Njengoba sinakekela imizimba yethu nsuku zonke ngokwenza ezemidlalo nokudla kahle, kufanele futhi sinakekele i-psyche yethu, njengoba kuyingxenye ebalulekile ebandakanyeka ngqo kwezempilo yomhlaba. Ukwenza imikhuba enempilo ngokwengqondo kuyinto esingayenza sonke futhi empeleni kulula kakhulu kunalokho okubonakala, ngoba iningi lazo livame ukuzenza cishe ngaphandle kokuqaphela.
Kuyinto a umqondo omuhle wokubuyekeza indlela yethu yokuphila ukubona ukuthi sinendaba ngempela nempilo yethu yengqondo. Ucezu olubalulekile futhi asihlali senza izinto kahle. Uma wenza le mikhuba enempilo ngokwengqondo, uzobona ukuthi iphelele ekuthuthukiseni isimo sakho jikelele sezengqondo.
Yiba nezinhloso nezisusa
Uma kunokuthile okuhlukanisa abantu abanokuthile empilweni nalabo abangenakho, yilokho okucwebezelayo emehlweni abo, ugqozi lokwenza izinto nokuvuka njalo ekuseni. Esinye sezimpawu zokudangala ukungazizwa ukwenza noma yini, ngakho-ke kubaluleke kakhulu kithi ukuthi sibe nokuthile esingabhekisa kukho. Kufanele kube yinto ebalulekile kithina, kungaleso sikhathi kuphela lapho sizothola khona ugqozi oludingekayo lokuqhubekela phambili. Ukuba nezinhloso ezithile, ezinye zesikhashana futhi ezinye zesikhathi eside, kuyadingeka kakhulu. Izisusa ziza lapho siphishekela okuthile okusithandayo.
Yiba nempilo ehlelekile
Yize kufanele kube nezinxushunxushu kuyo yonke impilo, iqiniso ukuthi kubalulekile futhi ukuthi sibe nenhlangano, okungenani eyanele ukuze singazizwa sengathi konke kuphuma esandleni. Ukuba nesimiso sosuku nosuku kanye nesethenjwa kusisiza sizizwe singcono. Ukuhleleka kuhlala kubalulekile uma sikhuluma ngempilo, ngoba ngaphandle kwayo sizizwa sikhathazeke kakhulu ngokungazi ukuthi senzeni noma singazi ukuthi izinto zizokwenzeka kanjani. Uma uhlela, udala ukuphepha futhi lokhu kusisiza ukuthi sibe nokuzola.
Yiba nengqondo esebenzayo
Abantu asebekhulile abakhuthele, ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, bajabulela impilo engcono namasosha omzimba angcono, ngaphezu kokugwema izinkinga ezinkulu njengokuvuza kwenkumbulo. Kungakho kudingekile ukugcina ingqondo yethu isebenza, ngoba futhi kulula ngathi ukusebenzisa inkumbulo noma umqondo, ngoba siyakusebenzisa. Njengokungathi singesinye isihlunu, kufanele siwuqeqeshe ukuze uhlale usesimweni.
Vumela ubuciko bethu buhambe
Ubuciko buza ngezindlela eziningi, hhayi nje njengenkulumo yobuciko. Kukhona labo abanobuhlakani maqondana nokuxazulula izinkinga zezibalo, labo abahlanganisa ifenisha noma abalungisa ukuwohloka. Yingakho kufanele sivumele ingqondo yethu ibe nobuciko, ngoba kuyikhono lokwenza okuthile okusha kusuka kulokho osekuvele kwaziwa, amandla abantu anawo futhi abaluleke kakhulu. Kungenye yamakhono ethu okufanele ondliwe futhi aqeqeshwe. Uma ukwazi ukwenza noma yibuphi ubuciko obufana nokudansa, ukubhala noma ukudweba, ungakushiyi, ngoba kuzokusiza ube nengqondo enempilo.
Phumula ulale
Ingqondo ekhathele ayisebenzi kahle, njengemisipha ekhathele ayisebenzi. Ukwenza izimfundiso futhi ukwazi ukuzikhumbula futhi ingqondo idinga ukuphumula futhi ilulame. Ngesikhathi somlindelo, wenza imisebenzi yokubuyisa lokho esikufundile futhi wakuhlanganisa, ngakho-ke ukuphumula kuyadingeka njengokusebenza kanzima lapho ufunda. Uma singakwazi ukuphumula kahle, ubuchopho bethu buzosebenza kancane kakhulu. Yingakho ukulala okuphumuzayo kubaluleke kangaka. Dala indawo ethule egumbini lakho lokulala bese uzama ukuthola amahora adingekayo wokulala usuku ngalunye.