Ungazifundisa kanjani izingane zakho ukuthi yini ukuqina

ukuqina

Ngeshwa, ubuhlungu nokuhlupheka kuyingxenye yempilo futhi kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungabhekana kanjani nezikhathi ezinjalo. Endabeni yezingane, isimo singaba nzima kakhulu. Ukushona komuntu osondele noma ukushintsha okulula kwendlu kungathinta kabi impilo engokomzwelo yengane.

Yingakho abazali kumele bafundise izingane zabo ukwazi ukuthi yini ukuqina futhi ngale ndlela ukuze bakwazi ukunqoba izikhathi eziyinkimbinkimbi abangaba nazo kukho konke ukuphila kwabo.

Kuyini ukuqina?

Ukuqinisela akuyona into engaphezu kwamandla umuntu anawo, ukwazi ukuqina lapho ubhekene nezimo ezithathwa njengezinzima futhi eziyinkimbinkimbi. Leli khono kumele lifundwe kusukela emncane. Imfundo yabazali ibalulekile ukuze izingane zifunde ukukwazi ukuqina kusukela eminyakeni yokuqala yokuphila. Ngemuva kwalokho sizokutshela ukuthi abazali kufanele basebenze kanjani ekuqiniseni izingane zabo.

Izinkombandlela zabazali okumele bazilandele ukufundisa izingane zabo ukuqina

Okokuqala, izingane kufanele zizizwe zithembile ngokwanele ukuze zikwazi ukubhekana nezinselelo ezithile. Abancane kufanele bazi ukuthi isenzo ngasinye sinomphumela waso futhi ukuze lokhu kwenzeke kumele bazenzele izinqumo. Izingane kufanele zizame futhi kujwayelekile ukuthi kwesinye isikhathi ziqinisile kanti kwesinye isikhathi azilungile. Into esemqoka ukuthi bazizwa besekelwa ngaso sonke isikhathi ngabazali babo futhi ngaleyo ndlela baqinise ukuzethemba kwabo.

Ukubasiza ukuthi bakhe ukuzethemba kwabo kubalulekile ekufundeni ukuthi ukuqina kuyini. Uzizwa ulusizo futhi uyakwazi, Akungabazeki ukuthi iyasiza ingane ukubhekana nezinkinga ezahlukahlukene ezingavela kukho konke ukuphila kwayo.

Enye into abazali okufanele basebenze nezingane zabo udaba lokukhungatheka. Izingane kufanele zazi ukuthi kunezikhathi lapho izinto zingafinyelelwa okokuqala nokuthi kujwayelekile ukwenza amaphutha. Kepha ngenxa yalesi sizathu, awudingi ukukhungatheka, kufanele ube nesibindi ukuze uthole okufunayo.

eqinile

Ekugcineni, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi izingane zazi ukuthi kuyini ukuqina kusukela zisencane. Abazali kumele bafundise izingane zabo ukuthi kuhlale kunesixazululo sayo yonke into nokuthi kubalulekile ukuthola leyo ndlela ekuvumela ukuthi ube ngendlela engcono kakhulu. Kumele kucace ukuthi izingane zizohlupheka ngezikhathi ezahlukahlukene ezimpilweni zazo futhi ukuqina kuyisihluthulelo sokuzisiza zinqobe izikhathi ezinzima kanjalo nezinzima.

Kujwayelekile ukuthi abazali babe nesikhathi esibi impela lapho bebona ukuthi izingane zabo zinesikhathi esibi futhi zihlupheka kanjani, kepha kuyinto ejwayelekile okumele yenzeke ngakho-ke kumele yamukelwe. Ngenxa yamathuluzi afana nokuqina, izingane ngethemba zizokwazi ukubhekana nalezi zinkinga futhi imizwa yobuso nemizwa efana nobuhlungu noma ukudabuka.


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  1. Ubhekele imininingwane: Miguel Ángel Gatón
  2. Inhloso yedatha: Lawula Ugaxekile, ukuphathwa kwamazwana.
  3. Ukusemthethweni: Imvume yakho
  4. Ukuxhumana kwemininingwane: Imininingwane ngeke idluliselwe kubantu besithathu ngaphandle kwesibopho esisemthethweni.
  5. Isitoreji sedatha: Idatabase ebanjwe yi-Occentus Networks (EU)
  6. Amalungelo: Nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ungakhawulela, uthole futhi ususe imininingwane yakho.