Kunezinto ezimbalwa ezinhle kakhulu kule mpilo njengokwazi ukwaba uthando nomunye umuntu. Akekho obaphunyukayo, okuthi uma usutholile uthando olunjalo kumele ulunakekele ukuze luvikele ukonakala. Ngalokhu, kunconywa ukuthi usebenzise imikhuba eminingi ezokwenza uthando luhlale luphila yize izinsuku zihamba.
Esihlokweni esilandelayo sizokukhombisa eminye yemikhuba okufanele yenziwe, ukuze lezi zithandani zihlale ngaphandle kwenkinga ngesikhathi futhi zijabule.
Ukugona
Embhangqwaneni onempilo, ukuboniswa kothando nokuthintana ngokomzimba kufanele kube njalo, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukwangana usuku lonke. Ukugona okusuka enhliziyweni kuyisibonakaliso sothando abazothakazelela kakhulu abashadikazi. Ukugona okulula kungabonakala njengokuyize kubantu abaningi, kodwa-ke wukukhonjiswa kothando okusiza ukuqinisa abashadile.
Setha iphrojekthi ehlangene
Ukwazi ukubeka iphrojekthi ethile engqondweni ngendlela efanayo, kusiza ukuqinisa izibopho zombhangqwana. Le phrojekthi ingaqukatha ukuthatha uhambo oluthile noma ukuqala umndeni. Inkohliso yokwenza okuthile ndawonye yinto ezuzisa kahle abashadile.
Khuluma ngocansi nomlingani wakho
Ukuya ocansini nomlingani kujabuliswa ngokuphelele lapho bobabili abantu bekhuluma ngakho ngaphandle kwenkinga futhi beveza konke abakucabangayo ngakho. Ubulili buyindaba engathandeki emibhangqwaneni eminingi futhi lokhu kunomthelela omubi ekusaseni labo elihle. Akufanele kube khona noma yiluphi uhlobo lwenkinga lapho ukhuluma nothandekayo, ngendaba efana nezocansi.
Hambani niyolala ndawonye
Ukulala uyolala nomlingani wakho kuyisenzo esizuzisa kakhulu ubudlelwano. Kubalulekile ukugcina ukuthintana komzimba ekupheleni kosuku futhi uzwe isikhumba nemfudumalo yomuntu omthandayo.
Yazi ukulibalela
Kufanele wazi ukuthi ungamxolela kanjani umlingani wakho futhi ugweme ukuziqhenya ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kufanele ufunde emaphutheni futhi ngale ndlela konke kuzohamba kangcono kakhulu ebudlelwaneni. Ukuthethelela ngobuqotho kusiza abashadikazi ukuthi bakwazi ukunqoba izinkinga ezahlukene futhi leyo njabulo ifakwe kuyo.
Yiba nesikhala sakho
Ukuba nomlingani akusho ukuba ndawonye amahora angama-24 ngosuku nokungabi nokuphefumula. Umuntu ngamunye kufanele abe nesikhala sakhe ukuze akwazi ukwenza noma yini ayifunayo ngokukhululeka. Ukuba nalesi sikhala kubalulekile futhi kubalulekile ukuze izithandani zingahlupheki eminyakeni edlule.
Ngamafuphi, lena eminye yemikhuba okufanele yenziwe ukuze ujabulele ubudlelwano obuhle iminyaka neminyaka. Uthando akuyona indaba yosuku futhi kufanele lunakekelwe ngokuqhubekayo ukujabulela umlingani impilo yakho yonke. Ukungena endaweni yokunethezeka akukuhle ebudlelwaneni ngoba buyama futhi kugcina konakala kancane kancane.