabano ebudlelwaneni obushiwo

Bonke ubudlelwane bombhangqwana obubhekwa bunempilo buzodlula ochungechungeni lwezigaba ezihluke kahle.

Lolu chungechunge lwemibuzo enezihloko ezihlukahlukene luzokusiza ukuba umazi kangcono umuntu owabelana naye ngokuphila kwakho.

Akekho umuntu ophoqelekile ukuthi abekezelele ubudlelwano angafuni ukuba nabo futhi angathokozi

Ukubonga kuyinto okufanele inikezwe kubo bonke ubudlelwano bezithandani zothando ukuze kuqiniswe isibopho ngokwaso

Nakuba kungewona umsebenzi olula, ukuhambisana okuthile phakathi kothando nesifo sengqondo kungenzeka

Nakuba abantu abaningi bengakwazi, ubulili phakathi kwabashadile bufeza imisebenzi emine ehluke kakhulu

Akungabazeki futhi kuyiqiniso ukuthi ukuzalwa komntwana kumelela ngaphambi nangemva kwempilo yombhangqwana

Kunochungechunge lwamanani okufanele lube khona ebudlelwaneni ukuze buhlale phakathi neminyaka.

Intukuthelo ayiyena umlingani omuhle ebudlelwaneni njengoba idala ukuguga okukhulu ebuhlotsheni nokungajabuli kwabathintekayo.

Emibhangqwaneni eminingi namuhla, ukungayi ocansini njalo akuyona inkinga.

Kukhona uchungechunge lweziqondiso noma amathiphu angakusiza ukuthi unqobe noma uyenge owesifazane wamaphupho akho.

Izizathu noma izimbangela zokuthi kungani owesifazane enquma ukungathembeki ebudlelwaneni bakhe zihlukahlukene futhi ziningi.

Umaqondana wakho ufuna ukuqeda ubudlelwano kodwa wena awufuni. Yini engingayenza futhi engingakwazi ukuyenza? Sikunikeza amathiphu angcono kakhulu ongawalandela.

Kuvamile ukuthi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, inhlansi nothando lokuqala lwenguquko othandweni nothando phakathi kombhangqwana.

Izimpawu ezifana nezinsongo, ukukhohlisa noma ukululazwa kubonisa ukuthi kukhona ukuhlukumeza ebudlelwaneni obuthile

Akulungile ukwenza umbhangqwana ube ngowakho ngoba ngokuvamile kubangela izinkinga ezinkulu nezibalulekile ebudlelwaneni uqobo

Nakuba kuvamile ukuzwa ubuhlungu bokuhlukana kobudlelwane, kubalulekile ukupholisa amanxeba ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.

Ukujabulela ubuhlobo obunempilo kuwumsebenzi onzima odinga ukuzibophezela okuthile kwabathintekayo.

Ngaphandle kokuthanda omunye umuntu, kumele wazi ukuthi umthanda kanjani ukuze ubudlelwano buqhubeke isikhathi futhi buqine.

Kunedlanzana lamadoda athathwa njengobuthi okumele uqhelelane nawo uma wenza izithandani

Imishwana yothando isiza ukuveza ngamagama lokho umuntu akuzwayo kumlingani wakhe

Uthando lwangempela noma olunengqondo kufanele lunqobe uthando olufanele ukuze ubuhlobo buqine lapho kubhekene nezinkinga nobunzima.

Bobabili abesilisa nabesifazane bayobona ngendlela ehlukile behlushwa ukungathembeki komlingani wabo

Izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuqomisana zinezinzuzo ezithile kodwa futhi zinenombolo yokubi kumuntu ozisebenzisayo.

Ukuthethisa umlingani wakho njalo akunconyiwe ngoba kwehlisa ubudlelwano uqobo

Nakuba ama-microinfidelities acashile, ayingozi futhi ayingozi njengokungathembeki.

Kulungile ukuhlala eduze nesithandwa sakho umtshele ukuthi ufuna olunye ucansi naye

Imininingwane emincane ibalulekile futhi ibalulekile uma kuziwa ekuqinisekiseni ukuthi ubudlelwano buhlala futhi buhlala buphila

Kukhona uchungechunge lwezimpawu noma izimpawu ezingabonisa ukuthi ubudlelwano buhlala njalo noma besikhashana

Uthando olupholisayo luvumela umbhangqwana ukuba ujabulele injabulo enkulu futhi udale isibopho esinempilo

Intukuthelo nentukuthelo akubona abeluleki abahle uma kuziwa ekutholeni umbhangqwana othile ukuxazulula izinkinga zawo

Kunochungechunge lwemisho olusebenzayo uma kukhulunywa ngokumisa ingxoxo ethile kwabashadile

Namuhla kunabantu abaningi abasebudlelwaneni obuhlukumezayo ngokomzwelo ngokuphelele

Isici esihlukanisayo sokuvungama kothando usizi kanye nokungaphili okukubangelayo ebudlelwaneni bombhangqwana.

Ziningi izinzuzo nezici ezinhle zokungashadi ekuphileni

Ukuziphatha okunamandla nokulawula ebudlelwaneni bubenza bube nobuthi

Kunochungechunge lwezihloko okufanele kuxoxwe ngazo ekuqaleni noma ekuqaleni kwanoma yibuphi ubuhlobo

Ukuthola injabulo ndawonye nophathina wakho kuwumuzwa omuhle futhi ongakholeki ozuzisa ubuhlobo ngokwawo.

Kuyinto evamile ukuthi ngokuhamba kweminyaka uthando luyashintsha futhi nalo ubudlelwane obuhlukene bomshado

Abantu abangakwazi ukuvula ikhasi mayelana nobudlelwano babo bangaphambilini bavame ukwenza uchungechunge lwamaphutha alimaza isimo sabo semizwa

Embhangqwaneni, iqembu ngalinye kufanele likhululeke ukucabanga njengoba lifuna futhi lihloniphe imibono yomunye

Okubalulekile wukuthola umuntu othembele kuye ukuthi azimele ngokomzwelo.

Uthando lokuxhumana luzwa umbhangqwana njengobudlelwane babangane abahle lapho ubungane bungaphezu kwakho konke

Ukungathembeki akuyona into engaphezu kokusungula uchungechunge lokuxhumana nomuntu ngaphandle kombhangqwana

Akungabazeki ukuthi ukwethembana kuyisihluthulelo futhi kubalulekile kunoma yibuphi ubuhlobo.

Uthando ngomunye umuntu ngomunye wemizwa enamandla kakhulu futhi ekhethekile umuntu angaba nayo.

Uthando olungenakwenzeka yilolo olungenzeki noma nini, lubangele umonakalo omkhulu ezingeni lomzwelo.

Uhlobo lokunamathela onalo ebuntwaneni luzoba nomthelela oqondile ezimpilweni zabantu.