Sonke siye sahlupheka ngezikhathi lapho izinkinga ziyaqoqeka futhi zibukeka sengathi azipheli. Kepha uma kukhona okuthile okusichazayo, akuzona izinto ezenzeka kithina, kodwa isimo sengqondo esisithathayo kubo nokuthi siziphatha kanjani. Ukubhekana nezinkinga kuhlale kunzima, kepha uma sikwenza sinombono omuhle, sizobe siphumelela. Ngakho-ke ake sibone ukuthi singasakha kanjani lesi simo sengqondo futhi sixazulule izinkinga ngendlela engcono kakhulu.
La Isimo sengqondo esihle asiveli ndawo. Yize kunabantu ngokwemvelo abahle ngokwengeziwe, iqiniso ukuthi lolu hlobo lwengqondo lungabuye luqeqeshwe futhi lufundwe ukulukhiqiza ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Kungakho-ke kumele sibe namathuluzi anele ukuthi sikwazi ukubhekana nosuku nosuku ngesimo esihle esisisizayo.
Zama ukunciphisa inkinga
Kwesinye isikhathi izinkinga ezibonakala zinkulu ngokuhamba kwesikhathi zibonakala zingenalutho futhi uma sizikhumbula siyazibuza ukuthi kungani zisithinte kangaka. Kumele zama ukuqonda inkinga futhi uyinciphise. Into yokuqala ukubona ukuthi asikhona yini isixazululo noma okuthile esingakwenza nokuthi singakusebenzisa kanjani. Isenzo ngaso sonke isikhathi sizosisiza ukuthi siye phambili futhi singabambeki ebuhlungwini noma ekukhathazekeni. Uma inkinga ibonakala ingenaso isixazululo, isinyathelo sokuqhubekela phambili ukusamukela. Ukwamukelwa kungenye indlela yokukhula, ngoba kusinikeza amandla okujwayela izimo ezingaba nzima. Uma sicabanga ukuthi inkinga ayinzima kangako nokuthi impilo inokusinikeza okuningi, lapho-ke ngeke isabonakala inkulu kangako.
Ungazigxeki ngokweqile
Abantu abanombono ongemuhle abagcini ngokubhekela abanye kabi, kepha futhi bavame ukuzigxeka kakhulu. I- ukuzigxeka kuhle uma kwakha futhi kusiholela ekutheni sithuthukise izenzo zethu, kepha kuguquka kube okumbi uma kusenza sizizwe singalungile kuphela. Ukuwela ekuzidabukeni akusona isixazululo senkinga. Izinto ezimbi zenzeka kuwo wonke umuntu futhi sonke siwenzile amaphutha ngezikhathi ezithile empilweni, ngakho-ke kufanele sikubone njengokujwayelekile. Ukwamukela nokuqhubekela phambili kubalulekile.
Funa ukufunda ngokuhlangenwe nakho
Zonke izinkathazo kanye konke okuhlangenwe nakho okubi kunokufunda kwako ngakho-ke akufanele sigxile kokubi kuphela. Ngaso sonke isikhathi singathola okuthile okuhle kuzo zonke izinkinga ezisifikelayo. Kusuka kumathuluzi amaningi wokuyinqoba ngezindlela ezintsha zokubona izinkinga noma izimfanelo ezintsha zokuzinqoba. Njengoba yonke into ifaka ukufunda, kufanele ucabange ngalokho okuzuzayo kuleyo nkinga ethile nokuthi ungayisebenzisa kanjani empilweni yakho futhi uzobona ukuthi akukho lutho olubi njengoba lubukeka ekuqaleni.
Ingilazi isigcwele
Leyo nkulumo ka uma ubona ingilazi isigamu sigcwele noma uhhafu ungenalutho lapho inani lilingana, lisitshela ukuthi abantu babhekene kanjani nezinkinga. Abanye bayakwazi ukubona uhlangothi oluhle lwezinto kanti abanye bagxila kokubi kuphela. Kungakho-ke ukuba nesimo sengqondo esihle kumele sifunde ukuba yingxenye yalabo abangabona okuthile okuhle kukho konke okwenzekayo. Uma sikwazi ukubona uhlangothi oluhle lapho-ke sizoyeka ukukhathazeka ngokubi futhi sikunqobe kangcono kakhulu.
Ukuba nombono omuhle kukusiza udlule ezintweni
Yazi ukuthi kufanele ube yini umuntu onesimo esihle sengqondo okungasisiza ukuba sinqobe izinto kuyinto esiholela ekubeni sibe nesinye isimo sengqondo. Abantu abaqondile bayasebenza futhi bathola izixazululo zokudala ezinkingeni zabo. Abamoshi amandla nesikhathi bakhalaza nokukhathazeka, kepha kunalokho baya emsebenzini ukuxazulula izinkinga zabo.