Ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, abantu bayayeka ukufaka umzamo omkhulu ebudlelwaneni babo, kepha uma usebenzisa le mininingwane yothando, ubudlelwano bakho buzoqina. Ukufakazela uthando lwakho ngokuthinta okuncane kuyinto engalindeleka ebudlelwaneni. Empeleni, Noma yini ongakhombisa umlingani wakho ekhombisa ukuthi uyamthanda kufanele kube lula futhi ibe yemvelo uma uyenza.
Kodwa-ke, abantu abaningi bathi njengoba ubudlelwane buqhubeka, futhi njengoba isikhathi sihamba, abantu bayayeka ukukhombisa izimpawu zothando lwabo. Bangasho ukuthi "Ngiyakuthanda," noma yini enye emnandi, enothando, enothando, futhi emangalisayo ukuyilalela, kodwa bona. ukushukuma okuncane kuqala ukufiphala (futhi lezi zenzo zomzimba ziyinto ebaluleke kakhulu ebudlelwaneni).
Imininingwane emincane noma ubufakazi obuncane bothando buyadingeka kunoma yibuphi ubudlelwane emhlabeni ukuze busebenze. Uma unalokhu ebudlelwaneni bakho, konke kuzohamba kahle ...
Ukugona njengemininingwane yothando
Njengoba kulula, kuyisisekelo futhi kuvamile njengokugona kungazwakala, empeleni kungubufakazi obubaluleke kakhulu bothando. Cabanga ngale ndlela, ukuthi umlingani wakho akumbambe, amange futhi angafuni ukumdedela, kungenye yezindlela ezinhle kakhulu zokuzizwa uthandwa. Akunandaba noma nini lapho umlingani wakho ekugona, uzohlala wazi ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukuthi bayakweseka, bakunakekele, futhi bayakuthanda.
Bambana ngezandla
Uma ubamba isandla somlingani wakho, usikhame ngobumnene, noma uphulule isithupha sakho esandleni sabo ngenkathi usibambile, utshela umlingani wakho izinto eziyizigidi. Awugcini ngokuba mnandi, kepha ukhombisa ukuthi uyakhathala, ukuthi unaye eceleni kwakhe nokuthi uhambisana nemizwa yakhe. Le mininingwane yothando iyamangalisa.
Snuggle ndawonye
Ukuhaga nomlingani wakho kuyinto yomlingo kakhulu, ikakhulukazi uma umthanda. Kunento eyenzekayo uma ucwiliswa, uhlangana futhi ugonwe. Kungumuzwa okunzima ukuwuchaza, ngaphandle kokuthi konke ukukhathazeka emhlabeni kuyaphela, akukho ukucindezeleka, injabulo nje emsulwa nothando. Ukuhaxana njengezithandani kungenzeka kungobunye bobufakazi obuhle bothando ukuthi uma isiqedile izokwengeza ebuhlotsheni bakho ngendlela obungeke uyicabange.
Imiyalezo engahleliwe
Noma ungakwenza ngomyalezo obhaliwe, ngocingo noma ngombhalo obhalwe ngesandla, sicela ushiyele umlingani wakho umyalezo omnandi, omfishane, onothando, onothando noma onothando. Le yindlela enhle kakhulu yokuthi "Ngiyakukhumbula," "Ngiyakuthanda," "Ngiyakuthanda," "Ngiyakucabanga," noma ngisho "Ngiyethemba unosuku oluhle." Le nothi yinto umlingani wakho azoyazisa futhi azoyenza usuku lwabo. Ungahlala uhlela umyalezo ngamunye uvumelane nanoma yini eyenzekayo empilweni yakho ezokwenza izinto zibe ngcono kakhulu.
Kunjalo, Ebudlelwaneni bakho awukwazi ukungakunaki ukuxhumana nezikhathi zothando zokusondelana nakho. Ubudlelwano kufanele bube nempilo ukuze nobabili nithokozele uthando lwenu nobabili uma nindawonye futhi uma nihlukene. Uthando lunomlingo kepha ukuze luhlale luqinile futhi luzinzile kufanele lunakekelwe nhlangothi zombili.