Ungakugwema kanjani isithukuthezi kanye nokwejwayelekile njengabantu abashadile

Ukuqhutshwa kombhangqwana

La inkambiso kanye nesithukuthezi yizitha ezimbili ezinkulu zokuphila njengezithandani. Akungabazeki ukuthi kunemibhangqwana eminingi engenazo izingxabano ezingaphezu kweqiniso lokuthi igcine isungule inqubo eye yaphela ngomzwelo nokukhohlisa. Kungakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi usebenze nsuku zonke unakekela abashadayo, ukugwema ukuthi inqubo ingadala inkinga yabashadikazi.

Sizokunikeza ezimbalwa amathiphu alula okugwema isithukuthezi nenqubo eyejwayelekile emibhangqwaneni. Kubalulekile ukusebenza njalo ukuqinisekisa ukuthi abashadikazi bayazijabulisa. Kepha kungumsebenzi wabo bobabili, okungafanele ukuthi unganakwa.

Gubha izinsuku ezimisiwe

Umkhuba njengombhangqwana

Impela unayo isikhumbuzo, usuku lokuzalwa nezinye izinsuku ukuthi isimiso sasibaluleke kakhulu. Nobabili kufanele nibe nentshisekelo yokugubha imicimbi ekhethekile nezinsuku ezisho okuthile kini nobabili. Kufanele ukhulume nomunye umuntu uma bengenasithakazelo kule migubho, ngoba ukuzama kuphela ngakithi kungabuqeda ubudlelwano. Uma nobabili nijabulela usuku lwenu lokuzalwa nenza okuthile okuhlukile, lokhu kungasiza ukuvuselela leyo nhlansi kwasekuqaleni.

Yiba nesikhala sakho

Kunemibhangqwana egcina ihlukunyeziwe enkampanini ngoba ingazi ukuthi ihlukane kanjani futhi ibe nokuphila kwayo ngaphezu kwalezi zithandani. Lokhu kuhlala kuyingozi, futhi kufanele kugwenywe. Kumele sikhumbule ukuthi sinjalo izifundo ezinokuzilibazisa nezinto abazithandayo, ukuthi akufanele silingise noma sihlangane kakhulu nomlingani wethu size silahlekelwe ubunikazi bethu. Ngakho-ke kuyadingeka kakhulu ukuthi sibe nezikhathi zethu ezihlukene, nezethu izinto zokuzilibazisa. Ngalo mqondo, kufanele senze izifundo, eminye imidlalo noma simane sizindle sisodwa. Kuyaqabula kakhulu ukuchitha izikhathi ezihlukaniswe nombhangqwana, ngoba ngokuhamba kwesikhathi sizoba nezinto eziningi esingazitshela futhi izikhathi nabashadikazi ziyoba mnandi kakhulu.

Imininingwane ekhethekile

Awudingi ukulinda usuku olumisiwe ukuze ube nemininingwane ekhethekile nomlingani wethu. Sinaye unyaka wonke, futhi impela kunezikhathi lapho edinga ukwesekwa noma ukuzizwa ekhethekile ngokwengeziwe. Kungakho-ke singaba nemininingwane nabashadikazi noma kunini lapho sithanda khona.

Getaways ndawonye

Ukuqhutshwa kombhangqwana

Izinto ezintsha kufanele zenziwe ndawonye. Ukuhamba noma ukuthatha ukuphunyuka okuncane endlini yezwe noma e-spa kungaba umqondo omuhle. Kuyindlela yokwephula inqubo futhi uzizwe uphila futhi. Lokhu kwenza ukuthi bobabili bajabulele okwehlukile, bengeze okwenziwayo ndawonye. Isizungu asinakwenzeka uma sizimangaza ngalezi zinguquko ezijwayelekile ngezikhathi ezithile. Kumele sifunde ukuzenzekela ngokwengeziwe futhi sijabulele impilo nezikhathi ndawonye.

Thola ubulili bakho

Lapho sikumbhangqwana ngokuvamile sisungula i- okuvamile empilweni yansuku zonke nasebhedeni. Ubulili buyaqagela, kokubili indawo nesikhathi nendlela yokwenza. Kungakho nathi kufanele simangale kulokhu. Kufanele uzame izinto ezintsha esizizwa sikhululekile ngazo zombili, indawo ehlukile noma sisebenzise amathoyizi avusa inkanuko. Kunamathuba amasha ayinkulungwane esingawathola angenza ukuthi sithokoze ngokuphindwe kabili futhi sigweme leyo nqubo embhedeni.

Ukuxhumana

Kwesinye isikhathi inqubo yenza ake siyeke ukuxhumana nozakwethu. Sakha usuku nosuku lapho izibopho, umsebenzi noma izingane zingenza nathi. Konke lokhu kusho ukuthi asixhumani kakhulu nomlingani wethu, okwenza kube nomgoqo phakathi kwabo bobabili. Kungakho ukuxhumana kuzohlala kuyindlela yokufinyelela omunye umuntu. Okokuqala, kufanele sikhulume nalowo muntu mayelana nenqubo yabashadikazi nezindlela okufanele silwe nakho, ngoba nobabili kufanele nivume ukuthuthukisa ubudlelwano.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.